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Ok im 13 and ive never made out wit a guy (ima gurl) and my best friend always does things b4 meh and she just made out wit sum1 and now i feel like a loner. wat do i do
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Dont let anyone pressure you into making out or kissing someone if you are not ready cuz my bf tried to pressure me into it but i just couldnt and it ended up we broke up like 3 days lata. So plz anything even a break up or a fight is better than doing something you dont want to. Wait until you want to and dont let your friend and wut she does pressure you.
much luv
-Missy-
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i kinda had the same problem! in 7th grade ppl said i was "prude" bc i had never even kissed anyone. and all my friends did it like it was no big-deal. dont let your friends bother you like that. your time will come i promise. and dont get peer-pressured into doing things just because your friends do, bc that can lead into drugs, and other bad stuff. :0)
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don't worry hun about only being 13 and never being kissed! its perfectly normal! just wait for the right guy and make that first kiss special! =) don't just waste it on anyone! make it a person you'll remember forever! your not a loner cause your not alone..many girls are 13 and have never been kissed! you'll be alright! i promise! =)
<3*Chelsea
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its not a competition, your 1st kiss/makeout will come soon enough, when the right guy and the right time comes along you'll know, dont rush into it! your 13! many years to go! you'll know when its right, but for now, dont think of it as a competition
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dont just make out with someone...u gotta like em first, once u find the guy u will make out, dont worry!
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Don't go with her! That's too young. Unless you really really really like that guy. Or, figure out something that your friend hasn't done yet and do that. Hope I helped! Rate me please!
xoxo, Maris
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Don't worry about it... your time will come. And you don't have to do everything your bestfriend dose. When your ready the time will come!
xoxo chels
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dun worrii bout it... yu` tyme will come nd im sure when u ho0k up wid a guy it will mean m0re to yu nd the guy... dun put yu`rself out liek yu`r easy... ull find a guy nd ho0k up wif him nd it will feel better then jus ho0kin up wid sumone f0r no reason what so eva yu`r still young nd g0t tyme... dun rush anything...
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dont do things just because ur best friend did it. Peer pressure is hard but when your ready to make out then u make out but till then dont do it bcuz ur friend did it. hope i could help!
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Hello =) YOur only 13 ... don't rush things. I hope I helped .. drop one in the inbox if you want. <3 Laura
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i dont know how that feels sorry to say... but im on the other side of this is i put myself in a place. making out is part of having fun as a teenager!! make urself really cute and find a guy to make out with... lol. it might not sound right but have fun!! and if you cant find a guy like that then get one of your guyfriends to practice on for the later boyfriends if you know what i mean. maybe that guy friend may end up being more then a friend. <3 xogiggles37xo.
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If you feel that you have to compete against your best friend, there's something wrong.
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Sure, she made out with a guy first. Even if you wanted to, there's no way you can 'beat' her in that category.
Here's something to aim for: Why not beat her in not making out with someone until you really care for them and they return the feeling?
Your first kiss should be something you look back at with fond memories, not something that happened because you felt badly about yourself. Give it time, and you'll be glad if you wait for a special person.
And one other thing - when you and your friend are both 90, chances are her memory of her first kiss will be pretty hazy as it would have happened 77 years ago! At least you'll get a few months, if not a couple of years, of extra memories.
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wait until you are ready.. you dont have to do everything your best friend does just because she does it!!
-xxoBrianna
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well you should wait for someone you really like don't just copy your friend because she does everthing before you
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Just cause she does something doesnt mean you have to jump on the band wagon too i was a freshman in high school before i ever made out with a guy and everything you can do things in your own time you dont have to do everything just cause she does it you have to be your own person not try and be her.
-Cass-
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hey im 14...and ive never made out with a guy....i mean its not lyk im fat and ugly or anything....in skinny and have blonde hair....and lyk before i used to think "omg i cant wait till i hook up with a guy" but lyk now im just lyk...well it will happen when it happens and im not gona rush it....when i make out with someone for the first time i want it to be meaningful....
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I know people that haven't even had their first kiss at 13 so your okay! Make*out or smooch anytime you feel its right!! Don't push yourself too hard! gl hun! -*-Sonnie-*-
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its ok if ur friend made out wit someone b4 u cuz making out doesnt even involve her. i hope.its only u and ur guy.just be more aggresive with your next bf if u really have to make out.otherwise don worry about it.
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its okay..! all things happend and diffrent times jus cuz u havnet had ur first kiss dont mean anything..jus wait its suppose to be special for u and ur not a loner jus wait it will come by..got any more questions drop by my inbox!!bye
bubbles aka kourtney
much luv :-)
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Dont feel bad. Things happen when they are supposed to ...Your first kiss should be special so dont rush anything. Just wait patiently and it will come soon enough and when it does you will be glad ou didnt waste it on someone meaningless. Hope I helped!
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We are all running at different paces.So don't feel like you have to grab a guy and start making out with him just because your friend has.Don't feel like a loner.I have friends that haven't even kissed a guy but it doesn't mean we aren't friends.And even though I have I don't feel better than them or whatever.It's just something I've done.It's not who I am.Most friends are way differnt from each other.Overlook the fact that you both do different things, and just continue being friends that are running at different paces.
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Don't worry too much about doing your friend doing things before you. The right guy will come along for you to make out with, lol. Don't sweat it - you're young. You have loads of time to find a guy. I didn't really make out with a guy until I was almost fifteen, and I'm perfectly normal.
Hope this helped!
-Siren =)
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Hey. well are you ready to make out with a guy? maybe your want to take things slow unlike your friend so you dont have to feel like a loner...it's not like it makes you cooler...it's how you feel for that person that you guys are comforable to make out yah kno?...i know probably most of the time if your friends does that you have to do it too (something like that) but it doesnt...maybe your just not ready yet but it doesnt mean you wont tho...hope i helped! x3 SweetStar
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you're first kiss should be special between you and a guy that you really like... it shouldn't matter who kissed who first it's not a competition you're first kiss will be very special i promise you just have to wait and be patient!
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dont feel like a loner! its not a race w. u n ur friends! jus go @ ur own speed n have fun! if u wanna make out w. sum1 nex time u play truth or dare w. guys have a friend dare a guy 2 make out w. u. idk jus dont feel like a loner!
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