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plz u all i'm bout 2 loose my best friend..ok look...we were supose 2 meet @ 1 of our hang outs ...n then i didnt show up..n i didnt call her and she got pissed but i have done these things b4 not meaning to hurt her i had just had a death in my family (father) and everything was hecktic..i have told her this over n over again...she doesnt get it...wat do i do???
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Im sorry for the lost but if she was a true friend she would understand that u need spend some ime away from things jsut to think things over but please just call her if u can't do nething because thats not far because you wouldnt like it if she did that to u because she could be doing somthing else than wait for you...
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im sorry about that. u need to talk to her and tell her how u feel about everything and that u tried to be there and tell her that u need her to be there for u now.she should understand and if she still doesnt than i would find another best friend for a wile.WELL I HOPE THINGS WORK OUT FOR U.
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ok if your friends doesnt understand that one of your family members died?! Shes not a very good friend if she cant understand that. Maybe next time you should give her a call next time if you can make it though.
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hey!
ur father died and ur best friend doesnt understand?!?! wut kind of friend is she!? sry but shes really gettin made for something really stupid! u prob deserve better! good luck! <3 sarah
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just really talk to her about it and if she still doesn' except the fact that your having hard times then she's the one with the problem. She needs to grow up and act mature and if your going to lose her over something like that then she isn't your bestfriend to begin with. see best friends understand everything and they except everything
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Okay, Sorry this is happening in such a bad time, and it must be really hard for you. If your friend is really a best friend she should understand that you are going through a really tough time and that you don't always have time just for her, but just try to apologize for not showing up, if she's a true friend, she'll understand.
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Dear PAT,
1st of all, i'm real sorry about your father. Did you have a good reason why you didn't show up? Or was it because of your dad? If shes not gonna listin to you, then I suggest you two take some time away from each other, then maybe she'll listin to you. Sometimes bestfriends need that. Like you've spent so much time together, that its just too much time, and then you guys start getting mad at each other over little things. Just give things some time. Right now consintrate on your family first, then your friends. Every things will work out on its own. Dont worry you aren't gonna loose your friend. Maybe shes having some troubles you dont know about. But dont ask her, if she needs your help, she'll ask you. =)
Hope that helps! If you rate me, that will REALLY help me! THX!
~miSSc~
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To me it seems like your friend isnt being very considerate of your feelings and shouldnt be so selfish considering you just suffered a loss. If she cant understand you for not showing up because things got a little out of control dont blame yourself! She obviously doesnt care that you were busy and so you shouldnt have to worry about what she thinks. If it were me i would say this is the end and im sorry you didnt seem to care about the other commitments i had but they meant alot to me and if you cant undertand that then i dont think this friendship is going in the right direction! Hope it helps! Rate me if you want
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im really sorry for your loss, and she should be too. its uncool that she isnt respecting the fact that you and your family are greiving. dont make any plans with her until things get settled. if shes a true friend, she'll understand you need time to be with your family.
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Sorry 'bout your dad mate. Talk to your friend in person and tell about everything that's been happening lately. Try and schedule some time fo you to hang in a few weeks to give you time to grieve. If she's still pissed I'd drop her from my friends list because she obviously wasn't that good of a friend.
--Matty--
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Look your DAD just died, she should be there for you comforting you. If she doesn't understand that you had some important shit to do pertaing to your father's death then she is a shitty friend and you need to lose the bitch
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