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Question Posted Tuesday July 27 2004, 11:54 pm

I know this isnt exactly a 'friendship' question but my friend is in real trouble. *
Hes 16, his dad is a drunk, hes got a step mom, and brothers and sisters. Hes my ex boyfriend. He doesnt live in the same state as me but his dad beats him. He pukes all the time from it. Its horrible. He cant do anything about it bc everytime he tells someone his dad denys it and says he plays all these sports and he skateboards so he could have gotten them from somewhere else. His dad only beats on him and none of his other brothers and sisters. i dont know what to do but i mean i really want to help him and i really need to help him. he needs to get out of there fast. ive tried havin him go to the cops but his dad uses the same story. nothings. working. someone please help me! i really want to help him out but i dont know how :// im scared for his life.


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snowboardbum answered Wednesday July 28 2004, 12:48 am:
talk to your parents about it, try to see if they will allow him to stay at your house, if not that then ask them if they will help support him, pay for a hotel or something, just untill he can get a job there. or u could call social services, file a report, they should watch him and if they see it happen then they will pull him from the family, i hope this helps a little

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ShudaBeenAbLonde answered Wednesday July 28 2004, 12:35 am:
It's just like that book. A child called it. Have him go to the police again, or at least have someone else go to the cops for him. Get some evidence.. hide a camera or something somewhere .. and have it on tape ..then send it to the cops .. I hope he's alright.. but u gotta get him safe before his dad outrages .. majorly!:-(

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Geenie_Baby answered Wednesday July 28 2004, 12:04 am:
try getting him ta go to tha police again and if his dad does tha same thing tell him ta stick up for himself try an get sum evidence that his dad does that stuff. if that doesnt work maybe he should move out and go sumplace where he feels safe and try tellin tha cops ta hear him out w/o his dad bein ther so he can tell them his side of tha story.

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LilMia811 answered Tuesday July 27 2004, 11:59 pm:
Find out if he has a family member or someone who will believe him and let him live with them. then maybe he can get that person to help him testify against his dad. Or tell him to always have a phone by him and when his dad starts hitting him find a way to secretly hit 0 or 911 so that someone can hear what is going on.

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