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idk what to do anymore. theres this guy that i met last summer, we hooked up n stuff..then stopped keeping in touch for the longest time bcuz he lost his cell phone...when he finally saw me one day in april, we kept back in touch n everything..we started to hang out agian.. we began doing more things together..but i feel like hes using me. when we're alone together..hes different.. he seems so into me..like he really likes me. hes not one you can trust tho. some of my friends think hes bad news and dont want me hanging out with him n his friends anymore. for some reason i cant do that. hes coming back to my school next year. im going to see him n his friends everyday. i still sorta have feelings for him..i know im going to get hurt. last night i had fun with them..but as the night went on, he started acting diff. idk if i want to deal with him anymore. im starting to like his friends more than him. i told him how i felt..he denies that hes only using me..but i just cant seem to believe him. should i keep hanging out with them..knowing someday i might get hurt..or just end it never knowing what would've happend? please help me im so confused.
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Well if you tell him that you think he's using you, of course he will deny it, even if it were true. In any relationship you are going to take a chance, because anyone you give your love to could hurt you... no matter who it is. In this situation I'd say go with you instincts. Especially since you arent head-over-heals for this guy, you just kinda like him . Obviously your friends see something bad in him that you do too, make sure you figure out what that is and hope its not just fear of a relationship. :) Good Luck with that I hope everything turns out right!!
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ok you said it yourself...you know your gunna get hurt. dont do this to urself break off all ties with this guy. your friends are right hes bad news...sorry but its true. go for nicer guys so you dont even have to question whether they are using you or not!
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Well sweety I've been through that too don't worry! it's okay to be confused.. I'm not sayin it's totally normal for a guy to act like that. but remember he's a GUY and boys will be boys. you should be his friend for now and since he's goin to your school next year be his friend and see where this leads you. This doesn't mean you have to stop hangin out with him. but your friends MIGHT be right on this one. Try talkin to him again and tell him how you TRUELY feel. tell him whatta jerk he's bein to you and how different he's acting towards you when he's with his friends. Sweety even tell him that your startin to like his friends more then him. I HOPE I HELPED A LIL!!
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