Basically, I like my best friend. I think about him constantly..and all that jazz. He MAY like me too--I'm not sure. Should I tell him?? (btw--Im a totally shy person..) If i should..how??
=)=)thanks!
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship? followtheformat answered Tuesday August 10 2004, 3:18 am: I think you should tell your best friend that you like him. Maybe sit down with him somewhere quiet and tell him face to face. I'm totally shy as well, so I know how hard it can be. Just take a deep breathe, and try to relax yourself before you say anything. Then you can say something along the lines of..."I know we are best friends and all, but I like you more than as a friend. How do you feel about that?" Just talk it over with him. If he feels the same way- yay! Congratulations, you took a big step and it paid off well! If he doesn't like you the same way, then just ask if you can still be friends. I know it'll hurt to be rejected, but it's part of life and we all go through it! Good luck, babe, and if you need anymore advice, feel free to ask away! [ followtheformat's advice column | Ask followtheformat A Question ]
advice~gurl answered Monday August 9 2004, 10:45 pm: *Smiles* I know how you feel trust me I do.
Well it depends, does he show any sign of likeing you? You say that he MAY. I know you can't be sure. some how I think that he does and your trying not to say it or something.
I think you should give yourself (And him) just a lil bit of time before you tell him and if your pretty sure if he likes you even if your not sure than i would. I think sence he is your best friend I think that you should talk to him face to face. talk out your feelings. you dont' want to ruin your friendship.
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