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I have a really good friend and lately we have been getting into a lot of dumb little fights. I really want to try to talk to her about things but I'm afraid that we will get in another fight. I can't sleep at night because of everything happening. I think that we are loosing eachother and we always talk about it but it doesn't seem like it's working. All I do is cry every night knowing that it will never be the same.. help me! :-\ (link)
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Friends that hang out with eachother a lot do get into a lot of fights. I suggest just talking to her about it. Even if you think you'll get into another fight, talking about things is the best way to get through them. Why would you cry every night over it if you just "think" that you're losing eachother. It doesn't mean that you are just because you are gettin into fights. I wouldn't worry about it that much. It's normal. Maybe take a break for a while, hang out with other people but don't stop talking completely.
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Hey I am 13 and my boyfriend is like 17 and we went to this party and all these people were making out and he asked me if we wanted to go another step further and I said yes well we went back to his house because his parents were on vacation to hawaii then a couple weeks later i bought an ept test and it turned out positive. what should i do? i told him but he was shocked AND now he is totally avoiding me. What should I do...I mean I am way to scared to tell my mom...she'd kill me. Should I think about abortion?? PLEASE HELP ME!!!
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You really should tell your mom or at least someone u can trust so you can go to the doctor and make sure that it is actually a true positive. You really need to know and so does someone else. As for your boyfriend, he'll come around and find out that if it is actually positive .. then he should be there for you .. cause you will need his help. I know it'll be hard, but it really needs to be done. It's gunna be a scary experience and i hope that it all works out. Good luck and if i could, I would help you with anything you needed.
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Hey I am 14 and I have 3 boyfriends One who is 15-TIM, 17-MATT, and 21-JAMES. Is this wrong? Some of my friends think so but I don't I think it's fun! -?????- (link)
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u may think its fun now but in the end u will regret it. sooner or later they are gunna find out about the other guys. if u need to pick one, pick the one who has always made u laugh, the one that always brightened ur day, n then one u kno that ur relationships will last a long time.
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ok here's the deal, my bestfriend and i have known each other for about a year and a half, we dated for a long time before he told me that he wasn't in love with me, the thing is, we are "friends with benefits" and i'm ok with that, it's just it's hard because i am totally 100% crazy in love with him and i want to be with him and date him again and i'm not sure if he wants the same thing. he said that he was going to think about us getting back together but i'm not really sure that he wants to. what should i do?? please help (link)
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Friends with beinifits always turns out with someone falling for the other person but the best adive I can give you is to just wait to see how he feels about you. If he doesn't feel the same, there's not much you can do. You can't make someone love you just make sure he doesn't use you. If it's too hard for you to continue this "friends with benifits" thing 'cause you like him to much then -stop- and don't let him use you by getting with you just for the benifits.
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Hey I am having a problem deciding what high school i am going to go too. See one of my best friends and I were planning to go to the same high school but but now I am having second thoughts but I don't want to tell my friend cuz I don't want her to get mad at me What should I do? lost (link)
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tell her the truth, let her know that u want to go to a different school. of coarse she will be mad at first but when it comes to best friends she will underdstand ur choice if its really what u want.
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Hey Theres this new girl in my grade but I don't know what to think of her because she has been tellin ppl stuff thats not so gr8 and I am not sure is true and different ppl have heard different storis about the same thing. I talk to her on aim and she seems really nice... what should I do? (link)
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talk to her in person so u can see her face and so u can tell if she is lieing or not. get to kno her first so then if u ask her then she wont get mad at u. or if u really get to kno her then u could pretty much guess if the stories are true.
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ok this guy is my friend but he just told me he liked me. he sed: i like u and i care about u but u if u dont feel the same way about me than fuck it well be friends. he seemed mad about it but i couldnt tell cuz he sed it over the internet. idk wut to say.cuz hes cute and i like him as a friend and i do care about him but not that away. but he liked my sister a couple of months ago and i didnt like that. and now idk wut to say. please answer soon.
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Well, the best thing to do is to tell him how you feel. just say straight out that you just like him as a friend and you dont want to ruin the friendship that you both have, but this time do it in person or on the phone so you can hear his tone and the expression in his voice. make sure you state that you do care about him and you jsut want to be friends, make sure your straightfoward and honest. don't be afraid to say something that may hurt his feelings if its comming from the heart.
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okay... i went out with this guy a few months ago, and then we broke up.. ever since then i have liked him a lot.. but when people ask me if i like him juss say no. now my other friend likes him a lot and wants to go out with him, i wanna go out with him too.. but i dont want her to be mad at me.. or think that i juss like him cuz she does. what should i do?
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u should talk to ur friend and let her know how u feel about him and see if she would be ok if u went out with him. thats all that u can really do.
