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heyness! Regina here! whats up everyone! lol well if ya gots n e ?'s you can always ask muah! lol well i love to shop g2 tha beach musq party dance phone i love hockey football volleyball i lyke soccer and tha list goes on lol well IM me er e-mail me er look @ mai Xanga! lyl xoxoxo
~Regina~
Website: Mai Xanga
E-mail: pinknessbabe10@yahoo.com
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Location: VA
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ok, i like this guy. and he knows i like him too. but he wont go for it! is there something i should do to like...give him a push to asking me out or something? please help!!! (link)
ask him out!


ok this is wicked embarassing but im a 14 year old boy and im not alot like my friends. i get scared wicked easily. i hate it! i hav panick attax wen im outside in the dark.after i saw the movie The Village(which sucked) i couldnt get those creatures out of my head and ive had a hard time sleeping ever since. wen me and my friend saw it i kept grabbing the arms on the seat(not his arms of course} and he kept asking me if i was feeling ok and he sed that my face was all white and harfly ever blinked. i just wanna no how i can stop being afraid so that wen i c a scary movie w/ a girl im not the one huddled up againstt her (link)
aw its alright to b scared well lets see to get over it, stay scared or face your fears...ive had ta face mai fears for a # of things and it worked out well and im not scared n e more. get a friend ta watch a scary movie with you. And 1st off you gotta remember that most of these things on tha TV arnt true and cant happen in tha real world. so yup yup. dont wry you'll get over it! hope i helped g/l xOxO


ive liked this one guy for awhile now.. and hes always telling people he hates me and stuff and when i ask him about it he says it isnt true. the other day i told him to be honest.. and if he didnt like me as a friend to just tell me so ill be better off.. but he told me he still likes me n stuff .. i was thinking he might just be saying it to get me to be on His Side of this fight thats going on but im not sure. During the school year he liked me but was embarassed to ask me out b/c of what his friends would say. is that maybe why he tells people he hates me but tells me he doesnt? im so confused! (link)
what a jerk...guys can b very confusing but it jus seems this guy doesnt knoe what he wants an keeps tryin ta make up his mind...ya dont need him...two-faced ppl lyke that...you cant relly trust'em hope i helped...xOxO


hey i thought i liked this guy anthony so we started hanging out and we got to know eachother well one night at my friend rickeys house who is also his friend we all met up there he said he liked me alot and he kissed me hes not a bad kisser or nething but i mean i dont think i like him that way ... i and i told him that and hes starting to like my bestfriend i think because whenever im over there he calls her and talks to her and everything it seems whenever im with her which is like everyday he calls her and talks to her.. she tells me everything he says about me which is quit alot but not bad stuff ya know... i dont now what to do because i still want to be good friend with him ... help me figure this out ! (link)
styll be his friend even tho he lykes yer best friend its not a bad thing...talk ta him too there shouldnt b ne thing in yer way of bein friends with him lyke with yer bff an all hope i helped xOxO


How old do u have to be to have sex? (link)
any age but tha older and more responsible you are tha better if you do it in lyke yer teen yrs....use a condom be smart =P


hey .. i have a makeup question. i have red hair and really light eyebrows an eyelashes (pretty much blonde) but i wanna wear mascara this year. im afraid that if i wear dark mascara - it would look bad against my eyebrows since they are so light and then my red hair. so have any suggestions about what I can do so it doesnt look too drastic? (link)
use lyke light brown masacra that wont show too much


me and eddie ( me exboyfriend ) broke up about 2 months ago, we went out for 3 years and things were really serious. i was 12 wen i went out with him and now im 15.i lost all my friends, and he lost all his.he broke up with me about 2 years ago and he was cheating on me for the last week of our realationship.i finally got over him and he came back to me.so we have been going out ever since.eddie is very controlling.he wouldnt like it if i had on makeup,he would get mad when i wore a thong to school, i had NO guy friends, and it was jus bad. i broke up with him bout 2 months ago cuz i couldnt take it anymore. he had an anxiety attack and went to the emergnecy room. he begs me everyday to go back out with him .ive been talking to a couple of guys and hes been threatin them.i have to admit- i do play with his head, one day im havin sex with him, then the next i dont talk to him. but now im really sick of it cause we still fite wen we dont even go out. i think i love him but idk if i shood talk to him or jus not talk to him at all. but if i hear he is with another girl ill get upset. im really confusing but i just need advise , should i not talk to him again? [ me and him cant work out as friends ] or jus try to aviod him..oh ya i saw ur pictures ur madd pretty (link)
wow gurl....let him go...tha way he is, makin you confused so much fyting and worse...controlling you, who should or shouldn't be your friends and all that, is not ryte. ive experienced something kind of lyke this and i knoe it relly hurts. you may love him a lot but i think its maybe tha best for tha both of you if you two dont go wit each other....lyke dont aviod him completly...styll talk to him but not lyke a whole lot lyke talk to him if he talks to you an all hope all goes well xOxO


