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Hey Im Missy,Im 13 and I live In Texas! I dance competitivly and I dance for my dance team at school. My whole life is pretty much dancing. I also Sing and Play the trumpet.I dont at the time have a boyfriend but hey not every1 does so its cool. I am really good at giving advice so feel free to ask away!
-missy-
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I have some trouble getting a boyfriend. I'm 13, and I've only had 3 boyfriends where my friends have had a bunch more! It's not like I'm trying to compete, it's just weird! I mean, people tell me I'm pretty, but I don't think I am. I also know I'm not fat but not thin... and I have a lot of friends! I don't really know what's wrong with me! Can anyone help?
Hey
I think nothing is wrong with you its just maybe the guys dont realli kno you. So make some guy friends and kno that when your thirteen you shouldnt have to many bfs or ppl might think you are a playa or somethin. I thave had lyke 7 bfs in the last year and not that anyone thinks im a slut or playa but i think that guys kno it wont last long. So dont worry about getting bfs just make some new guy friends even the cutie your crushin on. Then they can realli see wut ur lyke!!!
-Missy-
for skin-i have pimples on my cheeks and chin and i want clear skin be4 school...any ideas anyone?
for hair-i have blonde hair, down just a little bit past my shoulders, blue eyes, im 5'3'' and skinny, what type of cut should i get (no bangs).??
For your hair just get a blunt cut and about shoulders length im sure it will look great on you but do wut ever you want. I suggest for your pimples use Neutrogena oil free acne wash. then I use a product called natures cure it works really well. Try not to touch your face through out the day cuz the oils and bacteria from your hands can cause pimples. Also DO NOT use toothpaste!!! It will burn your face and really turn it red and it burns really bad (trust me I've tried it). I dont know wut will work for you so start out with one product and if decide to use more than one try to use the same brand name! Hope you find something!
Much Luv
-Missy-
Well, I'm really good with guys when we're not going out. I can think of anything really quick to make them laugh and to have a good conversation. But when we start dating I freeze up. i even try to pretend that I'm not dating him and he's just my friend so I can act like I was before. But i get so speechless! its like i dont want to say anything stupid or embarassing..
Hey Gurlie
I gte the same way and so does my bf. You just got to think of something to talk about like ask him if he likes sports im sure yall could talk about that for hours but just think of something he is interested in and bring it up that conversation can lead on to many other conversations. Hope I helped!
Much Luv
-Missy-
Ok im 13 and ive never made out wit a guy (ima gurl) and my best friend always does things b4 meh and she just made out wit sum1 and now i feel like a loner. wat do i do
Dont let anyone pressure you into making out or kissing someone if you are not ready cuz my bf tried to pressure me into it but i just couldnt and it ended up we broke up like 3 days lata. So plz anything even a break up or a fight is better than doing something you dont want to. Wait until you want to and dont let your friend and wut she does pressure you.
much luv
-Missy-
im 13/f never made out with a guy and i feel so...unloved lol! is there sumthin wrong with me? where did i go wrong?!?
Hey
Gurlie you havent gone wrong i mean im 13 too and i havent made out with a guy. And its not a big deal i mean when you are 13 you should be you know like not exactly dating but well as far as bf and gf go at my school nobody ever really makes out with their bf/gf they might talk on the phone or aim or somethin but dating and making out shouldnt come till lata.
Much Luv
-Missy-
hey..im 13..5'4..and wiegh 140..is that fat? is that y guys dont like me?
OMG!!! no way!i think you are just perfect! Guys are stupid and at this age all they want a girl for is to say they have a gf!!! And if you really think you are that over weight then maybe you should exercise more and concentrate on eating healthier stay away from the junk food! I think your body is perfect and nobody else can tell u other!
What do you do if your friend always gets mad at you for the littlest thing, but everytime she does something mean to you and you get mad she always expects me to forgive her right away...but i can get her mad and she never forgives me whenever i say i'm sorry.I always have to beg for forgiveness and then were close friends again, but I'm tired of begging what do i do?
My friend is the same way you just have to show her how it feels and maybe talk to her about your little fights. That way she knows how you feel and can try to act differently in fighting situations.
Hope I helped
-missy-
right now im single all my friends have bfs except me and i really feel left out I think i want a bf just to have one but I dont feel comfortable around my friends and their bfs what should i do?
kaci
You shouldnt want a bf just to have one you should really like a guy and get to know them well before bf and gf even come up in a conversation. And dont hang out with your friends when they are with their bfs cuz most likely they really dont want you their. You should makes some other friends that dont always spend time with thier bf or even have one. You will find that guy you will be dying for him and you to go out and your friends and their bf and you and your bf can all hang out together but right now just dont rush things!!!
-missy-
Hi I am really worried about my best friend she has been acting really moody lately and told me she wants nothing to do with me and I dont know whats wrong! I think its because she just broke up with her boyfriend and her parents are getting a divorce. I think her next move is something drastic what should I do to help her?? I dont want her to end up hurting herself!
Please help Ill rate!
Well I think you should tell her parents incase they dont already know! And talk to her try make her feel better about those situations! I think all she needs right now is a friends sholder to cry on! Just be there for her and help her through her tough times and when you need help she will be there for you too!
Hope I Helped!
-missy-
I really love this guy but i am not really involved with him. Is this really love or am i just trying to make it seem like it is? Also should I tell him or just ignore the feelings???
please help!
-anoymus-
Oo this is a tough one... I have been in the same situation. I think you should tell this guy you like him and dont automatically say I Love You cuz that might scare him. Love is a special feeling and I think you are just really deeply liking this guy a lot! Im not sure if love is really the right word to describe how your feeling! Just take it slow and hang out with him get to really know him and become his friend. Who knows maybe he likes you too and doesnt know how to tell you!
