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i havnt been on this website in an extremely long time, but one day i decided to return. hello its me, although most of you probably either dont remember me or have never heard of me before.
hello, im bullwinkel, some people call me sparrow on certain occations. i guess im an all round ok person...but i dont know. if you want to know more about me, visit my myspace at www.myspace.com/amandabullwinkel or my picture trail at www.picturetrail.com/bullwinkel138

all my information is there. my screename is bullwinkel138
feel free to IM me whenever. im easy going, i dont care...
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Ok someone please help. I'm in this play and at one point I'm supposed to lose my voice. My director told me to scream for a few minutes, but that's not working. Is there any other way to help "lose your voice"?? Please help!! (link)
never try to lose your voice, it isnt safe and can cause a lot of damage, beleive me. the best way is to try to develope a raspy accent in which it sounds like you dont have much of a voice. USE ACTING! tell your director you dont feel safe losing your voice and that it isnt healthy. but its your choice.


Well, one of my best friend, her friend keep flirting with her boyfriend. it really pisses her off, cuz it isnt like your verbal flirting, even though that some things are deffinately not meant to say. She ((my best friend's friend)) like rubs with arm and she like backs off whenever Kelsey ((my best friend)) comes back. I want to know how to help my best friend whenever she needs it because she needs it, if she doesnt do something, she'll explode from anger or something. (link)
the best bet, and im talking about something someone would actually do in real life, is to bring it up to her in a joking osrt of way. while you guys are talking about it, jokingly. just kind of say, i saw you flirting with her boyfriend.
this gets over the uncomfortable-ness of bringing it up. if it really is serious, just talk to her about it. there has to be somekind of reasoning behind her behavior. i hope everything works out for you.
stay classy
-bullwinkel


Okay I'm 13 years old and a female. Yesterday I noticed a small bump on my left breast, near the nipple. It sometimes hurts when I touch it but it also looks somewhat like a pimple. I'm really worried that this could be breast cancer. There is no history in my family of having breast cancer. Do you think it's cancer?

Thanks! =]

All advice is appreciated! (link)
its most likely not breast cancer. i dont beleive you can get breast cancer if you havent started your period yet. i dont know if you have or not, but its just a thought. your breast are still developing, and that mignt add to the feeling of uneavenness. it also may just be a pimple. i know i get them sometimes in that region, as well as many other girls. dont be embarrased to ask your mom; moms get amazingly flattered when you ask them shit like that. oh well, that the best i could do.
stay classy
-bullwinkel


alright, this is really confusing but ill rate really high. alright, i told my friend bobby that i liked my bf garrett ALOT! so bobby asked me on a scale 1-10 how much i liked him, and i said 8. so then he was talking to garrett and he told him i only liked him a little bit. and that i gave him a 4! how dumb is that. y would he say that? so last night garrett told me that bobby said that and i was really mad. i mean i told garrett that that wasnt wat i said but i didnt tell him the REAL number. so now i think he is mad. i want to tell him wat my number really was but i dont know how to bring it up or how to say it....im so confused....HELP ME HELP ME HELP ME PLEASE! (link)
maybe bobby secretly has a crush on you, or maybe he thinks that you shoudnt go out with garret because, well forever reason. i think the best way to get over this probbem is to talk to bobby and ask him personaly what happend, and why it happend. hope i could help


how would i be able to tell if im prenant? i cant get a pregnant test cuz my mom is alwayas near me but what are ealry symptoms only advice no lecures plz thanx (link)
well and abvious one is that your period stops completely. another rather important one is the soreness of your breast, like they were sore before you started your period when you were young. i guess some other ones are weird cravings, sensitive smell, feeling natious, kind of like morning sickness... those are just a few that i have heard of. its probably best to go to the doctor first. womans pregnacy is very personal, and there are clinics that can keep it personal and lowkey. your mom may not find out. but it is best to tell your mom, she has been through this and probably has more answers than anyone could give you on an advice website. hope i could help.
peace.


