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I look at a lot of the questions and then the answers they get..a lot of them have to do with sex..and a lot of the answers are saying it is okay as long as you use protection and you really "love" them. These are usually teens, like me, too! I agree with having safe sex and stuff but my main concern is the actual action of sex. Sex should be something special you share with the person you are going to spend the rest of your life with. At this age, it is very unlikely that you will stay together forever, no matter how well your relationship is going. Are there any people on this site waiting for marriage? Does anyone agree with me?
*Flabbergausted*
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i havent waited for marriage but i have found the one i want to spend the rest of my life with. we were both waiting for the same thing and we found each other and even though we arent married i still think it is okay because we plan to be together and get married
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My original plan at the beginning of my junior year was to stay away from guys, and be single for the rest of high school. Needless to say, that plan died when I met my boyfriend, whom I will have been dating for 9 months on the fourteenth.
I had originally planned to wait for marriage. That plan died, too. I agree with you that sex should be something special you share with the person you are going to spend the rest of your life with, which is why I let my original plan die. I think of sex as the ultimate expression of love, and needless to say, I love my guy with all my heart, and we're planning to stay together as long as we're not sick of each other (We joke about this because his three other girlfriends got sick of him and guys usually get sick of me after about two months).
So, I agree and disagree. It is possible to find the person you're going to stay with for the rest of your life in your teens. I'm sixteen - I believe I may have. Just thought I'd put in my two cents. ^_^
-Siren =)
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Absolutely. Well..thats my plan anyway. Im very emotional and i dont think i would be able to handle the fact that the person i lose my virginity to will move on out of my life. I want the person i lose it with..be there with me to do it all over for the rest of my life. Damn it will be hard ..cuz im already curious..wat if i dont get married til like 30 LOL.
But when someone asks about sex ..i always say if your ready to go for it..because everyone is different and everyone makes different choices!
-melissa
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you are on the right track... atleast someone is... i know that if a girl says she is 14 and she wants to loose her virginity i tell her she is too young... but if hse says shes is already doing it... i still tell her that is too young but if shes gonna be doing it use protection. but atleast you know the right thing... good for you! :)
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i agree with you sorta..i think that you should wait for the one you love or w/e but then again you can be in love someone even if you know your not gonna marry them..it depends on the person and when they are ready to do it
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Id have to completely agree with you. I stand firmly behind waiting till marriage to have sex. I dont think sex should be taken as lightly as it is. Its sort of sad that so many people under 16 are sexually active. I look at sex as giving a part of yourself away..so every time a person does it..it is giving a piece away that you cant get back, and that is one less piece you will be able to share with your spouse when you get one.
:) Glad we share opinions
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you're not alone lol...my neighbors think i'm so innocent because i don't even plan on having sex anywhere near soon and they joke bout how i'm gonna go to college and break out and become sex crazed...on one hand, i can understand why many teens don't respect sex as much as i do, but for some reason i do respect it and i know i'd feel guilty or wrong if i went against that ~ i have no problem standing up for the fact that this is how i feel bcuz this is me, and the world would be a bore if everybody felt the same way! :)
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I know what you talking about, for sure. I think you should wait untill you are married. Cause I do think you can love a boy, cause I love my boyfriend. But, there is a certain love between a husband and wife, that brings sex. So I am not saying you dont love the dude, but not like you will love you'r husband. And that goes for everyone
Note: I agree
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i agree w/ u 100%
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i deffinitely agree at this age you will probably brake up with the person and then it isnt special at all i am waiting for marriage 100%
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Yes I agree with you! You should wait till marriage, but these days it rarely happens. Everyone feels they should do it because everyone else is doing it or they think they love the person. At our age it is rare for people to stay together forever. And yes there are alot of people asking questions about sex and sexual things. Everyone is really curious about the whole subject of sex. Well if you have any more questions feel free to slip them in my box.
* ashley *
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i am waiting till marriage :)
and i don't care what people say about it, its my life and i choose to
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I agree with you. You should wait until marriage or unless you in love but a lot older. A lot of these questions are about sexual things mostly. You know what I'm talking about. If you wanna talk drop one in my inbox! <3
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Yah..I agree. Some people do stay together when they are this age but ya still, if you regret it you are going to have to live with it forever. And that's a horrible feeling! You put it a good way! Rate me plz xxoxo!
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