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Okay , me and my boyfriend was talkin on ta phone and he asked me to marry him(AND AT A YOUNG AGE TOO) and I said no , was it the right thing to do ???were both 15.he aint mad but he is kinda sad , he said he wanted to be with me forever,and I let him down. was it the right thing to do??? (link)
I definitly think it was the right thing to do. and don't worry too much about him being sad since u can't do things to make other people happy if you are not sure or ready to do them for you. you should always do what is right for YOU.
Marriage is a huge commitment and should be thought out completely. Personally (i'm near ur age) i've promised my self that since marraige is such a huge commitment i will not say yes unless i'm like 90-95% sure(i'd like to say 100% but there is never a way to be 100 % sure) and if i have the least doubt i would say no.
As i was saying about ur boyfriend maybe u can talk to him and explain why u said no maybe he can understand ur decision then.


I feel that my father is cheating on my mother. There are some obvious signs, and I'm not sure on whether or not I should confront him about it. (I'm thirteen.)

1) There have been small pieces of paper in front of the family computer with porno sites on them.

2) I have seen porno links on the computer's history.

3) At strange times of the day, his 'work' cellphone rings, and on the phone's interface it reads 'private call.'

4) I went onto the computer one day, seeing that a Singles website was completely filled out with my father's information.

My feelings are mixed--it could all just be a coincidence, and if it isn't, should I confront him about it or would I just be getting in the way? Please help me guys.

xoxoxox,
Constantly Confused (link)
I don't know you and your family but I can tell you what I would do in your situation:
A. I would confront my dad and get him to explain to me what is going on,
-if he:
1. admits to cheating on my mother i'd tell him to tell my mother and work it out between them. if he refused to tell my mother i'd tell my mother and let it go from there.
2. if he refuses to talk to me and explain and i felt pretty confident about my suspicions(which i would if i saw all the things u listed) i would tell my mom.

But remember things are not always what they seem definiatly give your dad a chance to explain. Good Luck.


I need to no is there any where i can go on the net and make my own homepage for free and can copy and paste pictures on it? pleez help and answer asap! thanx! i rate! (link)
try:
http://www.xanga.com
http://www.livejournal.com
http://www.photobucket.com/


Should I have sex with my boyfriend even though he's 20 and I'm 16? (link)
First of all you should check the laws in your state to make sure it's legal, i'm sure if you're thinking of having sex with the guy you care enough about him so that you don't want to take a chance of him ending up in jail.

Second i can not answer this question for you since i have no idea what your feelings are for him or who you are, in the end it is your choice. But i recommend thinking about if you are ready, sex is a big step in life and in a realationship. If you don't feel ready, pressured, or even the least bit unsure i recommend not having sex since you may have regrets later and it won't be worth it then. You should be sure about your feelings for the guy and where your realationship is going.

Other than that as always in life your on your own and have to make your own choice. I hope i helped you. Good luck deciding.




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