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i have a boyfriend and i wonder why im so afirad to kiss himits weird isn't that i have a boyriend and im scared to kiss him
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Hello =) It just may not be the right time. Wait nutil you are confortable enough to kiss him. No pressure :) I hope I helped... if you need anything, drop one in the inbox <3 Steph
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No, It's not weird. It's natural to be nervous, especially if you've never kissed before. Just wait until he kisses you, and go with the flow, be calm. Don't worry baby, you'll catch on quick
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no of course not! even plp hoo hav kissed b4 r still a lil scared! just go for it! it will turn out great!! <3
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your just not ready. just wait and if he truly likes you he'll understand. but it's not weird.
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maybe his breath smells really bad? lol no i'm joking... it is completely normal to be nervous before you kiss someone i was shaking like a leaf when i had my first kiss but it's all worth it... as soon as your lips hit his... you'll calm down and you'll be fine. hope i helped!
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"WeiRd"?? I wouldn't say THAT. It's slightly uncommon. I, also, will NOT kiss my boyfRiends. I WILL NOT do it!! I've had bad expeRiences with it in the past, and it has liteRally scaRRed me foR life. I know that when you.. "fall off a hoRse, you have to get back up and Ride again", and I HAVE given kissing a chance since my bad expeRience, and I'm still extRemely uncomfoRtable doing it. I'm veRy seRious about it though.. when I say "No kissing", I mean NO KISSING!!! I always let my boyfRiend know in pRioR to ouR dating that I don't kiss, and that's that. I also imfoRm him that I am NOT afRaid to thRow a punch if he goes in foR it. I will, and HAVE done it in the past. That's just the way I am... I feel like if they don't Respect that.. they don't Respect me. I told you this just so you don't feel like you'Re the only one with this pRoblem. You aRe NOT alone!! So how 'bout this : Is theRe a Reason you won't kiss him?? Does he know you'Re afRaid to kiss? If not, you ought to make him awaRe of this fact, and togetheR you can come up with ways to make things moRe comfoRtable foR you. Best wishes, fRom who completely undeRstands what you'Re going thRough!! =D
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duh, u r the only one who would know why. now if u wanna be a big girl and tell us why u r scared, what we can tell you is how to get over or see around that fear. got it?
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if you're not ready, then don't do it. you're bf will wait if he really likes you. don't do something you're not ready to do.
*Jess*
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I had the same exact problem. I didnt kiss my boyfriend untill we had been together for a month. I thought it was weird also, but it's not. It very normal. Just get to know him better so u will feel more comfortable.
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I think that you do need to get to know him a bit better and everything...You had me think wow does the boy have bad breath or something? but nevermind that just get to know him just cause you have a bf and everything doesnt mean you have to kiss him yeah it would be nice and everything but just give it time.
-Cass-
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mabey you should get to know him more and feel more comfertalble around him then you might not be so scared to kiss him ....
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It's not weird, it's normal. Imagine if everyone was okay with kissing everyone else - what a sloppy, spit covered world we would live in.
I think the best thing is to move slowly. Really get to know your boyfriend, and let him get to know you. When the time is right, it'll just happen.
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Hey =) It's probably just jitters .. don't worry about it and go for it if you think its time. I hope I helped .. drop one in the inbox if you want. <3 Laura
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mayb if ur scrd it just means u like him alot! hehe! just do it the 1st time n after tht ull prly be 100% comfortable w. it!
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