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umm.. i have this friend and she is like my best friend but ever since her and this other girl that she met have became closer friends she has shut me out and i dont know what i should tell her and so i said something to her about it and she told me that she didnt want to tlak to me ne more if you have ne advice that would be helpful plz answer me i will rate everyone that answers my question thanks alot
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That has happened to me before... You two need to talk it out if your bestfriends!!
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Well to me it sounds like your friend is being a little selfish....it also sounds like she might not be the "best" of friends with you if she just shuts you out for no reason! If it was me and i was in your position i would try to find a friend who i could connect with her and her friends as well that way both of you are happy!Hope it helps even though its not the best advice lol!!!
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Okay, first thing ask her why all of a sudden she's just shuttin you out.. if there's anything you did or said. Also, maybe invite both of them over, because then you can get to know her other friend, maybe she'll become a great friend to you too! Just keep tryin to figure out whats going on with her, good luck! :)
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thats happened to me before too. and im sure ive done it as well. but i dont think ive gone so far as too say..i dont want to talk to you anymore.. but if ur friend really doesnt want to talk to you anymore than there isnt really much you can do about it honestly. just try to get her to sit down and talk to you about it becuase most likey since she has a new friend shes going to be wanting to hang out with you when her other friend already has plans. just try talking to her about it again and if u guys really arent friends anymore than know it was probably for the best. who wants a friend wholl dump u as soon as sumthin better comes along right? ull find better friends.
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dont even say anything to her. thats what i would do. i wouldnt make an effort tryna talk to someone that wants to be a fuckin dickhead. especially when shes supposed to be my bestfriend. shes not worth it. dont even try to go to her trying to fix the problem. shes the one losing out, fuck her
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i had this problem before . what did you say , did you say something about her other frined .maybe its just her other friend.
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You can ask her why she sudden;y doesn't wanna be your friend. Like is it because of her new friend. But if she still acts like a bitch then forget her, you don't need a friend who when she finds someone new decides to exclude and treat you like you don't exist.
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maybe make one more trii talkin to her bout it, show that u care, but dont over do it. after that last trii, just wait and wait, once her and her lil new best friend get ina fight shes going to run back to u, TRUST ME. but u cant always be that person whos goin to be there for her whenever she needs some1..dont let her take u for granit. remember one last trii, then trii hard and move on, ull be able to find a better friend than her..
gO0d luCk..
~kristin
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well u have to try to make it better wit her again ((that might take time but if this friends worth it then time wont matter)) u could also go up the other girl ur friends been hanging out wit more and tell her how u have been feelin about them hangin out and dont say like to her ur makein this happen even thought it is sorta her fult BUT not all her fult and u have to remember that ur other friend is hangin out wit her 2 .......or another way is to talk to them both all of u together talkin about it and showing how every ones feels agout it.......just ask ur self what u want to do ok....
hopeful i helped in any way......
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she must not be that good of a friend then! i must admitt ive done it to some of my friends before and theyve done it to me too but maybe you need to just take a breather, theres nothin really you can say to her that shell say what shes doing is stupid, you oculd try to talk to her again, but maybe it is time to just hang out with other friends .. .sorry i cant actully say somthing that would change it
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i think you need to tell her that you want to be her friend and that you hope you still can be friends even if she has a new friend also
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