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Feelings for someone else
Recently, I broke up with my boyfriend because I was always thinking of someone else. I know it's a lame excuse for breaking up with someone, but, that's why I did it. Do you think it was wrong to do? Because..my ex still wants me back. Believe me, he's tried everything he possibly can. I just..I can't do it. I know that if I go back to him I'll never be thinking about him, but another guy. And to be honest, I'm not too fond of my ex, but he's disgustingly obsessed with me. Oh my god, seriously. Lmao. So someone help me, here.
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Well, I think that you must like (love) the guy that you can't stop thinking about. You gots to tell Desprete Darry to go on. And maybe you should talk to the one you cant stop thinking about. Cause maybe after you do, you wont like him no more, or maybe you will find that you really do love him. So I dont know.. just trying to help
Note: That obsessed one has GOT to go
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Well it seems like u dont wanna go back 2 him!! so dont do nething u dont wanna do!! <3<3!!
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No, it wasn't wrong if you're not too fond of your ex. If you have strong feelings and stuff for the other guy..then go for him! :)
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No dont go back to your ex inless you want to and that is soo not a bad excuse because i did the same thing "i liked some other guy broke up w my bf to go out w this other guy never did and wanted my bf back and got him back n thought he was a jerk later on n broke up" lol so do wat u want not because ur ex is madly in love with u or anything kay just do it because u want to, i mean u might as well make urself happi right so do wat feels right for u!
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Tell him ITS OVER. And don't feel bad for the reason you broke up with him. It is an honest one. It would be uncomfortable to be with someone when you really know you want someone else. there is nothing wrong with you. Its your physco ex that needs to be seeking advice. Good Luck! :)
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if you dont want to get back with him then dont. no matter what he does. plus it would be hurting him more if he found out you liked someone else while you were going out, hell get over it eventually and hell find someone who really, really cares for him. thats the best thing to do, let him find someone else while that way your not cheating yourself or him out of relationship you on the inside really dont want to happen.
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That's a perfectly valid reason to break up with him, not a lame one.
I approve, actually. Most girls, in your situation (have a boyfriend, thinking about another guy) just cheat, and don't bother breaking up.
Does he know that this is why you broke up with him? If not, you might want to clarify. Just tell him that you didn't feel like it was right for you to be dating him, and not be thinking about him.
Just tell him what you told us, minus the "he's disgustingly obsessed with me, etc." part. Lol
I hope I helped a little! If you need more advice, don't hesitate to ask. ^_^
-Siren =)
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Just tell him your not interested in going out with him. And if the guy you keep thinking about is single then try hanging out with him more! He might just be feeling the same way about you. Maybe you and him will go out and the other guy wil know to back off. You just might be a lot happier!
-Missy-
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It's not a stupid reason, I've broken up with someone for that same reason before. There's not much you can do, hooking up with him will make him estatic, but you miserable. Better just try to be friends with him so both of you can move on.
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hey...
yOu need to tell yOur ex tO qet over yOu, it may be hard but seriOusly, if yOu like sOmewOn else, tell him aqain, tell him that yOu didnt just break up with him fOr the hell of it, but yOu really DO have feelinqs fOr anOther quy and yOu dOnt want tO hurt yOur ex by qettinq baCk tOqether and think abOut this Other quy.. sOrry if that didnt make sense? but if hes obsessed then maybe its out of yOur hands, just try to talk tO him abOut it, as much as yOu dOnt want tO, it`ll make all tha differenCe. hOpe i helped
Love,
Angel
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sounds stalkerish...anyway, i think it was right of you to break up with him because you have to be honest with yourself and with him...as to the guy, i think you need to make it CLEAR to him that you don't want to get back together - don't flirt with him or make him feel comfortable with you physically. i don't know if you intend on being friends with him still, but explain to him that if he wants to keep you even as a friend then he has to stop
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well.. its ussually okay ta think about someone else even when ur going out with someone, just as long as u dont do nething with that other person. buttt id say it is good u broke up with him just incase people end up getting hurt and all .. and if ur just gunna b thinking of a totally different guy while being with ur bf, i dont think theres reele any point to the relationship hah.. nah i think u did the right thing <3
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hey hun..u did the Right thing..u thought of someone elz..and thats as nice as it gets..u shudnt feel REsponsible because that's uRe feelings..u shudn't go with him again!..not until u have feelings!..plz Rate..mua!
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