i'm 16 i live in vegas.. i'm a girly girl i love all the glitz and glam.. i'm really good with helping my friends problems and i thought this would be a good way to help people out.. plus im an aspiring writer so i love to type/write. feel free to ask me questions i love to answer them!
E-mail: krzy_gurl88@yahoo.com
Gender: Female
Location: las vegas nevada
Occupation: student
Age: 16
AIM: xlhscheer03x
Member Since: August 9, 2004
Answers: 3
Last Update: August 9, 2004
Visitors: 692
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Yes. It's another one of those Dating complaints. Although I know there are way too many of these, I'm afraid I'm going to have to contribute.
I'm currently dating a young man who is five years older than I am. (I am fourteen and he is nineteen, if that helps any.)
No one really knows that I am with him. I haven't told my friends nor have I told my family, of course. I don't want to be forced to break up with him just because my family believes the age difference is too much. *shrug*
Anyways...One of the problems in our relationship is...we have never met. We're dating over the internet. And, although this may seem silly and (that I know personally and who knows him personally and has met him) and ever since the first time I talked to him, I found myself attracted to him. He asked me out and we've been together ever since.
Of course...It all seems rather...odd. I've never had an internet relationship, before, and I've never had a relationship this serious. I've actually thought about my future with this guy. Marriage, kids, etc.
I really don't know that much about him, though. And he's hesitant to tell me very much.
Should I get out of this relationship? Should I ask him to tell me more about himself? Is there something that I need to do? I'm confused...And I know I don't really have any specific questions. I just need advice.
Thank you. :) (link)
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well your at the first critical step of growing up... BOYS.. for one i think this "relationship" should go no further without you two meeting eachother.. im sure you've gotten to know eachother very well thru internet but nothings like meeting someone in person.. he can go from being the best guy for you to being the worst... and your thinking way too long term.. not only because you've never actually met him but also cause your so young. why tie yourself up with someone who wont even reveal himself to you when you can be with someone whos real.. and when you find that one boy thats touch feels right and when he kisses you your body tingles.. then you can consider to think anything long term.. like going ot a dance or something but for now your so young and he's too old to be playing the internet dating game.. so try to let things go and find someone who can be there for you.. good luck girl!
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well my friend went out with this kid for 1 day, but then they broke up cuz they lived too far away from eachother. now i like him and i live the same distance and i dont know if its right to like him....? help please...!?! (link)
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okay i know you have feelings for this kid and it feels like hes the guy to go for at the moment but you gotta realize you can be jepordizing your friendship.. now i dunno which one is more important to you but i think its chicks before dicks.. and i've learned from experience that its not worth it.. boys will come and go but your true girls will be there till then end.. so its up to you and what means more to you.. but if it was up to me i'd definitly pick your girl friend.
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I'm 14 and my boy friend and I have been togather since June 29 and its been good but there's one problem I live in the country and he lives in the city and its geting harder and harder every day to me cause we cant even talk on the phone cause it would be long distnace. Plus some times he goes out of town and we cant even talk on the computer cause at the other place he dont have a computer there and now he's down there and I really need to see him. I have a feeling that its not gonna work but I'm trying to hold on. I really love him. What should I do? (link)
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hey girl.. first off i know what your going thru i had a long distance relationship or at leats i tried to have one.. but anyways this relationship has only been put together for a month.. so it still has plenty of time to hit its bumps.. and im sure you feel in love with him but its so hard to care for someone so much when you can barely see them let alone speak to them.. i really hope you guys can get a better communication going on but if not it'd prolly be best to try to remain freinds and date other people.. once you guys are old enough to drive adn go visit eachother and stuff then maybe the relationship will work out alot better.. but remember if theres a will theres a way.. so if you feel like your absolutly in love iwth him adn he feels the same.. then you guys will find a way to be together but keep your head up your 14 and theres so many opportunities that lie ahead of you.
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