|
| |
15/m
ive been trough many relationships, im a nice guy siriously, well every girl ive gone out with well they all ended up being bitches or something like that and they all broke up with me for dumb reasons like we wern't french kissing by our third day of going out and stuff like that, but this year i met this girl i thought she was different she told me she liked me but that she couldnt have a boyfreind till shes 16 so i told her i would wait, a few weeks later she told me she rather be freinds i told her it was alright but the other day i found out she has a boyfreind already, my point is, it there any girls out there who arent like that who are nice, pretty smart, and have a great personality? or why is it so hard to find someone like that? (link)
|
There ARE girls that are all of the above: nice, pretty, smart, and have a great personality. And believe it or not, but if you truely want something it will come true within a matter of time. Try making up a list of all the characteristics of what makes up your perfect girl all the way from her hair length to her eye color to her romantic traits just EVERYTHING that makes up your perfect dream girl, and maybe she will come along if you wait long enough. Dont chase after love or lust, let it come to you.
I listed this dream guy and thought...nah he's too good to be true, it'll never happen, this is stupid. I kept that list for the longest time, and now I have my dream boy with my favorite name Chris.
Overall dont give up. Stay confident and your lady love will one day come
Hope that helps! dont forget to rate me!
|
|
i like this guy but he doesntseem like to like u what do i do (link)
|
Forget about the boy and move on. Your gonna be meeting guys throughout your lifetime that like you, so dont dwell on the ones that dont.
Just be confident in yourself and love life and dont be too cocky and guys will notice you and like you
|
Is it better to have the guy you love for just one night, or not at all?
That's pretty much the choice I have to make. I can either be with him for one night, or never be with him.
I don't know what to do, I don't want to fall for him more and then just have to give him up, but I don't want to regret not being with him, even if only for a night.
He doesn't do exclusive relationships.
(link)
|
One night stands might hurt you more than not having him at all. Your gonna be meeting better guys than the guy that just wants a one night stand or nothing at all. If I were you, I'd forget about the boy and wait for someone else
Hope that helps
|
|
I really really like this guy! My friend is going out with him though and i dont think she knows that i like him! But they are really cute togher and i dont want to make her mad! He is a good friend of mine to! So it's hard to tell eaither of them because i dont know what's going on with them!! what should i do? (link)
|
Girl, i know these times are hard. I've been there before...I liked this one guy and i introduced him to my cousin, and now they are going out. And I was in that position that you are in now asking myself what should i do? My head tells me "go" but my heart is saying "no". Trust me i've been there. Where am I now? I am now dating someone who I am in love with. And it's not my cousin's boyfriend. And now I don't like him because i really like my boyfriend and i can let them be. So my advice for you, is to go on to a different guy. And in the process of looking for that other guy and flirting with other guys, you will forget about your friends boyfriend and how much you liked him.
If you don't mind, could you rate me?
~MiSSc~
|
my friend has kissed my very "friendly" friend and we have gone out a couple time and we still kiss occasionaly...but we havnt made out. the friend that has kissed him said he is the best kisser..and she has kised a lot of guys and said he was the best. i know he wants to do things with me but i get really nervous. should i just let him go for it? cuz i am very "blonde" and i tend to mess things up.a nd this is really important to me. my girl friend said she would teach me how..but i dont know what to do.
HELP!! I RATE HIGH!! (link)
|
Hey hun,
listen, I'm not a pro on kissin' either, although i've been told that i ain't terrible either. The best thing to do, is when you know that he's gonna dive in for a smooch, just take a quiet deep breath, be confident, close your eyes and go for it! Don't think, just do. If you think, then your gonna get all nervous and mess up. So just, forcus on how cute he is, and give him a lil' kiss. That's all there is to it! Have fun! Stay in school, don't do drugs, no s*x, and live life it's fullest!
~missc~
|
|
okay well i shave down there and it grows back really fast. like in a day! is that normal or what? is there anything i can do to prevent it? and i also get those big or tiny red bumps and sometimes the hair is not always completley gone! any tips please? the same thing happens when i tried waxin i got all bloddy and i tried nair and it got irritated and it looks like it still there! um and how much and where is the hair down there sposta grow cuz mine starts at like the usual and goes all the down (past my ass and it grows really far out) um, ew? yeah, whatever, thanks. (link)
|
Don't shave evey day because then your skin will be irritated. Shave every three or four days. Try using a different shaver. Like I use a shaver and it's a shaver and shaving cream. It works really good. But hair usually does grow fast on some ppl. Unfortuantly i'm one of them. LoL. Please rate me! That would really help! Thx.
