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Long distance relationship......
I'm 14 and my boy friend and I have been togather since June 29 and its been good but there's one problem I live in the country and he lives in the city and its geting harder and harder every day to me cause we cant even talk on the phone cause it would be long distnace. Plus some times he goes out of town and we cant even talk on the computer cause at the other place he dont have a computer there and now he's down there and I really need to see him. I have a feeling that its not gonna work but I'm trying to hold on. I really love him. What should I do?
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Hello =) If you care that much about someone the distance wont matter. Just try to keep in touch and try to talk everyday. I hope I helped .. drop one in the inbox if you want. <3 Laura
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its all up to you... if you feel you need to hold on, hold on. if you dont let go. me and this guy meet on the internet and the relationship wuz so much fun and we both seemed to like each other alot we sent each other pictures every 2 seconds over the digital camera... but then it ended up where we had to end it. it started getting boring. we really had nothing to say except i love you and i wish you were here. i dk but wut you do is your dicsion just make sure to listen to everybodies advice and w/e you think is best do.
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Stay with him. If u guys are really in love.. then u can make it work. I'm tryin to make a relationship work out.. and we live 2 states away from each other (me Illinois.. him Tennessee) Just try to stick it out. If it becomes unbearable not to see him.. then u should try to move on.. but if u can take the pain.. i highly recomend staying with him as long as u can!!
Hope I was of some help!!! Drop one in the inbox if u need anything else!!
**Jeanine**
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If you love him u can make nething work by putting your mind to it...I member i went out with this guy and it was the same type of thing and we made it work but im not with him ne more cause he went to college plus i stoped having feeligns for him but back to you i think that if you really love him that you can make it work dispite everything love over comes on everything like i said if you honestly love him and everything you can make it work trust me
-Cass-
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honestly...i think long distance relationships are bad!!...thats tha reason why! u cant see each other..nd its juss hard to comunicate! i think you two should just stay friends, and talk when ever you can. if u start seeing eacho other more often, then thats wen u should be dating again!
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hey girl.. first off i know what your going thru i had a long distance relationship or at leats i tried to have one.. but anyways this relationship has only been put together for a month.. so it still has plenty of time to hit its bumps.. and im sure you feel in love with him but its so hard to care for someone so much when you can barely see them let alone speak to them.. i really hope you guys can get a better communication going on but if not it'd prolly be best to try to remain freinds and date other people.. once you guys are old enough to drive adn go visit eachother and stuff then maybe the relationship will work out alot better.. but remember if theres a will theres a way.. so if you feel like your absolutly in love iwth him adn he feels the same.. then you guys will find a way to be together but keep your head up your 14 and theres so many opportunities that lie ahead of you.
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long distance relationships never work maybe try sending letts but they drag but srry to tell u but its not gonna last unless uz dont c ueach other im 14 n i went out wit a 17 n its like it was far long distance ddidnt work she woul d always call me but u got bored of that n like someetimes she could find me n its like hard cuz she would sometime not be on the computer so it got hardger but srry to tell u its not gonna work try talkin to him n tell him how u feel n maybe uz can write to each otehr find a relative that lives close by n go vist that person so uz cna vist eachother idk try thost hting but good lick
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Sweetie, I think its great your trying to hold on to someone you love! I know how u feel, I recently moved from Arkansas to Texas (which is about 10 hours distance) and I had to leave a boyfriend of 2 years behind. We tried to make it work for a while, but we were both to busy and didn't have enough time or energy. I finally broke up w/ him after a month of being here. I was really upset and I cried for days but I knew it was best. We could finally move on and be happy! I know it sounds really crappy but its the truth! I feel much better now. Yeah, I still miss him but I try and stay busy so I don't think of him as much. I've even got a new boyfriend to occupy my time! But you do what you feel is right. Ignore your head, follow your heart.Good Luck, hope it helped! xOxO SONNIE XoXo
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youll find another one.. it sucks that you guys never talk.. long distance relationships never work out!
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All in all ...long distance relationships are hard. But all you have to say to yourself is ..."is it going to be worth it in the end?" Maybe this is jsut one hard bump yall have to get over. If you love him then this should be cake. Just hold onand I hope things work out for the best!
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i was in that same realationship for over 9 months n ya its really hard. but if u love him that much then yea u should try as hard as you can. but if u just think you love him then stop putting yourself through all that torture. cuz in the end of my relationship he ended up cheating on me cuz he said he didnt ge tto see me enough.
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I think if you really love him then you 2 can find a way to make it work out. I know long distance relationships are hard but just keep doin what your doing and hold on. I've been in that postion and i know that it can be really upsetting but you cant give up.
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well if you two really love eachother as much as you say you do then you shouldnt have a problem if you live far. You can make it work.. just tell that your scared cuz you dont know if its gunna work between yall. and that you just need to talk to him on the phone and tell him how you feel. and how your scared. and see if you to can come up with a soultion for the problem. hope i helped / rate please / <3 nicicole
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