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my friend
Ok, well i have this friend who always tells rumers about me! i hate it and i always tell her how i feel, but everytime i tell her she goes and tells another rumer! what should i do?! help me please!
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Losing a friend?
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Hi. find a good time somehwere outside of school and ask her why is she saying nasty stuff about you when you didnt do anything to her...ask her why she's being like that and all you wanted to do was to just let her kno that you are upset about this and can she stop. and if matters get worst maybe you should talk to your closes teacher that you trust and maybe they can setup a thing where you guys can just talk...Take Care..I hoped I helped! x3 SweetStar
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i think u should ditch her. i mean wut kind of frend spreads rumors bout u? seriously thats just mean! i kno u prolly dont want to cuz she mite be cool or sumthin but if shes gonna be spreadin rumors bout u then just forget her cuz thats not cool
hope i helped
.:Keryn:.
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well if she makes rumer thats not a good friend at all!! you shouldn't be her friend true friends definitaly do not do that to eachother. mabey you should find out what she has against you because why else would she start rumers...
GoOd luck Daniielle
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that doesnt sound like a very good friend. last time i checked friends didnt do that to one another. maybe you should tell her that you dont want to be friends with her anymore. then maybe it'll get through her head that what shes doing isnt right. hope i helped
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if she was a true friend she deff. wouldnt start rumors. I think that you should tell her that u dont wanna be friends wit her nemore if shes gonna treat u like that.
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hi okay well this happends to alot of gurls at my school its dumb..well anywayz back to ur story lol okay i dont think u shuld be friends wit her cuz True friends dont start rumors about other great friends..and u kno ppl who start rumors jus want attion sumthing she cant probably get..! i jus say u try to tell her again how u feel and tell her if she does it one more time then shes gunna be loosing a friend.! got any other questions?? drop by my inbox okay?!
bye
bubbles aka kourtney
much luv :-)
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You need to tell your friend how you feel and tell her if she keeps doing this your not going to be friends w/ her anymore
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I wouldn't be friends with her. Shes most likely doing it for a reason.. but if u dont know why shes doing it.. then don't be friends with her. People like that aren't even worth your time. Trust me.. ive been through that.. this stupid bitch was telling everyone i was having sex with this guy.. and it wasnt even CLOSE to being true.. until a few weeks ago.. but she told people this like 2 months ago.. before i even dated the guy..
TRUST ME.. SHE ISNT WORTH YOUR TIME!!
Hope I was of some help!!! Drop one in the inbox if u need anything else!!
**Jeanine**
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if ur friends talking about you its not a friend. i dk i think you should stop tlking to her maybe shell stop. good luck. <3 xogiggles37xo.
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This girl isn't your friend, honey. Friends don't start rumours about each other. Find some new friends.
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if she tells everything you say to her then she's obviously not a good friend. You need to be careful what you say to her. Talk to her sure but make sure you are always cautious and make sure what you say to her is something you don't care the rest of the world knows. I'm going through the same thing as you are. If you wanna stay friends with her then do what I do. I don't like losing friends so I just keep being their friend but am different in how I am with them. Watch your back because any thing you say or do could be used against you. (in a court of law. haha cop shows)sorry about the joke..lightening things up. Good luck.
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well u arent really losing a friend cuz she doesnt sound like much of a friend to begin wit... there'll always be people like that and there will always be rumors... but do u want sum1 like that in ur life? friends are supposed to comfort u when rumors about u are going around... not start them
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what friend...
she aint no friend!
you need to dump her.. yall are over..
if she was a true friend she wouldnt be actin like a bitch and spearding rumors. shes probably jealous of you! please rate . hope i helped <3 nicicole
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slap the bitch
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Just forget about her if shes going to tell your secrets and start stuff about you then shes not a good friend. Find someone else to hang out with and dont talk to her people like that are stupid.
-holly- hope i helped
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Please do not take this the wrong way, but here's my advice.