-missy-
i need help i want to pant my room but f i do not know what color to pant it so here are some of my favorite colors
-red
-black
-purplish blue
-gray
-green
-blue
PS IM SORTA GOTH
I think if u painted it black it would always seem dark like even if you had lights on So i think you should paint it blue My room is really light blue and it looks like there is always lights on in my room so maybe either a dark blue or a medium color blue if you dont like light blue.
-missy-
Recently, I broke up with my boyfriend because I was always thinking of someone else. I know it's a lame excuse for breaking up with someone, but, that's why I did it. Do you think it was wrong to do? Because..my ex still wants me back. Believe me, he's tried everything he possibly can. I just..I can't do it. I know that if I go back to him I'll never be thinking about him, but another guy. And to be honest, I'm not too fond of my ex, but he's disgustingly obsessed with me. Oh my god, seriously. Lmao. So someone help me, here.
Just tell him your not interested in going out with him. And if the guy you keep thinking about is single then try hanging out with him more! He might just be feeling the same way about you. Maybe you and him will go out and the other guy wil know to back off. You just might be a lot happier!
-Missy-
ok i was friends with this girl and all of a sidden we got in a fight and now i just dont think it is the same between us i really wish i could sort things out between us since i remember when we had better times together but i just dont know how to start talking to her since we havnt been really keeping in touch with each other for like the past two months
~thanx~
You should call her and tell her you really want to be friends and try to straighten things out between you two. Hopefully she feels the same way about the situation and you can try to patch your friendship back together. And if you ever get in another fight know that you always have that option of trying to work it out and no matter if its over a guy or if one of you accidently spilled a secret you always will somehow fix things!
-missy-
I really like this guy. I like to flirt with him and stuff all the time. I think that if I told him how I feel, we would be going out. The problem is, it's my B/f's ex! I don't know how she would feel! Should I tell him I like him or what?
Wut u dont want to do is go ahead and go out with him before you know how your friend feels! So just ask your friend if she still has feelings for him and if she would mind if you two hooked up. If she says she still has feelings for him back off and just be friends with the guy and wait untill she really doesnt have feelings for him that way nothing will stand between you two as a couple and friendship will still be there just incase it doesnt work out! Hope I Helped!
-Missy-
well i posted a message stating my problem with these three guys. well i talk to one of them and told them that it wasnt going to work that was this boy named bryan. Now i am faced with the big decision of picking Joseph or Donald but i dont know wich one. See i have known Donald a lot oonger than Joseph but we have all ways been friends but we never had those conversations dealing with getting to know each other like fave color and food things like that. Well he has a friend named Joseph and i like joseph and donald keeps telling me the Joseph really wants to get with me. Me and Joseph have talked a feew kissed a few. But see i really like joseph i like a lot of things about him. But see he is a big flirt and so am i so evan though one of us would be in a relationsship we would still end up fliorting with some one els. But im not really worried about that i want to know how can i pick between them which one to choose and if i should tell the one that i didnt pick that i go with his friend pleaz help signed~ worried to pick
The way I see it you favor Joseph and I think you and Donald are better off as friends. I think you should think about each of them and relize which is more inportant with donald, staying close friends or being closer, breaking up and not being so close anymore. I dont mean to seem like its a bad thing to go out with Donald but I dont think you should risk a good friendship and go out with Joseph. And if it doesnt work out with you and Joseph you always have Donald there for you and he could be the next boyfriend. Just do wut makes you happy and go with your heart it is usually right!
Hope I Helped!
-Missy-
f/16: there are 2 guys that i like the good boy and the bad boy. please tell me which u think is better and why.
the good boy: likes to have fun, former bmx biker, likes to chill, friends kinda boring unless you like to just sit there an talk; in band, up to do pranks, doesnt do drugs,and likes kids but doesnt have any.
the bad boy: loves to have fun, skater, drummer, never a dull moment, always up to pranks, does drugs, likes kids but doesnt have any, always ends up in trouble (not major trouble).
thanx for your advice
f/16
Well the good boi and bad boi sound like they are really great guys. You need to ask yourself which you would rather sacrifice,having a guy with a bad rep. for drugs or a guy that isnt always the most interesting. And if that doesnt work pick which on is cuter....jk
And if you dont like that the good boi is so boring then you start up an interesting conversation. Or if you dont like that the bad boi does drugs then urge him to stop and help him quit! This is really up to you and which one you would rather have as like a boyfriend!
Hope I Helped!
-Missy-
ok well i know that i should just leave him alone but let me tell u the story first..well me and this guy named Jared dated and he told me he loved me but we broke up because there was a misunderstanding and now he had been with this girl for three months and i now see that i am in love with him and he wants me to stay out of there relationship!!!What do i do?!?!?!?
The same thing happened to me! My advice to you is try to be a really good friend to him. He might figure out how you feel and soon enough relize he wants you too!
Hope I Helped!
-Missy-
is it ok to date online
It is ok but you just have to know the things not to tell like your exact location until you know that person really well! You can really get hurt if you tell that person everything!
Hope I helped!
-Missy-
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What would u do if U had a b/f or g/f Break up with u ??? me well I have too boys on my mind how do I get themn out??!!!! Jenipher
When ever I have a break up I think of all the good things that happened with them (kisses etc.)
It makes me feel good and usually me and my ex end up still being friends anyway! Plus, u and him might get back together someday so all you can do is move on and find someone new for the current time!
Hope I helped
-missy-
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Hi ummm everytime Im on the beach playing Vollyball Im in my bikni, and boys just keep trying to get my attintion alot!! umm and it makes me feel weird, why is that??? Im 15/fm
I think guys just like staring at girls bodies, its not that big of a deal they just think your pretty so you dont have anything to worry about!
Hope I Helped!
-Missy-
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