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well there is this grl i like and i have been liken her for a loong time and she nos i think and every now and then so says she think im cute but i dont no if she likes me and i dont relly want to tell her face to face bc the whole school will find out in like a sec. and we flrit a lot to she makes me follow her around and i dont no wat to do rite now plz help (link)
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well it really shouldnt matter if people know that u like her, just like ask her to go somewhere like on a date or ask her out, if she says yes well then she likes u, if not(which doesnt seem like it will happen) then nothin will really happen, a few people will come up to u and be like "so she said no huh?" and thats that, but its just life so it shouldnt matter
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i like this guy but idk if he likes me. he's really punk and i'm preppy. all the guys that i've went out with before i changed my whole look & stuff for them, but they wound up liking me anyway. but the one i like now i dont wanna try and impress! how do i get him to notice me!?! (link)
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be yourself, im like that, im like a mix between everything tho, and people have choosen to accept me, yet others havnt. wut im tryin to say is that u should jsut be yourself around him, and if yur a nice careing person, then there should be no problem. never change yourself for someone because they aernt liking u, they ar liking yur mask. so be yourself and it should work just fine
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teen guys - would u go out with a girl knowing that she doesn't intend to have sex with you? (link)
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yeah, sex isnt what is really important at this age, i look for the other qualities like personality and if i can actualy stand to be around them for a long period of time. im 15 and im still a virgin and i plan to be for a while, if all a guy wants from u i sex then he isnt worth your time
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i really like this kid , he has a girlfriend though and he lives a couple hours away. Even thought he lives that far away we can still see each other because i am either always in the state he lives in or he is aloud to come here. He cheated on his girlfriend with me and says he likes me i believe him , and i think he just doesnt know what his girlfriend will do if he breaks up with her because she says she is in love with him , she found out what happened with me and him and she still didnt break up with him. But i cant stop thinking about him =( .. what should i do ? i rate thanx! (link)
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well u may like him but this isnt being fair to the girlfriend, its propbally killing her to know he did that. I would tell him that the 2 of u should stop till he is single, and see how it goes from there. you could also try to find a different guy, you might be able to get your mind on him instead of this guy.
well i hope i helped
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Well you see, me and my boyfriend will be going out for a month in 2 days. I like him and all but I don't feel anything anymore. He's away on vacation and my family might meet him there. Should I break the relationship off now or go out with him a little longer and see how I feel? *
(I will rate you!) (link)
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well id say you should see how u feel when you are with him, if you are happy and felt like u used to, then i would stay with him. if u dont feel the same brake it off easily, just be like "im sorry but i think we should just be friends" well i hope this helped
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well sum of u know im 13 n he's 14.So yesterday after i wrote this i went outside 2 get the mail n then i was gunna wait for mah bf cuz he sed he was gunna come to mah house.So when i was waiting anthony came n sat down next to me.(anthony-guy on mah str33t).And i didnt say ne thing to him but then i looked at him nreally quick he kissed me(me not knowing mah bf was across the str33t, so he just walked home)n then i smacked anthony n ran inside.n then mah cell rang, i picked it up n it was mah bf n he sed "i guess i wasnt the only one" n he hung up! Ok NOW WHAT SHOULD I DO!! anthony STILL doesnt get the point!And wut should i do anout mah bf?? plz help!!
XOXOalexiaXOXO (link)
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call up your BF and tell him what happend, tell him that you didnt want to and that he kissed um u didnt kiss him, just tell him that you would never cheat on him. and as for anthony, just stay away from him, dont let him interfear with this, u never know if he will do it again. well i hoped i helped you
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i wanna have sex b4 i'm 15...sum of my friendz tell me 2 wait, what do i do? (link)
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U BETTER WAIT O MY GOD DONT BE A SLUT AND GROW UP
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I'm 13, and my boyfriend is too. we've been going out for an exact week, and we've already kissed. I know all guys a pervs, but he shows it more. Him and his friends always make stupid jokes on how he wants "a whole can of me" or how he thinks im so hot and he wants to have me for breakfast, lame stuff like that. but they also say he wants to stick me, and sleep with me, like how theres a "room in his queen sized bed". but he still always says im hot, and not how he likes my personality. so now im not so sure if he likes me for me. errrgh. what the hell should i do?! (link)
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well ok im a guy 1st of all and i know what this means, he is usin u...im sry but its wut it seems like, a guy who cared about u wouldnt even joke about that, he wouldnt rush u or Ne thin. its up 2 u if u wanna stick with him, but to me it really seems lke he is usin u
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Ok, Well, my boyfriend is 19 years old and he*s in the military..I*m still in highschool..we write letters to each other often and i think about him every single day, but most of my friends say that i should break up with him, I really love him, but he's going to be gone so long! I have 2 years left of highschool, and if I stay with him that means i have to be faithful for 2 years! I dunno what i should do...
