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Location: Texas
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Age: 14
Member Since: July 29, 2004
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Last Update: July 31, 2004
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my best friend is a really good friend. but sometimes she gets on my nerves because she has to have everything her way! then when i say something to her she gets all mad at me. but shes not always like that. sometimes she's really fun. but sometimes i just wish she would be nicer. mostly she acts like that when shes around other people. i dont know what to do or to say to her..PLEASE HELP!

i rate high if its good advice.. (link)
I know how you feel because i have a friend who acts like a completly different person when she's around her other friends! It used to drive me crazy....i know it sounds hard talkin to her about this situation since she gets mad at you, but if she really cared about your feelings and cherished your friendship she'd listen to what you have to say!Otherwise, i wouldnt want to be friends with someone like that because the same friend i was talkin about who was like isnt my friend anymore! Hope i helped...


umm.. i have this friend and she is like my best friend but ever since her and this other girl that she met have became closer friends she has shut me out and i dont know what i should tell her and so i said something to her about it and she told me that she didnt want to tlak to me ne more if you have ne advice that would be helpful plz answer me i will rate everyone that answers my question thanks alot
-DesPErTlY WoRrIEd- (link)
Well to me it sounds like your friend is being a little selfish....it also sounds like she might not be the "best" of friends with you if she just shuts you out for no reason! If it was me and i was in your position i would try to find a friend who i could connect with her and her friends as well that way both of you are happy!Hope it helps even though its not the best advice lol!!!


Hey im 13 and i think that is a good age to make out but my mopm dosnt ! what do i do! im ready she isnt!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! (link)
Well if you think your ready go for it! Just dont go around telling your mom if you do end up doing it cuz that could ruin your dating life for a long time or until she forigves you, which with moms its not telling how long it could be!


can a girl cum? (link)
yes, its just different than a guys!


hey--> my brother [a college kid] screamed at me because he said i told his best friends sister [who i really dont even talk too bc shes older than me] all these stories about stuff they do at parties but i didnt...i tried to convince him it wasnt me but he doesnt believe me...today i was looking through his conversations in the log manager on aim and my bro n his best friend were talking about all this stuff they think i said but i honestly didnt know about any of it! and i dont know what to do...me and my brother got along last year really well and this summer were constantly fighting...i tried talking to him but it didnt work...hope u can help (link)
Maybe if you showed your bro that he was the one who was saying all these things by showing him the log manager maybe he would apologize for his actions! If he doesnt want to go look on the computer try printing it out and showing him the EVIDENCE!


plz u all i'm bout 2 loose my best friend..ok look...we were supose 2 meet @ 1 of our hang outs ...n then i didnt show up..n i didnt call her and she got pissed but i have done these things b4 not meaning to hurt her i had just had a death in my family (father) and everything was hecktic..i have told her this over n over again...she doesnt get it...wat do i do???
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To me it seems like your friend isnt being very considerate of your feelings and shouldnt be so selfish considering you just suffered a loss. If she cant understand you for not showing up because things got a little out of control dont blame yourself! She obviously doesnt care that you were busy and so you shouldnt have to worry about what she thinks. If it were me i would say this is the end and im sorry you didnt seem to care about the other commitments i had but they meant alot to me and if you cant undertand that then i dont think this friendship is going in the right direction! Hope it helps! Rate me if you want


okay well i have this rly rly good friends and she is like the only one who understands me and can help me w. my probs...but...my mom absolutly HATES her and wont let me hang out w. her and doesnt want me on the phone w. her that much any more becuz she thinks shes a " bad influence" or some shit like that but i didnt tell neone this to my friend cuz she is the truest friend i have and i dont wanna stop bein friends w. her....wat do i do? (link)
I know exactly what your going through because my mom thinks the same thing about one of my closest friends. Its a tough rode to go down because whenver you get the oppurtunity to do something with that friend your chances are takin away by your mom. My friend and me are still really close, but everytime i try to say good things about her my mom always finds something wrong and makes her look bad once again. We still talk on the phone until 3 in the morning without my parents knowing and sometimes if i'm lucky my mom lets me go to her house...but dont worry soon she might grow on your mom, but you have to keep thinking positive!!! I know its not the best advice but you could even try talkin to your mom cuz u never know wat could happen!
PS: Whats your name(username or your real one doesnt matter)Just send it as a question lol


I have been going to the same Christian school all my life. Now Im entering high school and I have the choice to go to the public highschool near my house. Im worried about not making friends or getting into trouble in the public school. Its my choice but I cant decide. Which on should I go to and why? Please help! I know its a stupid question but please .. Thanks!

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Well you sounud very comfortable with the Christian school, but it never hurt to try anything new. I mean your just going into high school along with many other freshmen who have the same fears about making friends. Trust me i should know! All the other freshmen are scared of where all there new classes are and how their going to get there and who all they'll meet, but try not to stress about it cuz like i said everyones scared of high school and all its new wonders!


I got bit by a spider the other day, it wasn't poisonus but I bled and now theres a red bump on my arm and my cat accidently scratched it and it hurt! (link)
Hmmm....spiders makes me think of spiderman. Maybe your turning into spiderwoman!!!


Me and my friend have been best friends for years, and she went away one year to NJ, and came back all weird! she came back with these scary ppl with spiked hair and ripped clothes and scary studded bracelets and chains listening to creeeepy music! we used to listen to beyonce and britney but now shes listenng to zebrahead! and she dosen't cheerlead like me nemore! how do i get her bak 2 normal? (link)
Well some ppl arent fixable or maybe she's just not broken, but maybe she's just meant to be some creepy drug addict who listens to weird music and doesnt know how to fix her hair


a guy wants me to have sex with him but i dont want to but he said hes gonna dump me if i dont have sex (link)
I dont know why you dont want have sex with him but dump him before he dumps you...duh


theres this guy named steve and he likes me and follows me all around and he took a subway to the movies when he knew i was going to that theatre and sat right behind us! and later followed me to my house and threw a rock at my window so i came utside and he was standing there asking if i wanted to go out with him and i said no and h tapped into my phone line and can hear everything and whenever i make plans he turns up there help! (link)
File a lawsuit and a restraing order, cuz then that way everybody is happy except for steve all because you sued him and got lots of money and he can never see you again.....but thats just an idea


Is pink a good color? (link)
Of Course it is....and dont let anyone tell you otherwise!




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