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this guy is my friend but....
ok this guy is my friend but he just told me he liked me. he sed: i like u and i care about u but u if u dont feel the same way about me than fuck it well be friends. he seemed mad about it but i couldnt tell cuz he sed it over the internet. idk wut to say.cuz hes cute and i like him as a friend and i do care about him but not that away. but he liked my sister a couple of months ago and i didnt like that. and now idk wut to say. please answer soon.
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ok...well, u should say that you like him too, but just as friends. Say that maybe things will change in the future. If he cant understand that then i dont think he's a very good friend. But in your heart i know that you know what is right.
Follow your heart.
Hope this helps,
Ashley
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Hun if you don't feel like being nothing more than friends than keep it as friends let him no that having a friend relationship is worth more than anything to you and you woulddn't wanna risk taking a chance at a relationship cause you may lose a realllly good friend that you care about (being him)
Hope i helped if i didn't i'm sorry :(
<3~Nikki~<3
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Hey hun! wats up
it sounds like this guy really mite like u but if u dont like him just tell him that u dont have the same feeling for him but u REALLY stil want to b frends! if he gets mad hopefully he will get over it if hes a good frend, he will!about the sister thing u should mention that in ur explanation of not liking him it might help him understand a lil. make sure that u only like him as a frend and then try this! good luck! write to me sum time!
<3 fran
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Just tell him you odnt want to risk the friendship you to have.. let him no its speacial to you-trix
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Well, the best thing to do is to tell him how you feel. just say straight out that you just like him as a friend and you dont want to ruin the friendship that you both have, but this time do it in person or on the phone so you can hear his tone and the expression in his voice. make sure you state that you do care about him and you jsut want to be friends, make sure your straightfoward and honest. don't be afraid to say something that may hurt his feelings if its comming from the heart.
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If you guys were friends b4 then you know that you can trust him. If you didn't like that he liked your sister, that probly means that u were a lil bit jelous. Maybe you should giuve him a chance. Heck if he was cute i would. lol.
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if u dont like him that way juss tell him cuz its better to juss tell him than keep him waiting then see his reactions and reassure him hell get over u and find sum1 else and u REALLY wanna stay friends and how much u lyke being friends and wana stay that way ~rate me~
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well just tell him how you feel then see his reaction but remember that you guys will still be friends and you can still talk to him but if you have a crush on him then tell him cuz you already know that he got a crush on you and the thing about your sister tell him how you felt about that and see if his fellings were for real
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Okay .. i think you should be honest w/ him all the way! Tell him how you feel .. that you think hes a great guy and hes cute but tell him since he liked ur sister u dont wanna interfere w/ anything..and if he doesnt like it then hes not such a great friend, believe me i jus went thru the same thing w/ me and my sister and i dont even talk to the guy that liked me and her at the same time so it really depends on how he reacts w/ what you say whether or not u should still be friends w/ him! .. Good luck :)
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