OMG ok, so there is this guy. Hes's 18 and he really really really likes me. He is one of the sweetiest guys i've ever ment.. BUT HES FREAKING 18!!!! I really really really like his friend whos 16 (which isnt bad at all.. so thats one of the reasons i like his freind.) The 18 year old is kinda shy in person, and the 16 year old really isnt. They both are really great dancers. But i dont kno what to do about the 18 year old. I have this like weakness for turning down guys who are really cool and cute, but i cant go out with. I really really really need some advis on what to do about the 18 year old. I mean hes a total sweetie, and he cares about me alot.. but i just CANT go out with an 18 year old.
PLEASSEEEE HELP like ASAP!!!

*x*o*x*o (link)
hey lyke tell him that you think hes a kewl friend and that you lyke him a lot *as a friend*....lyke dont egg him on ta lyke you even more and maybe that'll give him sum hints that you just wanna be friends with him...hopefully he'll get it....just do n e thing that'll let him figure out that a friendship is all you can give him......hope i helped ya xOxO


Ok..volleyballl tryouts are almost over and the first day was really hard. Our coach yells alot and if we drop a ball without goin after or something we run or do pushups. But shes still a good coach. Well i take alot of things personally. I feel like its all my fault. also im super nervous wen i get out there and mess up. Wat should i do? HELP
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hey! well you dont gotta be perfect and a pro @ volleyball! its alright jus be calm, everyone messes up sumtyme. dont be so hard on yourself just have fun playin tha sport, thats all that matters! hope i helped xOxO


Well you see, me and my boyfriend will be going out for a month in 2 days. I like him and all but I don't feel anything anymore. He's away on vacation and my family might meet him there. Should I break the relationship off now or go out with him a little longer and see how I feel? *

(I will rate you!) (link)
stick with him and when you guys meet up make that a tyme for you to get back that feeling that you've lost for him. give him another chance youve got nothin ta loose an hang with him an do stuff together lyke go out ta tha mall er somethin jus lyke chill. thats happened ta me i stuck with him and we ended up goin out fur another lyke 7 months lol hope i helped and good luck xOxO


ok. i dont smoke. But alot of people in my grade do. im only going into 8th grade and i turn 14 in january! alot of people that i know have at least tried smoking. recently i have been having these dreams that i smoked and i liked it..then i'd wake up. is this bad? should i have already tried it. i think want to. thx for any advice! (link)
that stuff aint good for you dont start doin it. ive tried it be4 its okay it was just one tho it was aight i dont plan on doin it again tho but yeah jus as long as you dont get hooked on it i knoe ppl that've tried it an aint but its not tha same for everyone. you dont gotta smoke to be kewl so you dont gotta do it. hope i helped xOxO


im really shy when im around people i dont know that well, its always been a problem for me, i always feel like im gonna make a fool of myself is there any way for me to get over this? (link)
just be yourself and have fun dont mind what other ppl tell you or say if your havin fun and got friends ther for you then you got nuttin ta loose. talk ta ppl go ta hang outs go ta tha mall chill with yer friends....me an mai friends are dorks ppl think we're weird but guess what we could care less cause it dont matter lol so hey just b you dont be embarrassed i meen we all get embarrassed but then we just laff all tha other ones of an ferget bout it =P hope i helped good luck xOxO


i have just turned 16, well i have liked this girl for i dont no about a year and a half, shes one of the most amazing girls i no, shes perfect, strong chrisitian, volleyball player, straight A student, beautiful, wonderful family, but she uses the esxcuse to good of friends everytime i want to talk about us dating, we are best friends, and by that i mean extrmely tight, im really lost right now, because i think about her constantly, should i stick with her, or should i try to move on, by the way we have never actually been together before (link)
maybe she just wants to be relly good friends and nothing more. maybe she feels that once you guys go out and break up your friendship'll be ruined so maybe being friends is all she wants. ive had that feelin be4...lyke sum1 fur a long tyme but cant get with them....its hard i dont knoe how i got over well i went out with sum oter guy but yeah okay good luck on this xOxO


