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Question Posted Wednesday July 28 2004, 12:02 am

recentally ive been hearing that there are a lot of people who like me, but i only see all of them as friends. i dont want to hurt them but at the same time i dont want to lead them on, ive tried to tell them that i dont like them that way but they never seemed to listen, and when i hang out with them they areaalways flirting with me, how should i fix this?

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superstar10 answered Wednesday July 28 2004, 6:14 am:
i have the same problem and i hate when guys think that i lead them on, i dont mean to tho. well anyways feel free to flirt. everyone does it anyways. just if they start like moving closer be like "sry but i dont think so" but dont be mean about it.....just keep trying to tell them that ur not that way. be like " i care about you and all but i dont feel the same way that you feel." once again be nice about it. i hope i helped...~rate me~ if u need anymore help just drop one in the inbox
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IxAmxCrying answered Wednesday July 28 2004, 4:08 am:
Don't talk about you and them together.

Don't EVER bring up how they feel about you.

They'll pour it out, and what can you say?

Not much.

I'm sorry _____, but I don't feel the same way about you as you feel about me. I'm sure we can still be friends though.

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almOstxblOnd3 answered Wednesday July 28 2004, 12:44 am:
Feel free tO flirt and if they qet tha wrOnq idea after yOu alreadii` tOld them hOw yOu feel that`z yOur fault. yOu can`t blOck urself Out frOm everyOne becuz ppl miqht qet tha wrOnq idea

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xo_Meg_ox answered Wednesday July 28 2004, 12:12 am:
i TOTALLY know where you're coming from...my advice is to avoid letting them feel comfortable with you physically - if i know a guy likes me and i don't like him, then i don't give him the wrong impression by hugging him or sitting real close next to him or anything like that and hopefully that gives them the hint = body language! (but those dang boys CAN be pretty persistent haha) good luck <3

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Geenie_Baby answered Wednesday July 28 2004, 12:07 am:
hmm try tellin then straight foreward that you just want to be friends and nothing more not in a meen way tho. if they styll flirt just dont flirt back maybe they'll see that youre bein foreal an they'll hopefully stop.

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