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this is gonna be long but i promise iw ill rate u really good. ok here goes: i used to be best friends with this boy but we're not really as close anymore, but we still love eachother and care about eachother and stuff. ok so he went on vacation for a while and his gf started becoming friends w/ this guy, and the guy told me that she did all this stuff with him like lick his neck, french kisshim, lay on his lap and rub his thing w/ her head, etc. well her boyfriend came back and he found out they were hanging out and he was sorta mad cuz well you know, why wouldn't he be? my question is should i tell him? i want to stay out of it cuz i dont want any drama but i luv him and wish he knew. i dont think she'll tell him or break up w/ him soon but i dont know. help.
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Well if you care about this guy forget the promise. Just tell him to not tell her that you told him. Confusing but hope you got it lol. If you guys are close he won't tell. And then his slutty girlfriend gets dumped. Isn't life wonderful? lol Hope I helped! <3
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DEFINTLY tell him because if u carea about him dont you want wuts best for him? Wouldnt u wanna know if u were in his place??hope i helped n good luck xoxo
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Yeah i think u should tell him... cuz if he gets too emotionally involved wit diz girl & she still messes around hes gonna be really hurt... & than ur gonna feel really guilty... its better that u let him know whats up... even if he doesnt break up wit her.. ur job as a friend is to let him know... than the decision is up to him...
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yu shuld tell him... becuz if yu loved him yu wuldn`t want him to be wid sumone if they cheated... even if he gets mad he will relize yu did it for da right reasons...cuz if he found out nd knew that yu knew he`d prolly be real pissed at yu f0r not tellin him...s0 yu shuld tell him
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i think it would be better comeing from you because your his friend .. tell him you really care about him and dont want him to get heart ....
xoO Daniielle
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It depends on how well he really loves you and cares for you and everything and how well he takes things cause i mean you dont want it to back fire or nething like that i mean i would tell him but i would be afraid that he would take it the wrong way or something cause thats not right for her to do while her bf is away its like gezz keep it in your pants or just stay out of it...Talking about for her...but i mean i would tell him cause thats not right at all and i mean yeah its his gf and all but i would more in less recommend you for him gf you should better then her shes a slezbag if you ask me i think that you should tell him but stay calm about it and everything and just be there for him
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wow. his girlfriend definitely got used by that other dude. that totally made her look like trash. anyway, I think you should tell him so HE doesn't get used either (by her). think about it! :)
ps, who cares about the drama? because no one will be mad at you except for the girl!
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Hi. it depends well i guess how the girl is...is she known for being with a lot of guys yah kno? because if she has and then i say you tell him so he and the rest of the guys wont get hurt. and if you are going to tell him no matter what..find a right time to tell him so it might be less hurt. or just write him a note or type it so he doesnt kno who it is and drop it by his locker or something therefore he wont kno who told him so you wont be in it...and just stay with him alot to make sure he's okay if you choose to tell him...hope i helped! x3 SweetStar.
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Some people would tell you to keep your mouth shut, but I'm not one of those people.
First, I would make sure you're telling him for the right reasons - you should be telling him because you care about him as a friend, not because you secretly want to be with him. I'd also question the guy who told you all this stuff - how well do you know him? Can he be trusted?
Next, you have to know that he might get angry with you. Nobody wants to hear really bad news, and his first reaction of hurt and anger might be directed at you.
If you decide you want to tell him anyway, I would sit him down - alone - and bluntly tell him what you heard. Don't exaggerate anything or add your personal opinion. Just say something like 'I heard that such-and-such happened, and because you're my friend, I thought you should know.'
Be prepared to comfort him or to be yelled at - but stay calm and try to keep it from getting personal. If you help make the house crash down, you can't run away when the dust flies.
Good luck.
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I think that you should tell him! No person deserves to be cheated on and if she did it once she will more likely do it again! Then after the heat with that settles down a little bit i would just tell him how you feel about him. Say that you dont want it to affect your friendship but most of the time the best bf/gf is your best friend! Thats what i found out. So give it a shot and let me know how things go!
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