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sorry its really long but i really need help
idk what to do any more me and this guy went out for a while and i really liked him....but we lived like 20 mins away from eachother,so0o he did this to me 3 times...he keep sayin i dont know if we should still go out any more and by the 3 time he broke up with me.....he broke my heart 3 TIMES and he told me he still loved me and all that and i met another guy like a week ago that i started to really like and ((this other guy that broke my heart was goin to ask me out again and i felt so0o bad that i didnt love him any more and every ones like yellin at me b.c i wouldnt go back out with him ((even though he hurt me more then i hurt him)) what should i do to make him be my friend HELP ????
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~well it might take him awhile, if ever, if he's going to be your friend. when he broke your heart, would you have really felt like being his friend? give him some time to cool off, and then talk to him. tell him you care about him, but not that way, and you hope this doesn't come between you two. and as for those people who are yelling at your for not going back out with him, don't listen to them at all.. never let anyone (friends or family) force you into a relationship. they didn't exactly feel the hurt and pain he put you through did they? so they really have no right to say anything bad about your decision. and concerning this new guy, i hope everything works out better this time for you. have fun with it!
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Lana
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If they don't understand he hurt you so many times you don't wanna take the chance of getting hurt, then just ignore them. This is between you and the guy who hurt you. If you don't want to be more than friends with him, then tell him that. If he gets mad, he'll get over it! Also, tell all of your friends that its your choice, not theirs, they can't force you to go out with someone that you don't want to. Good Luck!
<3 Megan
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Well its not your fault that he dumped you. You shouldn't feel bad that you moved on and found somebody new. And people should nto be on your case about not taking him back, he played mind games with you, he doesn't deserve you and you don't need to risk the heartache again. Just tell the guy you are really sorry but that is the way things have to be, he had his chance. But you would like it if you could still be friends. if he says he can't handle that though, then you are just gonna have to deal with it. Hope I helped and feel free to ask me for advice anytime, its what I'm here for. Good Luck! :)
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im glad to hear that ur question wasnt like what shoul do to like him again so i wont hurt him?? because i realli think that tha reason y hes comin back to u is cause he misses tha attention u gave him, and now he sees u have a new priority, he wants u back. all u gotta do, and keep doing, is tell tha ppl who are yellin at u to get back with him this: he hurt my too manii times, and i found some1 new who wouldnt ever do nething to hurt me the way he did. then u tell him tha exact same thing and that u just wanna be friends with him. what more can u do?
~kristin
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tell him that he hurt you so many times and you dont want to feel that pain all over again but tell him that you think he is a good guy you just dont want to be more than friends and say that you hope you can atleast be friends nothing more
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