I hope you can help..xox (link)
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well if u truly love him then there is nothing to worry about, just keep in touch with him, and pray for him to come home sooner, i mean the basis of love is trust and care. as long as u ahve those in him there is nothing to worry about
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kool aid as hair dye.. anyone ever try it? should i try doing it? i only want something temporary b/c schools all strict and stuff about hair color. i just wanna find out if its worth doing and what color would you think best on blonde hair? (link)
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do not no no no no no, thats the worst thing to use trust me. it will not only dye your hair, but your scalp. it is perminent, do not use kool aid, it doesnt work that well anyways. and if i were u id just get professionally red done, it looks god cus its wut i got, eveyone lieks it
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Ok theres this girl, lets just say her name is 'Sally' and over the summer I have matured and have gotten to my senses. But my friend sally whenever I get together with her I dont laugh with her anymore and everything she says is, well, stupid. And sumtimes I just feel like we are friends only because Sally wants a messager girl. How am I supposed to handle this?? Please help?
Will Rate! (link)
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well try to make the convos mroe interesting, just have fun and liven it up, i mean be a little more of a kid, thats how i am and i can make anyone laugh cus of it
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ive been goin out with this girl for almost a month now. everythings been goin great and we really like eachother but we havnt kissed yet. i want to but i dont know if its to fast or if she wants to. is this only my fault? help (link)
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dont worry, dont rush it tho, if i were you i would just wait it out, mabye kiss her on the cheek, if she is ok with that then u can try on the lips, but try to give her a hint that u want to
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ok..see, i put in sub posts about being through puberty and being called names and stuff and theres another thing bothering me! i dont really have guy friends..like i have friends that are guys that i say hi to like every 2 weeks. i really only have about 3-5 guy friends that i can actually talk to. all the rest are girls! i dont know why i dont have guy friends. maybe its because they all think im gay (im not though). (IM A GUY BY THE WAY) (link)
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ok 1st off, im the same way, i have a few guy friends but mainly girls. the guys who call u gay are jelious, u are the type of guy who girls like, they propbally think u are attractive (dont worry im straight as can be its jsut the same for me) just dont let them get to u, if u want more guy friends just hang out with the guy friends you have, their friends will get to know u and u will have more of them but its fine how u r. i know the situation, and it will work out just fine
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I know this isnt exactly a 'friendship' question but my friend is in real trouble. *
Hes 16, his dad is a drunk, hes got a step mom, and brothers and sisters. Hes my ex boyfriend. He doesnt live in the same state as me but his dad beats him. He pukes all the time from it. Its horrible. He cant do anything about it bc everytime he tells someone his dad denys it and says he plays all these sports and he skateboards so he could have gotten them from somewhere else. His dad only beats on him and none of his other brothers and sisters. i dont know what to do but i mean i really want to help him and i really need to help him. he needs to get out of there fast. ive tried havin him go to the cops but his dad uses the same story. nothings. working. someone please help me! i really want to help him out but i dont know how :// im scared for his life. (link)
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talk to your parents about it, try to see if they will allow him to stay at your house, if not that then ask them if they will help support him, pay for a hotel or something, just untill he can get a job there. or u could call social services, file a report, they should watch him and if they see it happen then they will pull him from the family, i hope this helps a little
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i'm a teenage girl and, like most teenage girls do, i want to meet someone i like and have a boyfriend...so this brings me to my question: guys - where do you normally meet girls? and if you think a girl is hot/cute but you don't know her, will you try to talk to her even if you aren't at a party or anything like that? or are you too shy/don't care enough?? oh yeah, and do guys care as much if they connect with a girl or do they just like anything with two legs that will talk to them? sorry, that sounded a little harsh haha BE HONEST (link)
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well im a 15 year old guy, i meet most girls at the mall, or concerts or just places like that, myself im kinda the shy type but i still will go up to people and talk to them. if i were u i would just give eye contact to a guy u think is cute, and if he gives it back then u have a chance, dont follow him dierctally but kinda go in a loop looking for him, when u run into him again this time say hi, let him know that you want to talk, and if this works then before u or he leaves ask him if he wants your #, this whould work cus its wut i do and wuts done to me
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ill be on the road tomorro.. and i just wnt to know some serious good ways to block out the rest of the world.... i need a couple of days to myself... i mean.. my heads spinning.. is there anything wrong with just shutting down for a few days.. or is it like non social... (link)
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i think that would be a good idea, i mean just getting away to clear your head can do you some good, i wouldnt call it anti social, id call it a retreat. it should work because it should calm you down, id say go for it
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I never had my 1st kiss and I'm 15 now, and i want 2 get my 1st kiss..but i'm nurves,i'm afraid that i will suck at it and i have no idea what to do!Plz tell me how can i not be nurves and just relax.
