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My 2 b/f's
Ok, I am 13/f and I am dating this guy in my city who is ok but I don't really like him not anymore I just feel sry for him b/c he really likes me so I wont dump him for awhile. And theres this kid in Pueblo who I am also dating and I really like him only I see him like once every week or once every 2 weeks and I want a b/f that I can see more than that like atleast three times a week. So I am going out with both of them b/c the guy here I dont really lke but i can see him a lot and the guy there I like but cant see him...does that make me a bad person or do yall understand why I am doing this? I'll rate you!
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I understand but its kind of mean would you like to be played? i doubt it.. i would stick with the you like the most.. be loyal and maybe you wil be able to see him more.. but just be honest and loyal to him-trix
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well you shouldn't go out with a guy because he likes you espescialy if you dont liek him back ... because he probley wants a girlfriend that acually likes him back ... and well if you really like the guy that you only see once every 2 weeeks well just try and keep in touch by the phone.... just follow your heart
xoO Daniielle
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i totally understand what your going through.. but you shouldnt be going out with 2 people at the same time its not fair to them. and the one person you dont even like... what i think you should do is break up with both of them and find someone that you like ALOT and that you can see most of them time like you saif maybe 3 times a week. its easier that way then letting the guys your going out with now find out that your going out with another person or that you dont even like them. i think that will hurt them more then breaking up with them... hope i helped in someway <3
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I doesn't make you "a bad peRson". HoweveR, what you'Re doing isn't too kind; it's Really cRummy infact. You shouldn't toy with people. If you haRdly see this guy in Pueblo, why aRe you with him? I mean.. honestly.. what's then point? And you shouldn't woRRie about huRting the other guy in youR city. I'm shoRe he WILL be upset, but if you'Re not into him anymoRe than you should tell him, and end it. It's unfaiR to both of you. Don't lead him on... you could be keeping him back fRom otheR things that may ACTUALLY WORK foR him. Goodluck; do the Right thing! Hope I helped! Feel fRee to come back to me with fuRtheR questions! =D
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My friend use to do this too!I understand why ur doing this u just havent found all the qualities u want in one guy . u are doing this because together these guys like make your perfect guy. whats wrong with the one u have in the other. It doesnt necessarily make u a bad person but its not a good thing to do to the guys so u should prolli choose one which i kno is veri hard . but also ur young and these relationships cant be very serious so have fun and do what makes u happi as long as u dont hurt urself or sum1 u love . hope i helped. good luck!
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I think you should dump them both and play it single. I mean search aroung for good guy near you, maybe that go to your school, so you can see them. Don't date someone just because you feel sorry... That would hurt him if he knew you didnt like him. So I would dump him and the dude you don't see and look for a guy that could suite you better... Best wishes :) -Britty-
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It isn't that it makes you a bad person or not it is just that they both have their trust in you not to get hurt like that and if you do not like the one guy then break up with him (be nice) because it makes them feel twice as bad if you are only going out with them because you feel sorry for them...think of it this way say you really liked this guy who didnt like you that much but went out with you because he felt sorry for you but he was also going out with some girl he didnt see that much?...I wouldnt like it either way...Good Luck and I hope I Helped
*Haleigh Ann*
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