~MissC~
|
|
How would I get a guy to notice me besides the usual body/body kind of thing? (link)
|
I guess I would cut the "come and get me" game. If he's not noticing you...just go up and talk to him. If he's the body body type of guy...then maybe he isn't the guy for you if he likes what he see's on the outside better on the inside. Of course...it's hard to find a guy that isn't a "body body" type of guy. LoL. So...I guess just find the best outfit in your closet and let him know the real you and have small talk...and as the small talk creases then it'll go to friends then more than friends, if things work out like planned. :) Well, I hope that helps! Please rate me...it helps me a TON! Thx.
~missc~
|
Sorry if this question has been asked before!!
You see, i wash my hair everyday, and it always smells soo good like my shampoo! I let it airdry, + it naturally goes curly.
The thing is, i straighten my hair; a lot, with the CHI [ceramic hairstyling iron.. it's my saviour!! :D hehe] my hair isn't dead, but it always smells kind of.. well, burnt i guess. So my question is, how can i get it to not smell like that? lol. It's kind of embarassing because people are always playing with my hair, and if i can smell it, i'm pretty sure they can too. Is there any kind of product you can put in afterwards to give it a nice smelling scent? Some sprays i've tried have only made it frizzy :S
thank you in advance guys!! (link)
|
I'm not an expert at these things, and this may sound REALLY cheesey, but what if you put on a lot of perfume? Perfume that smells good at least. Or lotion that smells good. So ppl will smell your lotion/perfume instead of burnt hair.
Well, hope that helps! But could you help me as well and rate me? That would help me a ton! Thx!
~miSSc~
|
|
ok i'm grounded for a month ( no joke its been 2 weeks) and my frndship with ma best friend is fading away. i yell s0o much i lost my voice for 4 days and evrything. at this point i dnt wahna live nemore ! i'm losing it ! helpp me (link)
|
~here's advice for ya, live everyday your fullest, don't be worried about being judged, live your own dreams, follow/listen to your own heart, be who you are because there is only ONE you (even if you are a twin), only YOU can make your own happiness! Life is too short to feel sorry for yourself and life is too fun to waste~
That's my quote. Don't say that you don't want to live anymore. That is the most saddest thing a person can say. Think of all the good stuff you have rather than the bad. I know times like this is hard, but it will eventually pay off. Just get through the day, and live it your fullest because maybe there's some1 wishing they were u. To even have a friend. To have parents of their own, mean or nice. To have a home. To have a room to be grounded in. That's only the beginning. Try thinking of stuff that you have that others don't. And that might help your mood. =) Please rate me! That would help me a ton! Thx! And I hope I helped you!
~MiSSc~
|
|
My birthday is in 3 weeks and I need ideas for a party and fast!! It has to be not to expensive though, any ideas?? (link)
|
Hey B-Day Girl!
For my b-day party I had a Hula Luau thing. It was REALLY fun! And everybody enjoyed it! Maybe what you can do is...Have a Hula Luau like I did. And have it in a out-side swimming pool thing. And you can have drinks and chips, candy, whatever. And have music. I'm 15 and we played the Limbo Game, and we actually had fun. LoL. Then, if your old enough, maybe play truth or dare, or whatever. If you had a party like that, I'd def. want to come! LoL.
~MiSSc~
If you rated me, that would help me a ton!
|
|
I lost my voice about a month ago when I went to a singing camp. I had basically overused my voice. Usually I am asked to sing at weddings and such, so my voice is important to me as a way to earn money and express myself. However, after my voice came back after losing it, it has changed. It almost seems for airy, or not as strong. I feel like I forgot how to sing in a way. This has never happened before. I can still sing, but it wasn't as good as it was. Any suggestions on how to build my voice back up to its full potential? (link)
|
Dear Singer,
I've never had that happen to me before. Well, I guess I kind of have...when I was little I could belt out any note on the piano, and I got a solo at disneyland and i belted out, "Can you feel the love tonight?" and my friends were there to see me. The next time I saw them they made fun of me, and from that day on till I was 10 or so, I didn't belt and sang very softly. Then later I had to belt out a song, and I did pretty good, but I couldn't/can't hit all the notes like I use to, but slowly it's building. I know it's stupid and sad, but I guess my advice for you would be...to get a good vocal teacher and help you build up your voice. And maybe every day just sing high and low and any song for about 10 mins. and maybe that will help build your voice. But don't over do your voice! "You only have one voice, so treat it with respect!" Hope that helps! If you could rate me that would help me. Remember you can always come to me for advice!
Sincerely,
~MiSSc~
|
|
hi every one......im Tripp...and im in a band...and we REALLY suck ass....we practice like every day and shit...but we still suck like really bad....so if u know n e thing else we could do....tell me. (link)
|
Dear Tripp,
I don't know much about putting together a band, but I guess you can get more familiar with music. Like take music lessons. And then have some1 that is really good with music critique you, like, tell you what you are doing wrong and what things you should change to make the band better. I hope that helps. Since I kinda helped you, can you help me and rate me? Thx. Remember feel free to ask me anything anytime!