my cat is breathing hard and his mouth is partly open. and hes just lying on his side a lot! he went into the bathroom and just layed there under the sink for a long time. is he dying? or is it because of the hot weather? When my hamster was dying, she was just lying around and breathing hard. please answer imidiatly. i love my cat. (link)
chances are your cat is just hot. kind of like dogs, how they pant. and shes probably in the bathroom because of the cold tile. i hae cats and whenever its hot they are always in the kitchen or the bathroom or something. but if you are really worried, take him/her to the vet and get checked out. hope i could help.
stay classy


Is there any way to get music for free at all? I think I heard something about CD's or something...I don't want to have to pay all that money for songs!! =/ (link)
I used to be an active kazaa user, but now its up illeagal, and it wasnt even working towards the end. try limewire. just google search it. it should be the first or second link. it works really well, and really fast. its free too and leagal. so dont worry.
stay classy


I have my best friends Bar mitzvah this weekend. I dont know wat to wear or how to do my hair!!!!!!!!! Help me! (link)
wear something that is dressy but not REALLY dressy. try a skirt and a blazer and flats with a really outlandish pin. and make sure to wear pretty comfortable shoes because although it doesnt seem like it, the after party can be a lot of fun, as far as hair goes, put a flower in it or just leave it down. do what you feel!!
hope i could help!


Me and my friends are having a sleepover this weekend what sort of things can we do besides the usual stuff like watch movies? any ideas? thankyou xxx (link)
Well, i have found that just talking, even if you dont know everyone that well, can REALLY help you bond and also have a lot of fun while learning about eachother. try asking questions like " whats the worste thing you have ever done," " what is your biggest fear", even stuff like "whats your favorite movie". plus, you can get creative and paint or make stuff, go toilet papering, go to the hot guys house down the street and mess with him or just hang out and sing along with the mussic...
be creative...
hope i could help!


Ok, about a month ago I noticed a small lump around my crotch.. I have just noticed it getting bigger.. Its about 5mm long, and 2mm high.. what do you think it is? could it possibly be cancer? if so.. what sort?

17/m (link)
Hunny, advicenators is not a website of doctors...GO SEE ONE!!! GOOD LUCK!! hope i could help!


how long does it take to lose 30 pounds if all you are eating is fruit?(grapes, peaches, plums, watermelon, oranges, bananas, salad, cucumbers). (link)
i know this isnt an answer to your question but a diet only consisting of fruit may not be the best choice when it comes to your actaul nutrition. you may not be getting everything that you need from food. if you insist on doing a fruit diet, maybe consider taking a vitamen suppliment, or asking your doctor. But a good alternative diet is the south beach diet. my parents are on it and in the first 3 weeks(as long as you follow the diet completely and excersize)you can lose 20 pounds in about 2-3 weeks. my dad lost about 21, my mom 18. so good luck, stay healthy. hope i could help!


i was just wonderin... well i just got my period for the first time yesterday and i wanted to know how many pads your supposed to go trough it one day? (link)
well it depends on how heavy your flow is. sometimes you have to change them every 2 or 3 hours, but some times, you cqn leave them on for almost 7 hours. but change them after 8 hours deffinutly, it can start to smell, plus, it can leasd to bad hygene n stuff. hope i could help!!


So I like this guy and everyone knows except him, and I am friends with him and all and I really have no idea what to do!! help!! (link)
Chances are that is everyone knows, he probably knows too...but, i think that it would be a really good idea to still confront him yourself so he knows that it isnt a rumor, if he knows it at all. if you are shy, you could write him a note. its sometimes not the best thing to do but since you are aquaintenses with one another,it mignt be a little more comfortable for you and maybe even him. just be honest. even if he doesnt like you back, he will realize how confident you are and then maybe change his mind, or realize what a cool girl you are. if he doesnt, then hes probably not mature enough or not worth the fuss. hope i could help!!