And your still friends with her why¿?
Besides, you know that the rumors are not true, and that's all that matters.
Remember there are better friends then her, just think of it like this, all your friends are fishys, there are more fish in the sea, and you need to go fishing. Get some new friends!!
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theres better friends then that! she seems like she just loves to make you mad. i think you should get new friends if you can and tell her how you really feel and tell her that thats just wrong and that shes a bitch and stuff. lol hope i helped a lil XOXO erin
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i don't think she's such a great friend if she's making up stuff about you. tell her you don't appreciate what she's doing. if she keeps it up, dump her. u deserve better
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well 1st of all she is NOT your friend, if she is telling rumors about you. since you said you already talked to her about it and she just continues to be a bitch and talk about you, all i can say is that you have to stop hanging around her and just ignore what she has to say. your real friends wont believe her if they are your real friends so it doesnt matter what she has to say. she is probably just jealous of you. but if things get out of control punch her the fuckin head and tell her to shut the fuck up.
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she's not you're friend then... whatever you do do not start rumors about her because that will just make things worse. if you've told her a million times to stop then you should just stop talking to her if she keeps doing it.. she's really not a friend if she's doing that to you. if you know that the rumors aren't true then that's all you need to worry about... if people are believing her then they are ignorant assholes (excuse my language) hope i helped! if you need anything IM me or Email me!
much love <3 emily
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Losing a friend..
If she is spreading romors about you then she is not really a friend...espiecially when you have already talked to her about it...Get a new one and dont let anyone treat u that way agian...if you need more advice email me at big_blake08@yahoo.com or u can add me on yahoo as big_blake08 or on aim as SeanRandy082008
P.S Willing to help anytime...
Blake08$$$$$$$
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Maybe she isn't a "true" friend and you should confront her on how you feel. Also maybe you shouldn't really trust her with anything anymore..
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A friend isn't someone who is one way to your face, and then another way when you aren't looking. Friends don't talk s*** about each other (sorry to be so... blunt about it.) She is NOT a true friend if she makes you feel so badly about yourself. She should be the one who stands up for you when OTHER PEOPLE tell rumours, not the person who STARTS them... The way this supposed friend is treating you is the way my ex-best female friend treated me a while back. She was the best friend I could ask for and then suddenly out of the blue she started saying horrible things to me to another one of our mutual friends. But I gave her a second chance, and then she started it all up again and hurt me. You don't deserve to hurt like this. Take this from someone who KNOWS what it feels like.
Hang in there and keep your head held high. You deserve a friend who will treat you like gold and be honest WITH YOU and not about you to other people.
If you have any more questions, leave them in my inbox hun.
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if shes spreading rumor she isnt ur friend. since uve alredi told her how u feel and she doesnt care maybe u should think about finding new friends to hang with.
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fuck her.. you dont need her.. you deserve better!!
-xxoBrianna
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you don't need to be friends with her if she's gonna be like that. i know you can make more, better friends than her. leave her behind and see if you can make her come crawling back. :)
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Here's the question I bet everyone else has said to you... Why are you friends with her? And it is a good question. People in your life that make your life a giant hassle, aren't worth you being friends with. So here's my advice. Ignore her. She isn't worth it. And if you really mean that much to her, she will come crawling back to you.And I hope she has a pretty damn good apology, and a better attitude. People that arent worth your time of day...don't deserve to be called your friend.
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well if she is spreading rumers about u then i wuldnt consider her a friend.start hanging out w/ other frineds who wuldnt do that 2 u...later on she will be the 1 w/o friends not u
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She's not a friend. For one because she's spreading stuff about you, and two because she can't listen to your feelings. Loose her as a friend.. And find someone who will treat you alot better. Best wishes :) -Britty-
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Hello =) To put it in the nicest terms possibly, you should comlpetely avoid her. You deserve better then that! I hope I helped :) Drop one in the inbox if you'd like <3 Steph
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