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E-mail: poohluvr904@aol.com
Gender: Female
Location: Glen Cove, New York
Occupation: Student
Age: 14
AIM: ButterflyKizzxx3
Member Since: July 26, 2004
Answers: 164
Last Update: August 10, 2004
Visitors: 7839
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hey i just ordered contacts.. im gettin them the 23rd =)) but n e ways.. i need some info on what and what not to do with them in ur eyes that the docter doesnt tell me.. please help.. =)
lilcutie910 (link)
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Don't rub them really fast or hard because then the edge of the contact will rub against your eyes and it hurts like crazy. And try not like putting lotion on your hands and then rubbing your eyes cause it'll sting. That's all. Hope I helped!
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im 13/f never made out with a guy and i feel so...unloved lol! is there sumthin wrong with me? where did i go wrong?!? (link)
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No there's nothing wrong with you. I'm 14 and I just had my first kiss two weeks ago. Just wait for the right time and the right guy. Hope I helped!
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i've been playing the guitar for almost 2 years now and i'm pretty good at it... my friends want to start a band but they need a bass player... i was thinking about becoming a bass player. has anyone here played guitar and then started playing bass? is there a big difference? how hard is it to play? and how badly will i get calisis on my fingers? (link)
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It's almost exactly the same except for the sound. It's not that hard you just have to get used to it and you'll get a couple of calisis on your fingers but just for the first couple of days. Hope I helped!
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omg ok i turned 15 in june & i've never "french kissed" any1..like wut tha hell..all my friends have and iduno..i've had so many boyfriends & almost all of them have wanted to make-out with me, but that's when i usually dump them and go hide b/c im soooo nervous...like i want to sooo badly but i'm scared..i don't know what to do, and i don't want to look dump b/c i'm a bad kisser or w/e..iduno..i'm seein this guy now..who i absolutely adore & i don't want to ruin it b/c i'm scared of my first kiss..i love him so much and he's 2 years older than me so i know he'll want to kiss..help..='(...i know after i get the first one over with i'll be fine..i'm just usually hesitant when it comes to doing things i'm unsure about..sorry its so long..i'm just upset & scared & confused..and i hope ya'll can be understanding and help me out..thanx (link)
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Just go with it. It'll be nerve-racking at first but once you get going you'll like it trust me lol. Trust yourself and say well he'll like me a lot more if we make out or something that'll make you do it. He'll like it! lol. Hope I helped!
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this is gonna be long but i promise iw ill rate u really good. ok here goes: i used to be best friends with this boy but we're not really as close anymore, but we still love eachother and care about eachother and stuff. ok so he went on vacation for a while and his gf started becoming friends w/ this guy, and the guy told me that she did all this stuff with him like lick his neck, french kisshim, lay on his lap and rub his thing w/ her head, etc. well her boyfriend came back and he found out they were hanging out and he was sorta mad cuz well you know, why wouldn't he be? my question is should i tell him? i want to stay out of it cuz i dont want any drama but i luv him and wish he knew. i dont think she'll tell him or break up w/ him soon but i dont know. help. (link)
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Well if you care about this guy forget the promise. Just tell him to not tell her that you told him. Confusing but hope you got it lol. If you guys are close he won't tell. And then his slutty girlfriend gets dumped. Isn't life wonderful? lol Hope I helped!
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i am very confused and i dont know if this kid likes me or not! we didnt talk since school ended n then this 1 time he was online and we were talkin and gettin along fine and then he got offline and randomly called me and i was really suprised. the next couple days after that he would get online and we would talk for a little bit then get off and call me but i went away on vacation so he couldnt call so that ended that. but on the phone we talk about a lot of stuff we never used to bcuz i guess we both just changed or somethin and he says like he never knew how kool i was. also he asked me before randomly who i liked these days. and i told him i might b movin but like i do have the chance to move or not and he said it was stupid and to decide not to move and he was givin me ideas and reasons not to move so i dont know of any1 can translate if he likes me or not or what i should do and say to him because i relle like him
oh yeah it says to include my age ok im 14 and a girl (link)
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Hmm. If he called you and IMed you on the computer he probably has feelings for you. Ask him or tell him how you feel on the computer. Tell him first. He'll be very excited. Hope I helped!
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Okay Heres the deal:
I really like this boy in my grade and well I don't think he likes me like that. I think he likes the girl who I really really hate! I know the boys phone number but I'm too chicken to call and I never can ask my friends to call even though they know! Please Help Me! (link)
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Try IMing him or E-mailing him to tell him. Or even write him a note in school. It's okay not to call him. I understand. Just try one of those ways and he'll find out. Hope I helped!
