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Question Posted Friday July 30 2004, 4:03 pm

For homecomming I want to be able to actually dance fast. I dance in my room all the time by myself and I think I'm fine...but then I look at other people dancing and I feel dumb! None of my friends can dance either, so do you have any tips or anything??

-Zero
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mandax0 answered Friday July 30 2004, 4:31 pm:
Hey Zero,
Firstly, you shouldn't really worry about what people think of you. Most people look foolish on the dance floor anyway so it's really no sweat. Just have fun and don't pay attention to the people surrounding you. If you feel THAT self-concious about the way you dance, maybe you should try some dance classes. I suggest maybe taking a hip hop class because you'll learn some cool moves that way. Or if you're a fast learner maybe sign up for a breakdancing class. You'll usually be able to find dance schools/classes around town, depending on where you live. Or you might even be able to find one at your local YMCA or gym. If you're too shy of a person to take dance classes or there's not enough time to learn, perhaps you should take out some videos from the library or download some videos off the internet that teach you some moves. I hope I helped and honestly you shouldn't worry about such a thing. It's not a huge deal and most people at dances are not even paying attention to you, they're usually chatting it up with their friends. So just go to the dance and have fun!! I hope I helped!

-Amanda

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PuReLuVeR143 answered Friday July 30 2004, 4:20 pm:
at dances, no1 realli pays attention to how other ppl danCe.. but ull be suprised to how many ppl spend their time AT dances feeling self concious bout how they danCe. if i were u, dont worry bout looking good, just have fun. go crazii and dance tha way u dance in ur roOm. once ur friends see that u dont care bout tha u look when u dance, then they will feel more comfortable to dance toO!
g0Od luCk..kristin :)

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soljette answered Friday July 30 2004, 4:17 pm:
hmm.. i guess there isnt really such a thing as not knowing how to dance or what not and you cant possibly be that bad at it. just as long as you have confidence in yourself while you do so.

for me, when i dont care what people think, i actually dance a lot better. so just try blocking other people out

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LilMia811 answered Friday July 30 2004, 4:14 pm:
Just be yourself and have a good time... when everyone is just dancing and having a good time no one is really looking at anyone.

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Sexybabii9095 answered Friday July 30 2004, 4:11 pm:
dance fast as in what? my friend to learn how to grind and all that fun stuff, watched rap videos and some fast ones like that, and tryed to do what the guys in the video did, she downloaded the videos on kazaa and rewatched them, and shes awsome now!or you could invite friends over and learn with them

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hErEtoheLp answered Friday July 30 2004, 4:09 pm:
I have the EXACT same thing, except all of my friends can dance. I think I can dance, but when I get out there, I freeze up. What you might do, is that when there's a REALLY big crowd together of like 7-12 people dancing in a group, go in the middle and dance at first. It'll make you feel a little bit more comfortable, and then soon you could probably ease in to dancing with two or three people, and then just you.

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xo_Meg_ox answered Friday July 30 2004, 4:09 pm:
remember the point of dancing - to have fun, so having fun is the priority nomatter how dumb you look...some pointers tho : loosen up, move your feet , don't look like your concentrating, and if you know the words then make eye contact with someone and sing your heart out! <3 hope i helped

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ButterflyKissxx3 answered Friday July 30 2004, 4:08 pm:
If you think you look fine go with it! Or just observe other people and try to imitate what they do. If you still don't want to do that then you can rent like dancing videos. Like Carmen Electra's new dance video and practice. You'll be fine! Good Luck! <3

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jbdreamer answered Friday July 30 2004, 4:05 pm:
All of your freinds should get together and take a dancing class. Not only will you learn to dance, but it will be a fun activity to share with eachother.

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