16-f

it seems like no guy ever likes me. its annoying because i feel like im such a decent and a good girl. i mean i play the piano, i do ballet, i work , i get good grades, im respectful, and alright looking..ive had one bf in my whole life, and that was a 1 yr relationship and we broke up 8 months ago, and since then i havent had like any other guyz or even small flings...it just seems like ill never have a decent guy that wants me.. (link)
try talking ta them a lot and go ta hang outs ta chill with them and show them how kewl of a person you are. doin all that stuff is awesome there has ta be a guy for you. jus hang out be lyke relly social not anti-social. jus have fun talkin an hangin out then you never knoe wut could happen =D


i really like this kid , he has a girlfriend though and he lives a couple hours away. Even thought he lives that far away we can still see each other because i am either always in the state he lives in or he is aloud to come here. He cheated on his girlfriend with me and says he likes me i believe him , and i think he just doesnt know what his girlfriend will do if he breaks up with her because she says she is in love with him , she found out what happened with me and him and she still didnt break up with him. But i cant stop thinking about him =( .. what should i do ? i rate thanx! (link)
if he relly lyked you he'd get with you cause i dont think his girlfriend'll dump him she seems to love him a lot and he'd have to be tha one ta make tha 1st move or nothin'll happen. if you guys relly lyke each other then go for it! good luck xOxO


Hey, I love my life, things are going great! and things are gonna turn out JUST like i planned! But my best friend, well things didn't go the way she planned. And now, i don't think she knows WHAT to do with her life. See, her dad got in a serious Semi Truck accident, and he is 100% disable. And then this year year mom died. Her brother isn't helping the problem or helping my best friend. So, all my friend has is her friends, she kinda pushed me out of her life, and lied to me like making her dad call me and say that we cant hang out because she is sick, when she is actually hanging out with her other friends. I dont think her friends are the right friends she should be handing out with...because ever since her mom died, she's been smoking, and then she has been drinking, and racing in neighborhoods in cars with her friends, racing in their cars trying to run away from people with guns. We dont really talk anymore, and she said she'd never drink again but she lied, and still is. If she wont listin to me, how can i help her?
Sincerely,
~miSSc~
PS~ she is drinking under age she's only 16 (link)
depression.....try talkin to her if that doesnt work get someone else to talk to her that she'll listen to that'll give her sum good advice that'll help her stop smoking and drinking.


In school, i've always been called names like "gay" and "fag". i think its because
#1) i have a high voice and...
#2) i act goofy alot cause i like to have fun

most of the time people are joking but sometimes people really think im gay. it doesnt make me feel that great:(. i wish there was a way to stop it. please help. (link)
well tell them that yer not gay if they dont belive you thats their prob youre jus bein you if they cant accept that then hey what do they knoe they could've been your friend an now they're missin out on all tha fun stuff that you do. lol me and mai friends act lyke dorks an ppl think we're weird but hey we dont care we have fun and each other we gots nothin ta loose. jus ferget them an chill wit yer real friends.


i got into a bad fight once with a really good friend of mine. i would always here these stories that he was talking about me behind my back. and he would also hit me and yell at me when i did something he didnt like. i finally got fed up with it and i havnt talked to him since. He kept trying for a while to become friends again but we never did, now we dont talk. should i apologise to him or call him? please help me (link)
if he hits you lyke that i dont think its such a good idea for you guys to be friends. friends shouldnt hit you if ever they get mad @ you they should tell you not by hitting you thats just wrong. tell him that you dont want tha ssame thing to happen lyke it did and you dont want a friend that hits you.


I never had my 1st kiss and I'm 15 now, and i want 2 get my 1st kiss..but i'm nurves,i'm afraid that i will suck at it and i have no idea what to do!Plz tell me how can i not be nurves and just relax.

Thnx,
Ana (link)
well its not a bad thing that you havnt kissed a girl that kiss will come one day and theres not relly a need to rush it. a first kiss is somehin ta be remembered and its prolly just waiting for tha perfect person an place and styll hasnt happened yet. it'll come. =D


recentally ive been hearing that there are a lot of people who like me, but i only see all of them as friends. i dont want to hurt them but at the same time i dont want to lead them on, ive tried to tell them that i dont like them that way but they never seemed to listen, and when i hang out with them they areaalways flirting with me, how should i fix this? (link)
hmm try tellin then straight foreward that you just want to be friends and nothing more not in a meen way tho. if they styll flirt just dont flirt back maybe they'll see that youre bein foreal an they'll hopefully stop.




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