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hey--> my brother [a college kid] screamed at me because he said i told his best friends sister [who i really dont even talk too bc shes older than me] all these stories about stuff they do at parties but i didnt...i tried to convince him it wasnt me but he doesnt believe me...today i was looking through his conversations in the log manager on aim and my bro n his best friend were talking about all this stuff they think i said but i honestly didnt know about any of it! and i dont know what to do...me and my brother got along last year really well and this summer were constantly fighting...i tried talking to him but it didnt work...hope u can help <3 thanks in advance
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just do what you can to avoid fighting with him, but its ok u two r supposed to fight its what brothers and sisters do..and we always get over it too. hell eventually figure out what happened or find out who really told and thingsll be ok again so dont sweat it. just try to get him to sit down and calmly talk about it with u again and if he wont then its not worth ur time anyway cause hell get over it. but if u two talk just tell him exactly wats on ur mind..about how u two are constantly fighting and it makes u sad and talk about u guys' lack of trust. its something that u guys should eventually talk about anyway.
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maybe it will pass...give it awhile. Then, if things still dont getpatched up do something nice like write him a nice card. He might need space cuz hes in college and its a whole new world.
good luck
-melissa-
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Why don't you try giving him space and stop searching through his conversations. Do you really blame him for thinking that you would be capable of spreading things about him if you're the type of person who spies on him? He's in college, he's growing up and he doesn't want his younger sibling hanging around.
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Maybe if you showed your bro that he was the one who was saying all these things by showing him the log manager maybe he would apologize for his actions! If he doesnt want to go look on the computer try printing it out and showing him the EVIDENCE!
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ok well lets start with your brothers prob. upset with you becouse he was looking for someone to blame and couldnt find the real person so he figured he would just take it out on you not no it. ok and second off if you dont want him mad at you for ease-dropping you might not wanna let him find you looking though his conversations. hope i could help
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Your brother is probably being such a jerk this summer, becasue he is getting older and probably think you are just a little kid. Who cares if he is mad at you, you know you didn't do that shit and thats all that matters.
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