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okay... i went out with this guy a few months ago, and then we broke up.. ever since then i have liked him a lot.. but when people ask me if i like him juss say no. now my other friend likes him a lot and wants to go out with him, i wanna go out with him too.. but i dont want her to be mad at me.. or think that i juss like him cuz she does. what should i do?
-confused :(
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Well the only reason why you say no is because you are scarred he may not like you. Talk to your friend about it and see what she says she needs to know friends do come first and so do you.-trix
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just be honest w. her. no real friendshipwould be ruined over a guy. she might get irritated at first but she'll get over it. she deserves the thruth, i mean wouldnt you wanan know if u were in her position? jus tell her u like him n neitherof u shuld date him tho until the other honestly doesnt care
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well 1st of all .. ask urself do u relii like him enough to risk ur friend bein mad at u bc i kno that sum ppl have different feelings for sumone b4 u go out with them nd then u kinda loose sum of those feelings wen u go out with them .. kinda like wen u cant have him u want him more but im not sayin everyone has that problem .. but if u relii like him then tell ur friend that u still have feelings for him and that u were tryin to hide them but now that she likes him u have to let her kno im sure she will understand if she doesnt then shes not a good friend but u needa find out if this kid still likes u too - if not then wuts the sense of even tellin ur friend
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u should talk to ur friend and let her know how u feel about him and see if she would be ok if u went out with him. thats all that u can really do.
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TO: -confused :(
tell your frend your predicament...i mean the least you can do is like confide in her and stuff so at least she understands wats been going on and stuff like thah...theres no prob with the two of you liking the same person...ya noe?
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hi, well i think u should talk to ur friend...n tell her how u feel..tell her that u've always liked him n u always wanted to b wit him n everything..i bet she will understand (if she's a tru friend n plus i mean he is ur ex..n if she is ur friend...sh should'nt go out wit him unless she asks u n u dont have a problem wit it) ;) i dunno dats my opinion though :) xoxo effy good luck
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well juss double check if she REALLY wants u to go out wif hm and if so go for it!!
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