Question Posted Thursday September 23 2004, 5:56 pm
ok i'm grounded for a month ( no joke its been 2 weeks) and my frndship with ma best friend is fading away. i yell s0o much i lost my voice for 4 days and evrything. at this point i dnt wahna live nemore ! i'm losing it ! helpp me
liddylflirtx3 answered Thursday September 23 2004, 6:42 pm: Well this is kind of a hard question to answer...but I'll do my best! =)
First of all, in order to get your voice back, try to do as little talking as possible - and drink less soft drinks (soda, etc.).
For the friendship problem, you need to talk to your friend (once your voice comes back). Since you're probably not grounded from going to school for another two weeks, you'll see you best friend there =) Tell her that you feel like your relationship with her is fading away, and you're worried. Once your un-grounded, plan a day when just you two can get together and catch-up on what you guys have missed out with each other!
If you don't go to school with your best friend, you'll have to wait until your un-grounded to do what I said above (if you want to).
PleaseHelpMe answered Thursday September 23 2004, 6:22 pm: Hey . Well first off are you yelling at your friend? If you are try as hard as you can to stop and just talk to her. Since I dont really know that much I cant really help. But..A month will go by fast. You only have about a week left. Yeah it sucks ive been there. Things r gona get better. Good luck. If you wana explain more you can ask me or IM me at xbr0kenheart77x [ PleaseHelpMe's advice column | Ask PleaseHelpMe A Question ]
miSScxoxo821 answered Thursday September 23 2004, 6:11 pm: ~here's advice for ya, live everyday your fullest, don't be worried about being judged, live your own dreams, follow/listen to your own heart, be who you are because there is only ONE you (even if you are a twin), only YOU can make your own happiness! Life is too short to feel sorry for yourself and life is too fun to waste~
That's my quote. Don't say that you don't want to live anymore. That is the most saddest thing a person can say. Think of all the good stuff you have rather than the bad. I know times like this is hard, but it will eventually pay off. Just get through the day, and live it your fullest because maybe there's some1 wishing they were u. To even have a friend. To have parents of their own, mean or nice. To have a home. To have a room to be grounded in. That's only the beginning. Try thinking of stuff that you have that others don't. And that might help your mood. =) Please rate me! That would help me a ton! Thx! And I hope I helped you!
~MiSSc~ [ miSScxoxo821's advice column | Ask miSScxoxo821 A Question ]
xplisit15 answered Thursday September 23 2004, 6:07 pm: Ok the grounding sucks but u can get over it. I even got grounded from the computer, the phone and being outside after i got home from school. And i had a boyfriend...so just think, its not that bad. Your friend is prolly gonna be there for u when ur done being grounded. And dont worry bout loosin ur voice, it comes back! [ xplisit15's advice column | Ask xplisit15 A Question ]
truadvice answered Thursday September 23 2004, 6:03 pm: this is just a feeling that will go away when your not grounded anymore , like if you get mad at your brother and you want o kill him , that feeling goes away after a while ... if your friendship is fadeng away you should talk to each other at school or write letters by hand [ truadvice's advice column | Ask truadvice A Question ]
Sherry answered Thursday September 23 2004, 6:02 pm: Well at least you can go on the internet. Before you know it..you'll be ungrounded! It shouldent be that bad because I know people that have had lots of worse problems than you and everything worked out fine. Just give it time, and everything will be over soon! And talk to your friend about how your worried about losing your friendship with her. [ Sherry's advice column | Ask Sherry A Question ]
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