~miSSc~
|
|
im 14 and i am pregnant:-/...please dont judge me you guys...anyways i am going to have the baby and its going to be a surprise... if its a girl should i name is A. Madeline Ryan or B. Abbi Gail and if its a boy should it be A. Landon Asher or B. Cameron Maddox (link)
|
Dear Kid,
Oh my god, your 14 and your going to have a kid. I know there is nothing you can do now, but i'm sorry you have to waist your childhood. Before you think of names for the kid, have you thought about how your going to keep up your grades in school, and change the babies dipper, feed it, give it a bath, give it toys, and if the boy that made the baby with you, is he going to help out? You got a lot of thinking to do for the kid, it's not gonna worry about its name. But since you kindly asked me for advice, I shall give it to you and my opionions... If it were to be a girl I like the name Madleline. But Abbi is cute to, but I like Madleine. If it were to be a boy I like Landon Asher, Cameron is cute but i'm not sure about Maddox. But it's your baby. Remember, if you need help with the kid, ask your parents for help! The baby needs as much loving and care as possible, and its relying on you.
Hope that helps! And thax for coming to me for advice!
~miSSc~
|
Dear Advicer,
My question to ask is about Health & Fitness.I've always been going on diets but they never seem to work for me.I mean I want to have the perfect body and be perfectly fit.I weigh about 140 I'm like medium not fat or anything just a little.I would like to weigh at least 110.Do you have any Advice for me? I always been eatting the wrong kinds of food because its soo hard because my mom makes brownies and cookies stuff like that sometimes.I try going on diets but I always seem to eat alot.I did try to starve myself the one time but I told myself thats not the bright Idea.I need too be skinny I want to be skinny and phsyically fit.Please help me
(link)
|
Dear Health and Fitness,
Where to start...to get into shape, maybe take some dance classes over the week. Dancing always helps! Maybe over the weekend you could do some swimming, swimming will harden your arm, leg, and stomach muscles. At a local store you can by an exercise tape to do at home. If you do all of those things, and work as hard as you can every time, then you are sure to loose weight. But you MUST maintain doing it! But dont wear yourself out. If you are overworking your body, its ok to take a week break. But dont be constantly be taking breaks. Ok, about the foods, you can eat normal foods, just try not to eat a lot of grease. You can't just go on a diet of just eating salads and veggies, cause your body isn't use to that and it needs the energy. So eat, but not food with a LOT of grease on it, its ok to have a salad once and a while. With chocolate, tell your mom ahead of time that your making a goal, and your goal is to not eat chocolate for 3 weeks. If your fine with not eatting chocolate, then maybe go for a month. So, couple of rules, 1) Dont starve yourself! 2) Dont overwork your body! 3) Tell me how your doing, and if its working! =)
Hope that helps!
~miSSc~
|
|
Okay im not fat now but i want to lose weight in certain places likes my butt because most ppl like big butts but for some reason i dont n the other place is my tummi i sorta kinda have a belly but thats onli after i eat but then if i eat dinner i will then when i wake up i dont have it and the last place is my thighs so if u guys have ne exercise other then go to the gym that well help me out alot thanks! (link)
|
Dear INF,
1st of all, i'm glad you dont think your fat! A lot of people make themselves starve to death because they think their fat, and even when they are skinny as a twig they think their fat. NEways, back to your question...I work out alot in dance classes, I'm not saying i'm The Hulk but i'm not saying i'm the pillberry dough boy either, but I do exercize and keep my body in shape. What I do, is lay down on my back, put my fingers in my shoe (like where the heel is) and lift my butt 8 times, then hold for 8 secs., then i lift my heels 8 times and hold it up for 8 secs. it should hurt after a while, but then your butt goes numb. LoL. For your legs, you can walk around your neighbor hood, or on your bike, or you can run. If you have anymore questions on exercises and getting into shape, I'm your girl! Hope that helps, and if you rate me, that would help me a ton! THX! (\(^v^)/)
~miSSc
|
plz u all i'm bout 2 loose my best friend..ok look...we were supose 2 meet @ 1 of our hang outs ...n then i didnt show up..n i didnt call her and she got pissed but i have done these things b4 not meaning to hurt her i had just had a death in my family (father) and everything was hecktic..i have told her this over n over again...she doesnt get it...wat do i do???