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ok so we added a website under our profile settings for pictures and after we do that and veiw our column our website isnt on there...how to we make it appear? (link)
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It just needs to load. It'll take overnight. But you'll see it soon. The administators want to see the website before they let you put it on. It'll be on there tomorrow. Hope I helped!
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i've been told i have an AWESOME stance at the plate when im hitting, but when the ball comes and i go to swing, i rotate my body and slap at the ball, like i dont watch the ball hit the bat i guess bc i turn my self, when i do that, i step out, which is making me a super pull hitter to the left side which sucks bc the teams are gettin used to me and know where my sweet spots are . eerr . but i guess what im tryin to ask is does anyone have like any advice on how to correct it . my cousin tried to help me but hes a guy so hes different then a girl you know lol . idk i just need some advice on how to make my swing more even . i guess im rotating my body, stepping out, and reaching for the ball . ughh . i hate it bc im hittin like little grounders RIGHT to short or 3rd and its horrible bc at the beginig of this season i was hittin triples and doubles all over the out field and now ima pull hitter right to short . ugh . so any advice will be overly apprieciated . (link)
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Softball is my life. I'm on 4 teams and I'd love to help you! I used to be a pull hitter but I hit it to the right side not the left side. I reached out further for the ball and I "squashed the bug" if you know what that means to rotate your back foot. Try making the ball hit a different section of the bat. You have to practice. Hope I helped!
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i have this crysh on one of my friends. I haven't seen or talked to him in a long time. Well todea he and I were im-ing each other. me and him have a lot of jokes that no one else gets because they are like inside jokes. i know i flirt with him alot but some of our jokes are... interseting... (they aren't sex related but we do have sum bout kissing and such.)Is he flirting back or is he all bout friendship? (link)
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He's flirting back, if you have inside jokes about making out and stuff. He's flirting back. Tell him you like him. He'll probably like you back because of your jokes. Good Luck!
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I do gymnastics and there is this really mean and stupid girl there,I hate her.My friends at gymnastics always hang out with her, but what they dont know is that this girl always talks about them really bad behind there backs. I try to tell them but they just say I am being a *icth and that I just want them to hang out with me and with no one else.This girl is starting to get on my nerves and ruin a great friendship. Sombody pppllleeeaaaaasssseeee help me!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
xXask_me_anythingXx (link)
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Tell your friends that seriously she does talk about them and tell them what she says. Then they'll realize it. Tell the mean girl to stop talking about your friends, but do it privatley so your friends don't see you. The mean girl probably won't get it, but if your friends really are you friends, they get the hint. Hope I helped!
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Hey Caity...I went to party and I started talking to this guy Ryan at the time he seemed really cool so I gave him my number so we could keep in touch,we started dating and I got pregnet I told him and he told me he wasnt ready to be a father and i wasnt gonna keep it I felt really scared and i didnt know how to tell mt parents and what they`d think of me...Im 3 weeks pregnet now and Im only 16 I know i shouldnt keep it but apart of me tells me I should!Ryan still doesnt want me to keep it and he told me that he loved me and that he wouldnt let anything bad ever happen to me But if he loved me he would help me through this.What should I do? -Kayla (link)
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Tell your parents. They should know. Even though you absolutley don't want to tell them you have to. The abortion is up to you. Think about it, the giving birth part ( which isn't very fun ) But you can get a c-section.But killing a kid that hasn't even been born yuet. No one can really tell you what to do. This is one of those situations where you have to make it by yourself. I know I didn't help but I hope I made you feel better!
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Alright. I have this guy bestfriend whom I have known for 2-3 years. I used to move a lot when I was younger, and this is the first time I've actually remained in one city. He's the most person that I am closest to. We used to date but we broke up, then that's when we became best friends. He moved to Austin awhile back, but we still talked everyday. I got a boyfriend that I'm in love with which I've been dating for like 6 months now. My best friend came back down from Austin for the summer. When I saw him I got mixed feelings for him, but I brushed it off. Then, he finally told me he had strong feelings for me. He's always had feelings for me. But I don't think the feeling is mutual. I love him to death, but I'd rather be with the boyfriend I have now. My best guy/friend has been chasing after me all summer. Finally, he's realized that he should just stop trying because it's getting no where except more drama and tears for the both of us. I suggested that we should just be friends, but he came out with "It's hard to be friends when I am madly in love with you. It hurts too much." So, we talked it out... and the only resort came down to completely NOT talking anymore. Basically from best of friends to nothing; not even acquaintances. I don't know if that will work out. I love him, but not in that way. I would like him as a best friend, but he says we can't do that. He says that we should stop calling each other and whatever. I don't know if this is really going to work. I just want everything resolved. Advice anyone? [If anyone understood this paragraph] (link)
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I understood. Well it's okay to have a friend that likes you. Tell him that. Sure it's gonna get on your nerves sometimes but you wanna save this relationship. So tell him you still wanna be friends no matter what. It'll work. Hope I helped!