Thnx,
Ana (link)
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wow dejavou, it was the same way for me, if u have a boyfriend just wait till he makes a move, when he does dont think just do. it will go allright
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Help! I don't know how to juggle having a boyfriend and having friends. I always want to spend time with my boyfriend and I end up hanging otu with him everyday but we will do things like go to the movies, watch a movie, go to a party, go to the beach, you know that kind of stuff. But when I'm out with a friend all we end up doing is driving around and I end up having no fun at all. What should I do when my boyfriend doesnt like my bestfriend because she lies alot and my bestfriend doesnt like my boyfriend because she thinks I'm always with him and takes it out on him. Does this make sense to you guys? If it doesn't I can clearify it. Please help I feel like I don't know how to have a boyfriend and a bestfriend at the same time :-( Oh ya im 18 (link)
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well this is a hard one, im jsut gonna be 15 soon so this might not help too much. but try to do things with the both of them, tell your boyfriend that you trust your best friend, and tell your best friend that you want to do things with the both of them. try to get them to get along and that way u can have more fun. it is a tough thing to handle though. just try to get them to at least stand each other so you can all still have fun togther, if u need anymore help just ask
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Hey, I love my life, things are going great! and things are gonna turn out JUST like i planned! But my best friend, well things didn't go the way she planned. And now, i don't think she knows WHAT to do with her life. See, her dad got in a serious Semi Truck accident, and he is 100% disable. And then this year year mom died. Her brother isn't helping the problem or helping my best friend. So, all my friend has is her friends, she kinda pushed me out of her life, and lied to me like making her dad call me and say that we cant hang out because she is sick, when she is actually hanging out with her other friends. I dont think her friends are the right friends she should be handing out with...because ever since her mom died, she's been smoking, and then she has been drinking, and racing in neighborhoods in cars with her friends, racing in their cars trying to run away from people with guns. We dont really talk anymore, and she said she'd never drink again but she lied, and still is. If she wont listin to me, how can i help her?
Sincerely,
~miSSc~
PS~ she is drinking under age she's only 16 (link)
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this is a tough one, she is covering it up, she is depressed, i would know how that feeling is, i used to be depressed myself, i pushed myself away form a lot of my good friends, but i never did any of the stuff she did, finally one day an old friend came up to me and talked to me about my depression, he could tell i was covering it up. that was the 1st time i had realised what i ahd done, he opened my eyes. call her up and talk to her tell her how she is ruining her life by doing this. if she doesnt want to listen to you then trust me she isnt a good friend, a good friend will listen to you, even if they are mad. a best friend will take what you say to heart, think about it and mabye even try to fix it. if she is truly a friend then she will listen and if she is a best friend she will want to fix it
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Hey. I thank everyone in advance. I'm an advice columnist on here, but I need advice.
Here's my problem:
I used to be BEST FRIENDS with this girl, Nicole. We used to do everything together - camping, swimming, movies, ext. About 8 months ago - we got in a huge fight, and ended our friendship. It was entirely my fault. About 4 months ago - we started talking again. She said she forgave me, and that we could still be friends. Since then - we've talked about 10 times. The problem is: I really miss her being around. Everyone in my family says they want her and I to be friends again. What should I do? Do I call her, or IM her more? Or should I just forget about it? I have more friends, but I really miss her. Thanks for all advice. I'll rate.
*Sincerely,
Ash* (link)
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well if she really means this much to her call her up and ask her to go somewhere with u, spend time with her and see how it goes. if she seems to be like she was 8 months ago then you try to have her hang out more, if this were me id try to get them to sleep over, and bring up old friend stories, try to get back into the same friendship. i wouldnt let her go that fast because a best friend is for life, fights last a while but they will always be there in the rebound, i should know i have had this happen before, what im sayin is that u should jsut call her up and try to hang out with her, if she misses u 2 or still wants to be your friend it should go well
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