(link)
|
Dear PAT,
1st of all, i'm real sorry about your father. Did you have a good reason why you didn't show up? Or was it because of your dad? If shes not gonna listin to you, then I suggest you two take some time away from each other, then maybe she'll listin to you. Sometimes bestfriends need that. Like you've spent so much time together, that its just too much time, and then you guys start getting mad at each other over little things. Just give things some time. Right now consintrate on your family first, then your friends. Every things will work out on its own. Dont worry you aren't gonna loose your friend. Maybe shes having some troubles you dont know about. But dont ask her, if she needs your help, she'll ask you. =)
Hope that helps! If you rate me, that will REALLY help me! THX!
~miSSc~
|
0k well 2morrow i`m going to my crush`s house with a couple of other people and i`m pretty sure we are going to ho0k up but there`s one problem! I have a huge pimple like really close to my lip and i dont want him to be like grossed out or anything! How do i get rid of it and fast?!
(link)
|
Dear Ms. P,
Well, you can go get some medicine that will help it go away, but i doubt it will go away in a day. Try putting some make-up on it. Like some foundation on it. It wont make it look invisible, but it will take away the redness as long as you dont pick at it. For future cases and more healthy skin, make sure you wash your face EVERY night before you go to bed, and if you can, in the morning as well. Dont JUST use water, but buy a face wash at the grocery store make sure you look at the indigrience and make sure you aren't allergic to anything, after you apply the face wash on your face, wash it off with water and a wash cloth. Do that EVERY night and you wont have to worry about those pimples, unless your eating a lot of unhealthy food, or your about to start your period...Dont ya LOVE being a teen girl? LoL.
Hope that helps!
~miSSc~
|
|
This summer while in Canada I met a really awesome girl, however I really really really..... screwed up our relationship. I cheated on her once, guilted her into a lot of things I shouldn't have, and I lied to her so many times. It was just in the last week that I was with her that I started to straighten my act up and realize how wonderful she was. I want to say sorry so bad, but I live 1600 miles away from her and don't have a planned visit there for 2 more years, also I want to do something bigger than just write her an email and hope for the best. We are kind of friends now, we talk every now and then online, but I still feel like this is still keeping us apart. If anyone has any ideas on how to say sorry for being this horrible I'd love to hear from you. Also, flying up there just to say sorry isn't out of the picture, its about $700. I really need something big that says I'm sorry and I'm willing to do whatever it takes to have you trust me again. (link)
|
Dear HTSIS,
Your name is the title of your subject. It sounds like your not trying to win her heart back which is a good thing, because I doubt she will. Not to sound so cruel, but your the one that did this to her. If she wants to be friends with you then I think she will accept an apology from you. You can fly there, if you want to, and have the money. But, maybe either calling her, even though you have talked to her on the phone, just call her up and tell her how sorry you are and whatever you want to say. Or you can send her a long forgiving e-mail, and talk about all the GOOD times you had with her and then tell her how soryr you are. Or you can send her some flowers and a teddy bear (or whatever kind of animal she likes) and tell her your sorry on the card. Those are just some idea's. I'd go for the flowers and animal idea best. I wouldn't give her candy because it may seem like your wanted her back for a girl friend more than a friend.
Hope that helps! Tell me the results as soon as you get the results.
~miSSc~
|
I RATE.
Hi. I have been going out with girl for about 2 weeks now and she is coming over to my house tommorw. We have not kissed or made out yet, and I was wondering if anyone had any advice to get her to want to do it. Such as things to do, etc. I got a pool, TV, dvd player, computer, anything, lol (link)
|
Dear Kissy Face,
You can kiss any time, any day, and anywhere. Romantic places to kiss would be under the stars or on the beach. In the pool might be fun, lets just hope she can swim. You can "watch" a movie. Computer...I give that 2 thumbs down for 1st kiss. But I guess it doesn't matter where you kiss, it just matters if you MEAN the kiss. A few tips on what to do, and what not to do. I'll do the Do's first...1)Know where her lips are before you kiss her, unless you are aiming else where (cheek). 2) Close your eyes, its rude to stare. 3) Dont start the pucker lips before you kiss. 4) Relax the lips, its an activity not an exercise, the tongue is the one that exercises. 5) Relax in general, if your neverous, take a silent small deep breath, and go for it. 6) Always brush your teeth before seeing your date. Here are the Don'ts... 1)Dont kiss after eating, that gets kinda grose. 2) Dont interupt her while she is talking to kiss her, kiss her when both of you aren't talking. If you don't know where to put your hands, put your hands either on her hips, waist, or put one hand under her chin or face. i hope that helps! Kissing is my best sport, and my favorite hobby. LoL.
~miSSc~
|
|
how do u get a better voice? (link)
|
Dear Singer,
I would consider a vocal coach. Make sure you find one that you like and your comfortable with. I'm running out of time, but if you have anymore questions feel free to ask me!
~miSSc~
|
|
