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wanna get to kno him
im a 13 year old girl and i think i might like this guy who is in my summer school class.i am pretty sure he is 14.hes really cute and he seems really sweet but i cant be sure if that yet.i really REALLY wanna get to kno him. i wanna b friends with him and talk to him. how can i start getting to kno him and talking to him?
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Well, if you don't know his name, ask who he is. Just go up and say hi. If you sit sort of near him in this class, then make a funny remark if something happens. Ask him if he knows some band you really like. Just TALK to him. It doesn't really matter what it is. Just go introduce yourself, and have confidence...like you know who you are and you have a reason for coming up to him. Be friendly. Be interesting. Be yourself. The best guys'll appreciate you for being you, not just some brainless airhead who looks nice. At least say hi and introduce yourself, it'll either get him talking to you, or have a weird awkward silence- which will force awkward laughter and then a conversation. Either way...it works. Just go for it.
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I think that if you want to get to know this boy you should observe his likes and then if you find something you share the similar likeness for than start talking to him about that, or there is always the borrowing a pencil trick.
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This is an extremely ironic question for me. I hate when people giving advice tell their life story to help someone else's but this MIGHT actually help you, k? So just listen. One night at a dance after a football game, I saw this guy. I think I died, seriously. He was so gorgeous and out of my league. And he was dancing away in his own little world completely oblivous to anyone. I thought this was amazing, because of his confidence and everything. Well, weeks went by. I found out his name and everything. I made a friend of mine introduce us. But nothing really happened until try-outs. I really didn't think I could keep up a conversation, because this guy was SO popular, and so goreous, and super punk, and I thought no one like that would ever give me the time a day. So anyway. I sorta was around him alot. We talked. But I made sure I kept my distance, and wasn't near him ALL the time. A week later, he was following me everywhere, and soon enough we had a fling. (which died in a week by the way)But I found out we had alot in common, by talking to him. Just realizing that if he said something, I could follow him, by saying something that had relevance. Like, for instance, he let me go through his CDs, and he had a Warped Tour CD from last year. I freaked out in a subtle way, and said. "Wow, did you go on the Tour?" He's like..."Dude, I had my tickets and everything, but then my ride backed out, I was so pissed." I was like..."God that sucks. Bowling For Soup, was playing." And I found out how much he hates pop punk and what his music tastes were. And that was about 9 months ago. Now we're best friends. So the moral of this story is, you have to take interest in what he's talking about. And if you DON"T know what he's talking about, make sure you tell him that, and ask him to explain it to you (don't do this too often, it gets annoying) And he'll like it that you are taking interest in him. Talk about yourself a bit, that has to do with his interests. Like me. "I wanted dredlocks so bad, and I was all for the shaving my head thing, but then I went to Carytown and I saw this girl with a shaved head, and she was really pretty, but it didn't look well, so I'm not that pretty, so I couldn't deciede how bad that would look on me." He's like "OMG, I know that girl. I used to live in Carytown." And things just branched off from there. You see? You should find a guy where you can just go on and on with about stuff, and the conversation just flows. If this doesn't happen, maybe you should reconsider a different crush, unless you are considering only a fling with this guy.
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You should just go up to him and start talking. ask him questions...boys LOVE to talk about themselves!! or make a joke about summer school...like how boring ur teacher is or something. then after a while ask him if he wants to go to lunch or a movie or something.
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