I like this guy right, but he is in 7th grade and im in 6th. i really do like him and hes very cute, and hes sooo nice and funny. sometimes i think i may love him.i joke around and call him babe and hun and hottie and all those things but i really dont know if i should ask him out or wait till we meet in person. but im not that pretty amand so im afraid to wait.please help! (link)
UMMK...this is not negative but your in 6th grade and you claim you love him?? HUNNY, dont rush it, you still an adolecent, just have fun with your tween years. When you become a teenager,things will be CRAZY!!! TRUST ME!!
but, if you must jump the gun, well heck, i guess its good to have a little fun here and there. Just be confident and make conversation. BE YOURSELF AND BE TRUE TO YOURSELF!! hope i could help!


I really really wont to ask this guy out but we really dont talk that much and he always goes out with the popular Girls I dont really know if I should get over it or what plz help

Feedback does count (link)
JUST BE CONFIDENT!! and be yourself. just talk to him and be freindly, and smile, and make sure to make eye contact! He will think your powerful and confident. when we are older, relationships wont run on if your popular or not. so, if he really is mature, and worth keeping, he will see you for who you are and not who you hang out with or what you wear!! hope i could help!!


what's the best shaving razor to use for legs? (link)
You kinda have to expiriment with some different razors, depending on your skin and all that stuff. Personally, razors like Venus, although expensive work really well!! Plus another tip, especially if you have sesitive skin, try using the underarm/bakini shave gel on your legs, it makes them really smooth and less irritable!! hope i could help!


okay, i'm going to a big party tongiht and i don't know how to wear my hair and what to wear!? i have like medium length hair. (brown) please give me ideas! i wanna look really hott tonight! ahha i know that sounds ffunny but i want people to be like wow when i walk in the door. lol please give me ideas asap thanks!! (link)
Just wear your hair down, maybe flip it out, make it really light and fluffy so that if anyone runs into you by accident, they will go, "dude, her hair is really soft" for makeup, dont wear too much, but if the party is dancing(im guessing in the dark, wear black eyeliner and black mascara, so that even in the dark people will look into your eyes.about clothing, wear something comfortable but pretty, like that one pair of jeans that every girl should have that make her butt look really good...teehee. And for a top, wear something reviling but not slutty or trashy. just ba comfortable, make jokes and have a great time...that will truly amke you hot!!! hope i could help!


In drama class I have to do a mimeing skit thats at least 45 seconds long...but I'm not sure what do, if any of you have good ideas or some websites it would be very helpful!

***I rate 5's for GOOD answers not joke ones***

Thanks

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in my theatre class in 7th grade we had to do a kitchen mime scene. for instance, i made pancakes and my freind made smoothies. it mignt sound kind of stupid, but its really easy and it works. hope i could help.


I'm 13 years old and a girl, and I'm about 4'1'', and i think 77 lbs. is this average or what? And also, is there anything I can do to help myself grow faster? or 'mature'? I'm not very large chested; I'm about a 32AA, and fairly skinny.
thanks
-short stuff (link)
Dude...im 13 and im only 5 foot, but dont worry, its not short. you dont stop growing until all of your secondary sexual organs have grown in i.e. breasts, armpit hair...all that fun stuff. the thing that you should be concerned about is your weight...77 pounds is DANGEROUSLY skinny.
but about the height and boobie thingy...just dont worry, that anxiety is part of being teen. hope i could help.


People say I'm skinny, but I think I could lose weight. I'm 13/f, and weight 108 pounds. Is this a little overweight? (link)
UMMMMK!! this is a a stupid thing to be worrying about. your only 13 and our bodies change. so even if you were over weight, which your not, it doesnt necisarily mean you are fat for the rest of your life. just stay healthy, and enjoy youth. and by the way...YOUR NOT FAT!!!:) hope i could help!!




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