I really really like this guy! My friend is going out with him though and i dont think she knows that i like him! But they are really cute togher and i dont want to make her mad! He is a good friend of mine to! So it's hard to tell eaither of them because i dont know what's going on with them!! what should i do?
vballchic89 answered Sunday March 20 2005, 7:31 pm: This has happened to me before! Infact, right this moment it is. My best friend is going out with Tyler who is sooo cute and we are good friends and he totally thinks im hott. I danced with him at a school dance and stuff, but I'm not really sure if she knows I like him. Anyways, enough about me... my advice is that you talk to her about it. Tell her how you feel about him. If this doesn't work, give it time. I mean, they aren't going to go out forever. When they eventually break up, make sure to get it through his head that you like him and maybe he will feel the same way. Hope things work out! best of luck, Riley [ vballchic89's advice column | Ask vballchic89 A Question ]
Drama_Secretary answered Sunday March 20 2005, 6:35 pm: I'm in your exact position. And I told the guy and my best friend now knows. And we're all ok. I'm slowly moving on, but at least now they try not to flaunt it sooo much in front of me. I don't feel bad and they are my friends so they understand me. I'd tell them. It wouldn't hurt, and they are your friends. They like knowing what's bugging you. I hope I helped. Rate me. [ Drama_Secretary's advice column | Ask Drama_Secretary A Question ]
xosweetiepiexo answered Sunday March 20 2005, 6:13 pm: i think you should let your friend and her boyfriend be... if they're happy together it wouldn't be very nice of yoou to ruin it. DOn't tell either of them... because if you tell her she'll be pissed at you and if you tell her boyfriend... he'll probably tell your friend and then she'll be even more pissed... so its best that you keep to yourself... you can still like him... but wait until they brake up or maybe just move on [ xosweetiepiexo's advice column | Ask xosweetiepiexo A Question ]
vchicka15 answered Sunday March 20 2005, 4:48 pm: dont do anything unless you are positive they dont like eachother and arent going out.. if they are going out, its best to just leave them be and dont say anything.. they like eachother, and all you can do is support them [ vchicka15's advice column | Ask vchicka15 A Question ]
miSScxoxo821 answered Sunday March 20 2005, 4:34 pm: Girl, i know these times are hard. I've been there before...I liked this one guy and i introduced him to my cousin, and now they are going out. And I was in that position that you are in now asking myself what should i do? My head tells me "go" but my heart is saying "no". Trust me i've been there. Where am I now? I am now dating someone who I am in love with. And it's not my cousin's boyfriend. And now I don't like him because i really like my boyfriend and i can let them be. So my advice for you, is to go on to a different guy. And in the process of looking for that other guy and flirting with other guys, you will forget about your friends boyfriend and how much you liked him.
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Ch@Z answered Sunday March 20 2005, 4:28 pm: You should just leave it and try not to hang around this guy too much. If you like him so much then it will make things worse being around them together. You need to think about whether you would be mad if the situation was the other way around. You shouldn't tell her or him if you think she will get mad because you don't want to lose a friend, and friends are more important then boys anyway.If i were you i would try and keep away from them and try and forget about him. If you can' just try and focus on the bad points about him!! It may put you off. If i was your friend though and was goin gout with a boy and found out my friend liked him it would probably cause a rift between both of us. You have to decide whether your friend will react badly or not. He's not worth losing her over. [ Ch@Z's advice column | Ask Ch@Z A Question ]
Dom answered Sunday March 20 2005, 4:22 pm: I would honestly let things ride out on their own. If they are cute together and are happy, they should stay happy. Ask yourself the question, if you were happy, would you want someone to barge in and take him away from you? I would let things be how they are and see what happens. If they are meant to be, then they are meant to be. Cause later on they could break up and you can take the chance to go with him. I would wait, and perhaps you may find someone even that you think that is even greater than he is. Who really knows? Anyways you should do what you think is best to do, im just here giving advice, its your choice if you should use it or not. I hope i helped though.
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punkrockprincess answered Sunday March 20 2005, 4:16 pm: I would wait until they break up and then tell the friend and see if she gets mad. If she seems fine with it, then I would tell the guy that I like him. But if she doesn't agree with it, then I would remain loyal to her. I mean, friends should go before any guy!
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