okay my friend is like my bffffeaeaeaeaeea but like she is kinda slutty like she has soo many peircings and like she flirts with all my x bf! and im scared that the next boy i care about she will try to make a move on him. wut should i do? i mean she is my best friend for ever and i love her to death! but she tells me that she would never hook up with one of my xes or wit someone i like alot so please help me out her asap
DorkyJay27 answered Wednesday July 14 2004, 7:52 pm: If she is your bff and cares for you like you do her, then believe her words when she tells them to you. Another thing you can do is tell her what she has done and how afraid you are that she might make a move on your next boyfriend, and just kinda ask her to tone it down a lil when your with your boyfriend.hope i helped [ DorkyJay27's advice column | Ask DorkyJay27 A Question ]
superstar10 answered Wednesday July 14 2004, 5:31 pm: well im sure everyone has already told u this but talk to her. just tell her wut ur feeling about the whole situation. and mayb that is just how she is. she just likes hanging out with the guys. some ppl are like that. but if u do start dating a guy or seeing him or w/e and u think she is gonna just go between them. and dont take that from her if she keeps doing it. but then again u shouldnt let a guy come between to really close friends. so its up to u. [ superstar10's advice column | Ask superstar10 A Question ]
xosweetpea03 answered Wednesday July 14 2004, 5:24 pm: you really just have to talk to your friend and tell her how you feel - dont insult her by telling her about her negative looksz nd stuff - nd if that doesnt work maybe you should not hang out with her or tell her who you like
k2bratty14 answered Wednesday July 14 2004, 5:22 pm: i think you should sit her down and explain to her how you feel about the whole situation and if she doesnt understand then she doesnt understand you and you should be careful [ k2bratty14's advice column | Ask k2bratty14 A Question ]
XxbabiixdanielLexX answered Wednesday July 14 2004, 5:20 pm: Wow this is tough but if she says she wont hook up with any of ur xes than u need to trust what she says, i mean she iz ur bffeaea rite? But if it really starts to bother u or does something bad, tell her how ur feeling and just hope she understands! [ XxbabiixdanielLexX's advice column | Ask XxbabiixdanielLexX A Question ]
chelseaw285 answered Wednesday July 14 2004, 2:14 pm: tell her that you dont appriciate her flirting with all your x's! explain how you love her to death..but you want her to stop before you both get hurt. my friend is like that too, i know how it is.
bAhAmAmA0250 answered Wednesday July 14 2004, 2:00 pm: Talk to her about it and tell her you dont like what your seeing or what she is doing and maybe find another friend that does like this either and the both of you could confront her about it so its not so hard and your not alone-trix [ bAhAmAmA0250's advice column | Ask bAhAmAmA0250 A Question ]
Geenie_Baby answered Wednesday July 14 2004, 1:57 pm: hey i think you should talk ta her and be honest with her and tell her how you feel about what she does since your her friend and friends are honest with each other and so tell her how your feelin but make sure that what you tell her she wont take the wrong way. [ Geenie_Baby's advice column | Ask Geenie_Baby A Question ]
BlueEyedBlondie725 answered Wednesday July 14 2004, 1:57 pm: Since you guys are best friends, you should trust her on her word. That she won't hook up with your ex boyfriend or someone you care about. But, she does flirt alot, so that may lead your ex boyfriend or someone you care about to like her. And that wouldn't be good. Maybe she doesn't realize she flirts with everyone. Try talking to her about it and saying "I don't know if you notice this or not, but you flirt with a lot of guys, which doesn't bother me, but I just don't want you to flirt with a guy that I care about a lot because then they might start to like you instead because you are flirting, do you think you can watch who you flirt with?" Say something like that and just how you feel about this situation. She should understand since you are being nice about it and you guys are friends. Hope this helps! =D
xxhotsexycutiexx answered Wednesday July 14 2004, 1:52 pm: well make sure that the one u like u tell her that u like him a lot...n everything n if she flirst wit him tell her how u feel n that u dont relly like it when she flirst wit him or w/e she will understand n try to keep away from him if she is ur close close friend...;) so good luck xoxo effy [ xxhotsexycutiexx's advice column | Ask xxhotsexycutiexx A Question ]
united_python_cheerleader answered Wednesday July 14 2004, 1:51 pm: Well talk to her about it and see if she understands .... tell her you LOVE HER TO DEATH but you are just scared ( anybody would be scared )
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