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okay..i have a friend and she wont let me hang around any of the other friends i have made this year or she gets mad and thinks im ignoring her! i really like her and i dont like it when she is mad! but i also like the new friends i have made! i dont JUST want to hang around her! how do i get her to understand that i want to be her friend and the others friend too?! (link)
well mabey you can hangout with your new friends and your other friend at the same time! and then she wont be mad and you get to hangout with the new friends you made this year
GoOd lUcCk DaNiiElLe «3


Alright...I have moved away,but I still love this same guy and i an't get over him and I know deep down he still loves me too..he always tells me he misses me n thinks about me all the time..but he is talking/dating someone else..what should i do? (link)
well... then you should let him goO because if you care about him you want him to be happy so let him date that person
xoO Daniielle


do you consider ppl with dirty blonde hair as blondes or brunettes?? cuz ppl joke that i'm blonde when i say dumb things, but i really don't think i'm blonde!!!! lol (link)
well im blonde toO and ii know how you feel i have dirt blonde hair and everone says im such a dumb blonde but i make fun of myself toO with the dumb blonde jokes and it gets pretty old and they stop ...
XoO Daniielle


For the past few months, I have had a very uncomfortable pain around my tailbone.

It's mostly when I'm sitting a certain way. And I'm not entirely sure why and when it started but it bothers me.

I'm afraid this could mean something awful. My uncle told me that it could be cancer and, although he was 'joking', I was scared. What if it is?

Anyways. I'm afraid to go to a Doctor because I'm very uncomfortable with people touching me and, of course, he'll have to see my...butt. (Yes, I said butt...XD) Anyways...It makes me really uncomfortable to have someone, even a professional, touch me. But I'm afraid that if I don't go to the doctor, and it's something serious, I'll end up getting really sick and/or dying.

Thank you, in advance, for your help. This may seem silly, I know. I understand that I will get a lot of 'Just go to the freaken doctor, dumbass' but...it's really not quite that simple.

Thanks, again. (link)
you should go it might be something really bad you never know even though you feel uncomfertalble you should just get up the couradege and go
-goOd luck Daniielle


ok so my one friend (lets call him shawn) had just broke up wit my friend (lets call her lucy). and lucy was realli upset. well one night i was on the phone with shawn for hours and i asked him who he liked now that he dumped lucy. he told me clues that led up to me! i was kinda excited but i needed to talk to lucy about it before ne thing happened. well i did and she said it was all good. then that same night shawn and i 3 wayed lucy on the phone. we were talking but once i got off i guess shawn asked lucy out again. now i am jelous of lucy and i have feelings for shawn. what should i do? i dont wanna tell lucy because i dont want her to get mad at me. PLEASE HELP! I DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO!!! (link)
i think you shouldn't tell her then if they do break up again go for it because dont through your friendship away over a boy you should be happy for your friend ....


I'm starting a new school as a sophmore on the 16th of this month where I don't know anybody! In my old school I was semi*popular! I want to be very popular in my new school. Do you think that it is possible for the "new kid" to be popular? Anyone have any advice on how I can do that? Or if you look up to someone or know someone popular....can u tell me what makes them popular. Anything would help. Thanks a bunch! Kisses! -*-me-*- (link)
you probley could be popular because you are starting over new and nobody knows anything about you soO just like become a cheerleader because usally they are popular and get really coOl clothes and get really good makeup that should make you popular!
goOd luck
Daniielle


this is gonna be long but i promise iw ill rate u really good. ok here goes: i used to be best friends with this boy but we're not really as close anymore, but we still love eachother and care about eachother and stuff. ok so he went on vacation for a while and his gf started becoming friends w/ this guy, and the guy told me that she did all this stuff with him like lick his neck, french kisshim, lay on his lap and rub his thing w/ her head, etc. well her boyfriend came back and he found out they were hanging out and he was sorta mad cuz well you know, why wouldn't he be? my question is should i tell him? i want to stay out of it cuz i dont want any drama but i luv him and wish he knew. i dont think she'll tell him or break up w/ him soon but i dont know. help. (link)
i think it would be better comeing from you because your his friend .. tell him you really care about him and dont want him to get heart ....
xoO Daniielle


this guy that i was friends with for a long time was having a bad day and when we were in art class i asked him what was wrong. and he was like back the *uck off and leave me alone. i was like jesus okay i was just asking i didn't mean to get you upset. that day we were making these clay things and there is this tool that has a very sharp edge on it and he held it up to my throat and he said if you don't get away from me i'll stab you with this. the look in his eyes was absolutly terrifying. that night on AIM i had asked him what was wrong and he was acting really funny. his typing had changed. he was making alot of errors and not correcting himself like he normally would. he threatened to blow up my school and then he threatened to kill me and himself. i got scared and i told my dad about it and the next day my dad called the school and my principal, my guidance counselor, and the schools D.A.R.E. officer sat down with the two of us and we were talking and he kept saying that he was joking about everything that he had said to me that night. We aren't friends anymore and i do not want to start a new school year knowing that he hates me. what should i do? should i try talking to him? or should i leave him alone? he was my best friend for a while and i miss having him as my friend (link)
well everone has bad days soO you should give him another chance if that ever happens again i say dont be his friend anymore but you should give him one more chance because you said you were friends with him for along time dont through it all away because your friend had a bad day!
goOd luck -Daniielle


iight theres this guy that i meet saterday! he is awesome! i mean i can be my complete self around him! and me and him both have a thing fro each other...and i mean i do like him and he is going to ask me out the next time we see each other...but i'm jst scared that it's going to be awhile before we see each other! and i kind of don't want to wait!?? but then i do cuz i don't want to rush things!? wat should i do? (link)
well if you really love him you will wait for him ...
xoO Daniielle