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not sure lol sry
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i really like this guy alot. And he tells me im gorgous and that he likes me too. Then we went to the movies with me and my best friend. And the next day he ends up liking my best friend instead of me! should i move on? or what should i do? (link)
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I think he was just in it to play along, you should definitely move on there are waaaaaaaay other guys in the world dont let one hold you back from the rest
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ok well like i supposivly used to be ugly i guess.. cuz like now im supposivle pretty.. lol but like is that good for like when guys see me and are like uh yah you look soo much better?? cuz i mean thats obviously saying no i didnt like yuo in school but now i guess your okay?? (link)
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Some guys just say things like that to get some action or something... I dont think that feelings would change that fast just over looks...or they shouldnt anyways
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ok...my best friend is mad at me because i tried talking her into going back to my church because she has done some bad stuff lately. I apologized and told her i like her for who she is but she wont talk to me...now what do i do? (link)
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Tell her your sorry and that's all you can be, and the apology is there if she ever wants to except it... there really isnt anything else you can do
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Im 14 female..okay my bff steph n i are....soooo close we go on vacas together n my mom is like her second mom since her family life isnt so good..she is like my sister..we have been through hell n back together n i know i can tell her anything!! shes such a great friend! but...well lately we have been drifting..we r kinda going seperate ways i think..im into school..im going to summer school to get a highschool credit n she wont go..she missed 49 days from school last year n yeah..so im into school n shes not..plus our moms are 2 TOTALLY diff. ppl...well it sux bc i kinda do feel like we r drifting n part is bc of this guy..he is my ex b/f(which by tha way im ova completley bc of his nasty additude!!!)..i have knwon him fer 3 1/2 years n she has been "close" with him for 1 1/2 or so..well he is a big time PLAYA!!! n her and i both know it..but him n her have some special realtionship...n right now they r REALLLLLY close..but i know he is guna end up hurting her..n sumtimes she will bring it up like how much of an ass he is being to her n shell just laugh n say "o-well ill learn sum day!" but i knwo she is guna come running baq to me hurt AGAIN fer tha 6th time..n it just gets irratating..i wanna talk to her but i dont think she'll listen..im not sure what to do....?!?!?!?!? plz help thannnnnx! much luv! (link)
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Just tell her you dont wanan see her get hurt again, tell her you dont like that your best friends keeps getting hurt... n let her kno that u feel that u guys are goin seperate ways..she what she thinks
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about a week ago.. a couple of my close friends (4 of em) well tha one i neva realy liked messaged me on tha computer.. and started to call me a slut and a whore.. and say all this other stuff dat deff waznt tru! it pissed me offf sooooooooooooooo bad.. i started ta say otha stuff that i really shuldnta said but wen ur called all of that stuff u jus get mad! tha next day one of tha girls told me she neva really said ne of it.. then at a party all of em said sorry again.. except tha one i alwayz hated.. i forgave them.. but do u think it was right to forgive them after what they did?
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Well if they said sorry then maybe you should... I dunno it depends on the person and what's happened in the past with you and the person
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my best friend really likes this guy, and she never told me that she liked him, so i had no idea! And now she like hates me because, i started liking him. She thinks that i started liking him just to piss her off, and that's not true! How am i supposed to convince her that i had no idea she liked him?
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Tell her you're sorry and that you wouldnt have started liking him if you would have known that she liked him, just sit down and talk to her, if shes ur best friend she will understand
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I'm 13 ans my boyfriend is 17 is that wrong? I love him and he loves me and he is super nice to me and does not nag me about sex he said its all up to me and we have talked about all that! So is it wrong????
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Age really doesn't matter, maybe to people around your age it does but when you get a little older it wouldn't matter at all, most girls like older guys anyways...
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my dad raped me. should i tell my mom, he said he would hrt me if i did. what do i do? thanx, gracie
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Yeah tell your mom, ask her not to say anything to him about it, go to the police, once he is in their hands he wont be able to hurt you...
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So I've always been attracted to other gitls.I don't think guys are attractive at all.I have had ex b/fs and stuff but I think girls are hot not guys.Does this mean I'm a lesbian?Do you think its wrong?
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Well feelings change... You may be a "lesbian" now but who knows that might change... It's not anyones say in whether its right or wrong, you just do what makes you happy
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Choose one or the other 4 each question!!
Chad Michael Murray or Johnny Depp??
Ruben or Clay??
Bush or Kerry??
Hilary Duff or Lindsay Lohan??
Apple or Banana??
Ben Affleck or Matt Damon??
Paris Hilton or Jessica Simpson??
Chicken or Tuna??
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Chad Michael Murray!! whoa! hottie!
Ruben!! clay is gay!
not into politics
Lindsay Lohan!! hilarys 2 much of a glamour girl
Apples!!! green ones!
Ben Affleck!! hes a good actor!
Paris Hilton shes not a dumb blonde like
jessica! lol
Chicken!! :)
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I'm pretty sure that i'm depressed because I never want to talk to anyone. I don't want to deal with getting in a fight or something with them and all I want to do is like watch tv or something. I don't know it's hard to explain I just like don't want to talk to people anymore. Am I depressed? (link)
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yeah ur depressed...kinda..its ok if u dont wanna talk to any1. every1 has that stage where they just wanna be alone. which is when they want a councler. now we all know that they are not the funnest but they help us. maybe u should consider one.
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