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Yes. It's another one of those Dating complaints. Although I know there are way too many of these, I'm afraid I'm going to have to contribute.
I'm currently dating a young man who is five years older than I am. (I am fourteen and he is nineteen, if that helps any.)
No one really knows that I am with him. I haven't told my friends nor have I told my family, of course. I don't want to be forced to break up with him just because my family believes the age difference is too much. *shrug*
Anyways...One of the problems in our relationship is...we have never met. We're dating over the internet. And, although this may seem silly and (that I know personally and who knows him personally and has met him) and ever since the first time I talked to him, I found myself attracted to him. He asked me out and we've been together ever since.
Of course...It all seems rather...odd. I've never had an internet relationship, before, and I've never had a relationship this serious. I've actually thought about my future with this guy. Marriage, kids, etc.
I really don't know that much about him, though. And he's hesitant to tell me very much.
Should I get out of this relationship? Should I ask him to tell me more about himself? Is there something that I need to do? I'm confused...And I know I don't really have any specific questions. I just need advice.
Thank you. :) (link)
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If you honestly like him you shouldn't get out of the relationship. Tell him you feel like you don't know a lot about him, and ask him some questions. And if you know someone that knows him have that person go with you to meet him. You should meet him, if your planning your future I think you might wanna meet him first lol. Hope I helped!
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on my friend Greg's LJ it has this little paddlelock on the top of his past couple entries. What does that mean. In the entries from like a month ago don't have them and he said something about making his journal friends only so is that why that paddlelock is there (link)
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Yeah, the padlock is there only for is journal friends to see it and not for the public to see. Hope I helped!
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ok, my friend did this project in health class, and she used this article (i think it came from the newspaper). It was a 5 year old and she was pregnant! Is that possible or is it just a lie? (but newspapers dont really lie..so??) (link)
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I don't think that's possible. In order to get pregnant you have to get your period. And I honestly don't think a 5 year old would get they're period at that young. Maybe she made up the whole thing. Which I think she did. Good Luck!
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how do you keep your clothes from shrinking.. like jeans and shirts!! please help (link)
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Your probably using hot water in the wash. You should use cold water for your clothes and hot water for towels and stuff. Hope I helped!
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My parents both smoke... i dont like it at all and i know its killing the both the both of them! I dont want them to die and i dont want my lungs to suffer from it.. what can i do to tell them that they need to stop! I rate high.. please help me! (link)
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Well, they both know the side effects already because people have probably told them. Tell them you want them to stop because you want your parents to live up to your wedding day or something like that. Tell them you'll help them. When my aunt smoked I hid all of her cigarettes in the draw of my dresser, sometimes I even flushed them down the toilet ( I wouldn't reccomend that lol) She got the hint and tried to stop with that patch. Tell your parents about that to. HopeI helped!
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this will most likely be my only guy question i ever ask...but here we go. No guy had ever liked me until 8th grade (Last school year..), and then for some reason, 2 guys did, at the same time. they both rode my bus and they were both awesome. I liked them both, but i think i liked one more than the other. I wound up going out with the one that i liked less, because he asked me, and i liked him, so i said yes...why wouldn't i? I know i really did like him, because that whole time we went out, i felt guilty, because i still liked that other guy, but i wasn't sure anymore if i liked my boyfriend. One day, i heard that he had kissed another girl, so i told the other guy that i liked, who is his friend, to ask him about it. that weekend, i got an e-mail from my boyfriend. he said it was just a friendly kiss, and if other people were going to consider that cheating, "maybe we shouldn't go out anymore." at that moment, i realized i did like him, and i cried. but in my reply to his letter, i told him i wasn't angry. 2 days later, he was going out with another girl.
(we went out from nov. till about the end of feb.)
i told you that, to tell you this.
even though i refuse to admit it, i think i still like him, because he's so funny and everything. i have dreams we're still together, and it just bugs me. and the thing is...i STILL like that guy i liked while i was going out with him. i'm really confused, and i don't know what to do.
if you can make any sense out of this, please tell me what i can do!
sorry so long! (link)
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Wow, I had to read that twice lol. Well now, I think your single. If you like both of them tell the one you like more, even if they have a girlfriend they can't stop your feelings so go ahead and tell them. If you want a boyfriend tell the one that doesn't have a girlfriend lol. If you need more help just ask!
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Can I have details to what you told me.. (link)
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lol.Sure. Well to go up a shirt, he just takes his hand(s) and goes up your bra and shirts and like plays with your boobs and squeezes them. And for you to go down his pants you jerk him off. You go down there and feel around lol, and start rubbing it. It's hard to explain.lol. Hope those are enough details for you!
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