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I never thought I would have to ask...


Question Posted Sunday August 8 2004, 6:28 pm

Okay my friend (well call him -IB-) asked me out in May and i told our friend (well call her -AN-) and she didnt believe me so she asked him if we were and I had forgotten about it until yesterday and i asked her what he said and she said that -IB- said that he did not know that we were and shes like "but he said also that he was messed up today so maybe u r" he is grounded and he has been so whenever he calls me he has to sneak it like when his parents are gone...I start school tomorrow and I dont know how i am going to find out before school starts but i can live with that part i just want to know how i can find out if we are going out or not and i dont know how or what i am going to say to him to find out what or if i should have someone else do it or what i really need help so please help me
*HAW*
PLEASE HELP ASAP
-Moderators do not delete this i really need help


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Additional info, added Friday August 13 2004, 4:35 pm:
Nevermind we are going out, he told me.

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LilMia811 answered Sunday August 8 2004, 8:09 pm:
okay well 1st of all dont go sending your friend to ask him questions. guys hate that shit. do it yourself. just simply ask him "where do we stand?" and find out if you guys are together or not. if he cant give you a straight answer, chances are he is playing with your mind, and you dont deserve that, so just drop him.

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xO_sTePhIe_Ox answered Sunday August 8 2004, 7:43 pm:
Hello =) In my opinion - I think you should just go up to IB and ask him if you are going out. Tell him it's been a long time, so you werent sure. I hope it works out :) If you need anything ... drop one in the inbox. <3 Steph

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Dont_Fall_Twice answered Sunday August 8 2004, 7:29 pm:
Well I would talk to him like yall are friends and just be like "Hey, I was just wondering what we are because it's been a while and I'm not sure if were still going out or what not"... Just ask him straight up so nothing gets confusing like friends saying wrong things or misunderstanding... GOod luck :) -Britty-

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TheKnightOwl answered Sunday August 8 2004, 7:13 pm:
Easy peasy. When school starts tomorrow, go up to him and talk to him like normal. Don't back him into a corner. Then you know ask him if you are infact going out. If he says something like, that's up to you, or I'm waiting for your answer, then he wants in which case the ball will be in your hands. But just remain calm above all. Don't pressure to give you an answer right away. Guys hate that, it makes you sound eager, and it puts them in a place that they don't want to be. Good luck, I'm rooting for ya.

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