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It's my friends ex!
I really like this guy. I like to flirt with him and stuff all the time. I think that if I told him how I feel, we would be going out. The problem is, it's my B/f's ex! I don't know how she would feel! Should I tell him I like him or what?
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sometimes life gives you these hard decsions on one hand you COULD find you soulmate (slime chances) where as on the other hand you could lose your friend over a guy you could be only goin out wit for a week. i guess the best advice is... if you think its worth the chance of losin a friend then by all means go for it if its not then at least talk to her. hope i could help
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You shouldn't go out with your friends ex. Its a bad idea. Go ahead and ask her how she feels about it. i'm sure she won't like it. Leave the guy alone, he's not the only guy in the world who you will like. Guys come and go, friends are supposed to be forever.
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Wut u dont want to do is go ahead and go out with him before you know how your friend feels! So just ask your friend if she still has feelings for him and if she would mind if you two hooked up. If she says she still has feelings for him back off and just be friends with the guy and wait untill she really doesnt have feelings for him that way nothing will stand between you two as a couple and friendship will still be there just incase it doesnt work out! Hope I Helped!
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talk to your friend first. ask her if she cares. if she says no, that usually means shes uncomfortable. truthfully ask her and ask her to tell the TOTAL truth, you dont want to hurt her. dont tell him u like him unless you have talked to your friend.
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Never date your best friends EX!! Even though they are no longer a couple she probably still has feelings for him. I went through the same thing and we broke up later and almost lost my best friend.
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Well by experience what you should do is talk to your best friend about it. first tell her that you really like this guy but you care so much about her and thats why you are talking to her 1st. You don't need to ask for her permission just talk to her about your feelings and hers.
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who's more important ur bf or him? Remember: Boyfriends come and go, but best friends don't ever leave you. Don't just screw her over for some fling that might not last.
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ask yer friend how would she feel if yew went out wid her ex. And den if she says she doesnt care or whatever den go for it. hope i helped =)rate meh plz xoxo DeE
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i think u should tell him how u fell but befor u tell him tell her u have fellings for her ex and then ask her if she stil has fellings for him and if she would or wouldent mind if u guys went out but that is only if he likes u to then it will be safe to go out
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Hi,
The simple fact is your friend isn't going out with him any more. As two single people theirs no reason why you shouldn't date if you want to. However this is your friend and you'll have to think very carefully about how she'll react and feel. They question you need to sit and think long and hard about is is it worth the risk. I would advise you discus this predicament with a friend of yours, which one? - you got it! I'm a grate believer in making your self clear and keeping everything in the open. Its much better for all concerned
Derfel
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i think you should talk to your friend first about it and see how she feels... she might be ok with it and she might not be... it really all depends on the relationship she had with him prior to their break up. with my last boyfriend... i thought i was totaly in love with him and every time i'd see a girl with him i'd get super jealous... when he broke up with me my friend started going out with him without talking to me about it first... i might have felt different if she talked to me about it first but now since that happened we are not friends anymore due to "lack of communication and trust" so i think you should talk to your friend before doing anything drastic
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to be completely honest i just went through this and thankfully my friend and i are still friends .... please tell her first before you tell him .. and talk to her about it if you dont then she will tell you that u backstabbed her and you will go through hell .. its better off if you talk to her first and compromise or come up with some type of agreement but she what her feelings are first .. hope i helped! xoxo
<3 alyssa
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Ask your friened first, break it down to her, ive had alot of friends fight over that kinda thing, but just talk with her about it, she cant blame you for wwhat your heart does.. if she says its ok, go from there
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