My dad smokes a lot every day and it really bothers me and my mom and brother but mostly me. We all tell him to stop and he's always like "I will tomorrow or next week or after this and that"
And I always have to remind him to open the door or window when he's near me while he smokes...I mean he doesn't do it 24-7 and he knows when to draw the line sometimes, but it bothers me and I know he's ruining his health...not to metion I think he's ruining mine too! I suddenly can't run laps at school without me stoping breathing and it bothers me b/c it never seems like he cares...my mom stuck to her word about quitting after our cruise and I know its addicting but I want him to stop should I like hide his cigarrets from him or throw them out? What should I do? Plz help I will rate! (ps...it's embarrassing when he leaves his smokes out with the ashtray b/c my friends don't like it either :o!) (link)
well just talk to him say you love him and want him to be around for a long time but if he keeps smokeing he wont!!
goOd LuCck Daniielle


Ok, I am 13/f and I am dating this guy in my city who is ok but I don't really like him not anymore I just feel sry for him b/c he really likes me so I wont dump him for awhile. And theres this kid in Pueblo who I am also dating and I really like him only I see him like once every week or once every 2 weeks and I want a b/f that I can see more than that like atleast three times a week. So I am going out with both of them b/c the guy here I dont really lke but i can see him a lot and the guy there I like but cant see him...does that make me a bad person or do yall understand why I am doing this? I'll rate you! (link)
well you shouldn't go out with a guy because he likes you espescialy if you dont liek him back ... because he probley wants a girlfriend that acually likes him back ... and well if you really like the guy that you only see once every 2 weeeks well just try and keep in touch by the phone.... just follow your heart
xoO Daniielle


Ok, well i have this friend who always tells rumers about me! i hate it and i always tell her how i feel, but everytime i tell her she goes and tells another rumer! what should i do?! help me please!
signed.
Losing a friend? (link)
well if she makes rumer thats not a good friend at all!! you shouldn't be her friend true friends definitaly do not do that to eachother. mabey you should find out what she has against you because why else would she start rumers...

GoOd luck Daniielle


i have a boyfriend and i wonder why im so afirad to kiss himits weird isn't that i have a boyriend and im scared to kiss him (link)
mabey you should get to know him more and feel more comfertalble around him then you might not be so scared to kiss him ....


Hey! This question is for anyone who has ever changed schools! I wanna know how long it takes to make friends! I'm really pretty shy and I'm so scared I won't have any friends!! I dont know anyone and I want to know some ideas on how to get to know everyone! Thanks a billion! -me! (link)
well you could join clubs or a sports team and meet people that way or find something you have in common with a person and talk about that and you also could get someone to help you in a subject at school and start to talk to them ....


Hey Caity...I went to party and I started talking to this guy Ryan at the time he seemed really cool so I gave him my number so we could keep in touch,we started dating and I got pregnet I told him and he told me he wasnt ready to be a father and i wasnt gonna keep it I felt really scared and i didnt know how to tell mt parents and what they`d think of me...Im 3 weeks pregnet now and Im only 16 I know i shouldnt keep it but apart of me tells me I should!Ryan still doesnt want me to keep it and he told me that he loved me and that he wouldnt let anything bad ever happen to me But if he loved me he would help me through this.What should I do? -Kayla (link)
well if he relly loves you he should let you keep the baby and bee there for you so just talk to him ...


Ok im 13 and ive never made out wit a guy (ima gurl) and my best friend always does things b4 meh and she just made out wit sum1 and now i feel like a loner. wat do i do (link)
well you should wait for someone you really like don't just copy your friend because she does everthing before you


hey
umm a couple days ago this guy asked me out but he didnt really just ask he was like umm so if we like eachother maybe we should hook up sumtime . .i'm kinda confused . .can sumone translate pleas?thankss
kelsey (link)
i think it means to go out with him but you should talk to him about that just to make shure ...


well my friend went out with this kid for 1 day, but then they broke up cuz they lived too far away from eachother. now i like him and i live the same distance and i dont know if its right to like him....? help please...!?! (link)
well if you really love him go for it. if she is really your friend she'll want you to be happy!


Okay..See..I have moved away,but before I did...I was in love with this guy,but we had problems in the past..and i still love him but he is back home..and he tells me he still thinks of me often,but he is with someone else..well..he tells her he likes her,but he tells other people different...I gave him a picture and i talked to him tonight..he said he looked at it all the time and he misses me like crazy and he is always thinking about me..but he is with someone else,and she like hates me and i don't care too much for her either,but I still love him..please help me!..what should I do? (link)
well if he loves someone else and you shouldn't like him back ... and if you moved and hes far away you never know what he's doing with other people ... also you should just follow your heart if you really love him that much ....


okie.well i like this boy.we just started talking and now i like him even more. i know that he like me to. but i want 2 know.if me being 14.turning 15. and he being 12 turing 13 is really bad 2 even think about goin out with him?

14/f (link)
well if you feel ok with going out with a younger guy you should becasue age donsen't matter




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