Is it better to have the guy you love for just one night, or not at all?
That's pretty much the choice I have to make. I can either be with him for one night, or never be with him.
I don't know what to do, I don't want to fall for him more and then just have to give him up, but I don't want to regret not being with him, even if only for a night.
katie_babey answered Monday September 10 2007, 1:10 pm: if i was you i wouldnt go and see him for one night that will just make you want him more and i know it hurts you but eventually you will realize that was for the best. It will probably take you a long time to get over it but its better to give him up then to be with him for a couple of hours then giving him up because then you will miss him more. if you need anymore hel p you can write me in my inbox [ katie_babey's advice column | Ask katie_babey A Question ]
thelaura answered Monday September 10 2007, 7:33 am: I understand your situation here, fully.
But WHY doesn't he do exclusive relationships?
Why would he be willing to do just the one night?
This part makes it very off putting and if I were you, I wouldn't bother at all.
Sure, one night would give you the memories and to have the experience of what it's like to be with him, but it all seems pretty pointless.
Move on. Find someone else - someone who wants to be with you. Not just have you for one night.
Refuse his ridiculous offer and show him just what he's missing.
I hope you make the right decision. [ thelaura's advice column | Ask thelaura A Question ]
miSScxoxo821 answered Monday September 10 2007, 1:57 am: One night stands might hurt you more than not having him at all. Your gonna be meeting better guys than the guy that just wants a one night stand or nothing at all. If I were you, I'd forget about the boy and wait for someone else
sizzlinmandolin answered Monday September 10 2007, 12:57 am: Do NOT get with this guy. He sounds like a total creep. Nobody "doesn't do exclusive relationships" unless they're a complete jerk. It is not worth it. You won't regret not getting with this guy, but you will most definitely regret it if you do. He's not worth it in any regard. You don't want to just have sex with him, you want a relationship. Just having sex will only make things worse. Sex is pointless without a relationship and will only make you want one more. Don't even consider getting with him. Good luck. [ sizzlinmandolin's advice column | Ask sizzlinmandolin A Question ]
Cmilner1607 answered Monday September 10 2007, 12:25 am: you are worth more then. He doesn't do exclusive he isnt serious. you're just a tool to him, and you'd be letting him use you, even if you likd him. B/c he doesn't return the feelings.
find a man who returns your feelings girl .:] [ Cmilner1607's advice column | Ask Cmilner1607 A Question ]
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