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Recently, I broke up with my boyfriend because I was always thinking of someone else. I know it's a lame excuse for breaking up with someone, but, that's why I did it. Do you think it was wrong to do? Because..my ex still wants me back. Believe me, he's tried everything he possibly can. I just..I can't do it. I know that if I go back to him I'll never be thinking about him, but another guy. And to be honest, I'm not too fond of my ex, but he's disgustingly obsessed with me. Oh my god, seriously. Lmao. So someone help me, here. (link)
Well, I think that you must like (love) the guy that you can't stop thinking about. You gots to tell Desprete Darry to go on. And maybe you should talk to the one you cant stop thinking about. Cause maybe after you do, you wont like him no more, or maybe you will find that you really do love him. So I dont know.. just trying to help


Note: That obsessed one has GOT to go


I, like most people, have a complicated relationship with an ex. We dated in college, split up for a while, then got back together, then split up again, etc. for a grand total of ten years of my dating life. Even though I really truly don't want to get back together with him, I can't seem to stop thinking about him. How do I get over it? (link)
Well, I mean you dated that dude for a long time, of course you gonn' be thinking 'bout 'em. But, I mean, you gots to get you another man, explore. But like, if you think maybe you love him, you should talk to him. Now you say you dont wanna get back with him, but sometimes love can be feeling that way. You either scared to love him, or you just dont believe it can be true.

Note:I'm going through same thing


i'm almost 13 and I still like watching cartoons, some of my closet friends still watch cartoons, but some of them only watch MTV and stuff. Should I stop watching My cartoons? (link)
Shooooooot I got a aunt, she 63 she still be watching cartoons. And if they be you'r friends, they not gonna care that you watch cartoons. And anyway, MTV BET and the NEWS, can get pretty boring, it's good to laugh!


Note: I watch 'em too


Alright tp start this off, i`m 14/female. For about a year or so, I`ve been so down and sad/angry all the time. I never smile anymore, or things that used to be a blast too me, is no fun anymore. I don`t like hanging out with any of my firends anymore. I just like being alone all the time. Well, a few months ago my mom and dad took me to a conselour because they were concerned about me and such. They just said I needed too be on anti-depressants. I didn`t start using them right away, just recently. Well, I`m cutting myself now. I know its really bad too do and I know how stupid I am for doing it, but It just feels so right when I do it. I really need too stop or talk to somebody about it. My mom asked me what these marks were on my arm, and i told her is was eraser burns ( because they leave scars ) and she hasn`t realy noticed that more and more keep appearing. What should I tell her? I want too tell her the truth. I know she will probably understand but she`ll get really upset ( sad ) because she hates seeing me like this and i`ll feel really bad. What should I say too her? (link)
Dang, well the problem isn't telling you'r mom. It's to stop cutting. I know what you mean, cutting makes you'r mind go off of the problem, or pain. But. you need to think back, before you where depressed. What made you that way, what made you feel down. Sometimes it can be hormones, but I have never seen them do that much damage. It could have been a boy, or a friend, or even you'r parents. Whatever it is, you need to try and fix it, make it stop, because cutting, is very additcting, I would know.

Note: I think you should wait to tell you'r mom.


my mind is always racing so fast . im so stressed i fall asleep at like 2:00 in the morning . is this normal (link)
You sound alot like me. And I know that one thing that brings that on me, is my home problems. Now I'm not saying that you have home problems, but maybe you should go over what makes you feel stressed, mad or angry, then see if you can fix it. If you figure out what it is, and cant do nothing, then you can either put in mine, or justpost a new one, I will answer again,.


I look at a lot of the questions and then the answers they get..a lot of them have to do with sex..and a lot of the answers are saying it is okay as long as you use protection and you really "love" them. These are usually teens, like me, too! I agree with having safe sex and stuff but my main concern is the actual action of sex. Sex should be something special you share with the person you are going to spend the rest of your life with. At this age, it is very unlikely that you will stay together forever, no matter how well your relationship is going. Are there any people on this site waiting for marriage? Does anyone agree with me?

*Flabbergausted*
i like that word =P (link)
I know what you talking about, for sure. I think you should wait untill you are married. Cause I do think you can love a boy, cause I love my boyfriend. But, there is a certain love between a husband and wife, that brings sex. So I am not saying you dont love the dude, but not like you will love you'r husband. And that goes for everyone

Note: I agree


ok i have a friend and i just found out friday that his step, brother who was 16 died. and i felt really bad and i wanted to call him and just talk to him. and im not sure if its to early to call. like im not sure if i should wait atleast a week to call and see if hes ok. what should i do (link)
Well, If he is your real close friend, he would want to hear from you. But if you dont talk to him that much, or you just say 'hi', it may seem rude for you to call. But I know if he was my close friend, I would call, and I would also know that he wants to hear from me.




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