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Always takes a beating..


Question Posted Sunday July 18 2004, 12:34 pm

My husband beats me, I'm scared I might die. I need advice! Call the cops or not? He has $, he could just bail himself out!...

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Brunettebabe14234 answered Tuesday July 20 2004, 6:42 pm:
*have u ever seen enough .. well u should watch it try getting advice and while he is jail try t
o run away*

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KoTaKiTtAy44 answered Tuesday July 20 2004, 6:34 pm:
call the cops!!! thats not right that he takes advantage of you and thinks he can just hit you!! you could get a restraining order also *hope i helped* <3/Dakota

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kevin1986 answered Monday July 19 2004, 2:48 am:
It doesn't matter. You shouldn't have to take that. A lot of abuse isn't reported because women feel they're powerless. They're not,the police will protect you. If he's beating you,then he'll probably beat your children too. Do you want to put yourself and your kids(if you have any)in that kind of danger? Tell the cops and don't let him keep doing this to you. Stay with somebody you trust if you have to,divorce this guy,and find someone who will love and respect you.

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texangirl01 answered Sunday July 18 2004, 2:00 pm:
call the cops...don't be scared of him! he is just a human like you are and even if he does have money and can bail himself out...you can still get a restraining order and he cant come near you or he will go right back to jail. Go stay with a family member or something..if you have family far away or out of state then go there! Get a divorce lawyer and get as far away from him as possible..don't be scared!!!!!!

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superstar10 answered Sunday July 18 2004, 1:54 pm:
definitely call the cops...if he gets out and u think that he might come after you take him to court. or move. do anyhting in your will to get away from him. good luck...i hope i helped..

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xsweetpeax answered Sunday July 18 2004, 1:50 pm:
you should call the copsz and yesz he can bail himself out but itsz better to qet him awaiie from you for somethiime . . althouqh it may be hard you can qo into a witnesz protection proqram to make shuree you are safe and so that you wont have to run from ur husband your whole life, you may also want to take up some self protection classesz so that you can learn how to fiqht back if he comesz near you. Try watchinq the moviie enouqh it showsz the same situation as yoursz . . hope i helped rate me please =)

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punk4lyfe answered Sunday July 18 2004, 1:39 pm:
hey ummm i dont no if u ever saw the movie enough and if u have well i am not telling u that u have to kill ur husbend. and dont! but when she finally went to a attorney it was to late to do ne thing b/c she never filed a complaint on him or called the police. ok well if i was u i would definatly call the police and show them proof. i am sure that they will take him into custody and then yes he might bail himself out but before he does i would leave as quick as possible. but i mean i dont want u to live ur life running from ur husbend!! and im sure the police will do something about that. after a while hopefully he leaves u alone!! good luck! i am really srry.

punk4lyfe

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S_C answered Sunday July 18 2004, 1:19 pm:
the best i can think of is to go to the police
after he beats u so u have the bruises to prove it

Have u ever seen the movie Enough with Jennifer Lopez, if not then that'll be a good thing to watch, see what she does after she can't take her husbands beatings

you go to the cops, get the info, get a RESTRAINIG order, and if he cumz near u call the cops, but really i don't like restraining orders, cuz will u have enuff strenght to even call the cops after he beats u when he gets outta jail? Not trying to scre u, but this is big

Do you have ne friends he doesn't kno, or is there a way where u can go sumwhere w/o him finding out

u need to get divorced, and get seperate checking accounts

WATCH THE MOVIE ENOUGH WITH JLO, she's in the same situation as you, well except she kills the guy in the end, but i don't think u should do that, Learn Karate or sumthin, so if he starts beatin u, u can have self defense, then it'd be legal to kill him.

Not tryin to joke around, take any other suggestions offered to you!!

Hope all works will, and his but gets in Jail with NO bail, or a REALLY HIGH AMOUNT of bail money!!

Hope there's not a kid involved, if so then u have big trouble, and if so has he ever tainted him/her?

ILLEGAL, well Hope this helps
and hope u get the Heck outta there safely!!

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LiDdLeEcApUtOxO answered Sunday July 18 2004, 1:18 pm:
well this is relii bad .. wut u needa do is call the cops rite away b4 this gets even worse and if he bails himself out u needa get a restraining order on him and protect urself and make sure u change locks on ur door and get an alarm system in ur house - save urself = )

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cowsoink answered Sunday July 18 2004, 12:58 pm:
ok well u should call the cops and if he can bail himself out then file fro a restaning order and get a devorce!!!=-)i hope i helped u
~Amber~

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BleedingHeart answered Sunday July 18 2004, 12:55 pm:
Get out of there!Call the cops.So what if he has money to bail himself out.They can put a restraining order on him.Just get out of there.

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sp4rklingr4in answered Sunday July 18 2004, 12:53 pm:
I would call the cops. If he beats you then I think that it's time he got a beating for once. You should feel more comfortable around your husband, not in fear that he may kill you.

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Mel answered Sunday July 18 2004, 12:52 pm:
Just because he's your husband doesn't make it okay. You need to get out, go live with a friend, and get some help. Yes, call the cops. It doesn't matter if he has money. That's not the issue. LET him bail himself out of jail, that's fine. You just need to get out of there and get a restraining order. Good luck.

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x0x_kayla_x0x answered Sunday July 18 2004, 12:45 pm:
I'm not answering bc you rate im answering bc you need to leave him! My dad beat my mom and it was soo hard watching that...if you have kids with this man then hes going to most likely beat them to! You need to just take time away from him..talk to your mom see if you can go stay with her for a little while! But don't call the cops JUST yet bc if he has money then he will just get himself out of jail or worse..he will deny it all!

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