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should i?


Question Posted Monday August 9 2004, 12:28 am

well my friend went out with this kid for 1 day, but then they broke up cuz they lived too far away from eachother. now i like him and i live the same distance and i dont know if its right to like him....? help please...!?!

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Additional info, added Wednesday August 11 2004, 1:27 am:
oh yeah...she knows i like him and she's fine with it..i just dont know like if he liked me before, then like now he doesnt b/c he might of thought i wouldnt like him for the same reason my friend didnt. (wow confusing sorry) i dont know! oh yeah and SHE broke up with him..so she wouldnt be upset. i just dont know if it would be right..

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TheNextRingo answered Monday August 9 2004, 11:18 pm:
Well, if you go out with him, he might dump you for the same reason. Would you want to get hurt? And how would your friend feel? (even though I know it was only one day). She still might be upset with the idea.

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Xo_Blondii_oX answered Monday August 9 2004, 10:40 pm:
ok its totally fine for you to like him. Long distance relationships can work if u realli love eachother and your willing to do it. Tell your friend you have feelings for the guy if she really liked the guy then tell her that if she doesnt want u goin out wit him then dont go out wit him give it sumtime. because u dont wanna lose a friend. hope i could help!=]
xo`amanda

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xogiggles37xo answered Monday August 9 2004, 4:09 pm:
its ok to like him but go out with him after your friend did i dont think so. if you really care about your friend i dont think youd go out with him. <3 xogiggles37xo.

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x_piink_fliirt_x answered Monday August 9 2004, 3:44 pm:
well if you really love him go for it. if she is really your friend she'll want you to be happy!

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jeanine278972 answered Monday August 9 2004, 1:31 pm:
Its OK to like him.. but if u live too far away from each other and will prolly never see each other... then u should just be friends. It will be easiest on both of u. That way when u start to like someone else.. or someone else likes u.. u dont have to turn them down cause ur involoved with someone that lives MILES away.

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**Jeanine**

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orphans answered Monday August 9 2004, 11:43 am:
Okay, never let guys come before friends...#1 rule! i think you should get over him...sorry girl

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L__A__M answered Monday August 9 2004, 2:10 am:
No one's really holding you back. If this 'friend' is very close to you, I wouldn't go there. But if it's a distant friend, I don't see why you can't go out with this dude?

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xUxMaKexMexWaNnAxLaxLa answered Monday August 9 2004, 1:55 am:
okay i know you have feelings for this kid and it feels like hes the guy to go for at the moment but you gotta realize you can be jepordizing your friendship.. now i dunno which one is more important to you but i think its chicks before dicks.. and i've learned from experience that its not worth it.. boys will come and go but your true girls will be there till then end.. so its up to you and what means more to you.. but if it was up to me i'd definitly pick your girl friend.

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browneyedbeauty answered Monday August 9 2004, 1:41 am:
Hun..One things for sure...you can't help who you like,and your friend and him only went out for a day so they must not have really liked each other...to have broke up for a stupid reason like that...so if you like him..go for it..just make sure the distance thing won't matter!..i hope i helped you!..
--Sarah*

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lnknprkbabe answered Monday August 9 2004, 1:26 am:
well if you like this guy and you talk to him alot. then go for it i mean it doesnt matter if she went out w. him. because there over. do you see him? if you dont then there is no point. because i did that once just like your friend. and i never got to see him but im still freinds w. him and we still call eachother. and if you do talk then wait a while and see how it goes and someday you will hook up...good luck..

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K.T answered Monday August 9 2004, 1:14 am:
first of all you cant help who you like and second your friend and this kid only went out for a day so its okay to like him! but if they broke up over distance i would make sure that if things happened with this guy not to break up over a silly thing like that(no offense to your friend) i really hope i helped!

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impaledhotte408 answered Monday August 9 2004, 1:04 am:
Well i think its fine if u lyk him i mean JEEZ! it was only one day they didnt have anything special

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Mackenzie answered Monday August 9 2004, 12:59 am:
If they only went out foR one day it obvious wasn't even Remotely consideRed a seRious Relationship. I don't see it as wRong, but peRhaps you should ask youR fRiend how she would feel if the two of you got togetheR! Hope this helped! Take caRe!

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xxoBriannax answered Monday August 9 2004, 12:58 am:
they only went out for a day.. its fine to like him!!

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CheLLe_911 answered Monday August 9 2004, 12:54 am:
Well you cant really help who you like. So go to your friend and tell her how your feelin. Then if shes ok with it go for it!

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Chriso61o answered Monday August 9 2004, 12:52 am:
how about you talk to your friend so you dont back stabb her

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Roxybabii922 answered Monday August 9 2004, 12:46 am:
Ask your friend how they would feel if you were to go out with him, and if you dont mind the distance and your friend doesnt care than go for it :-)

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