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what should i get my guy 4 valentines it has 2 be great i cheated and we broke up on my b day were real good friends its been 3 days well anyways dont talk shit 2 me because i just found out & suspected he cheated 2 and yes in our 1st relationship he did atleast i admitted it i have 2 prove him i care and and stop drugs which i am ok so i need 2 know a good thing 2 show i care a nd love him ;) not that expensive cuz i doubt helel get me anything he didnt get me a bday gift but its cuz hes always broke so yeah 50 busx and

Ok rent a movie, get a bag of popcorn, and a blanket and just watch a movie with him. Believe it or not girls guys do actually like to cuddle sometimes. And as far as the gift goes no gift is gonna mean as much to him as a night alone with someone he cares dearly for and who feels the same way about him. I no when a girl gets me a gift it kinda makes me feel bad cause in my mind it's sopposed to be the guy who gives all the gifts i dont no call me a traditionalist.

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i'll make this short and simple.

16f never been kissed (i know pathetic loser)
likes boy
wants to make first move
but scared of being rejected
what if i mess up? what if he moves his head away? i have braces will it be harder to kiss? should i eat chocolate before hand so i taste good?

please help a sista out. i'll give you 5's.

Well I personally think a girl making the first move shows alot of courage. Ok as for your advice being scared of rejection is the one thing you shouldn't be afraid of. If you go through your entire life trying to impress every person you meet your going to waste all the fun times of your life. So to start with the guy your trying to kiss you should prob no. This usually makes you look less like a whore. Next after your given the prob signals and everything your gonna wanna lean in for a kiss but not all the way make him come towards you to. As for the braces they only really make it harder if he has piercings in his mouth or he has braces. As for the chocolate it personally think a piece of gum is more interesting cause then it'll keep your breath fresh and ya'll can play with it to. Once yall get to know each other a lil better of course.

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ok how would u like a girl 2 prove she loves u what would she have 2 say and do im desperate im not good at this communication thing i fucked up so yes

Ok well guys aren't really that complicated. To start with depending on the age and the amount of time the two of you have been going out/have known each other, The easiest way is just to tell him. Don't feel bad if the two of you have only been goin out for a month if he doesnt believe you it's that love doesn't happen quickly or atleast we don't like to believe it does. If you haven't been goin out for long, or even if you have, just do the same things you would want him to do. For example make sure you make time for him, but be carefull some guys don't like to have all there time planned for them so occasionally give him some space. Also when your with your friends treat him the exact same way as if you were alone together. Guys like to feel loved all the time not just when it's convenent for you. If you do talk to anouther guy tell him about it, and if he's there hold his hand and make sure he knows he's the one for you no one else.

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Is there any way i can fix the audio on a video clip? I went to a concert and using my digital camera that video records i got clips of it. But the audio is really messed up. Any way to fix it using the computer? any info is helpful thanks in advance

Theres this program that I found at office max called I think um Mp3 burner deluxe, its in a red box. That will let you seperate all the frequencies you may be able to fix it through that.

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hi..i was just curious ...do any of you have any tips on how to treat ur skin right so you break out less...like to control your face...i break out before my period..but usually i dont...how can i prevent and when it does break out how can i clear it up fast...any ideas...or what do you use that helps you??

i rate high

ok first off if you know you break out around your period you should avoid fatty foods and sodas during that time. Also for a skin cleanser my dermotologist recommends cetaphil. you can find cetaphil at most drug stores. I wouldnt use there moistorizer though I find it to be alil oily. A good mostorizer I found is Johnson and Johnson's baby lotion in the pink bottle. The most important thing is to eat healthier and make sure to wash your face in the morning and night also any other times it may need it and dry it by using a soft hand towel and pat dry it dont rub it or anything that may cause irritation to the skin.

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ok heres the thing, proms is in 3 months and i need to lose like 15 or 20 pounds. I need advice on a way i can lose that weight in 3 months. i wanna find a cute dress thats looks good with out the gut and love handles showing through. please help!

--> ashley

all you need to do is start exercising, breakin it up like one day lower the next day upper body, eat more healthful foods, which means no more mcdonalds, and just let your body do the rest 3 months is plenty of time to lose 20 pounds safely as long as you start soon.

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15/f

What does it mean if a guy wants to "holla at you?"
thanks

it means he thinks your something good, either looking,interesting to talk to, or ur just a good friend to him;and he wants to talk and/or get to know you better.

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My mind always fills dirty things about guys. I always fantasize about their penises like how big they have, shaved or un-shaved, fat or thin. Its about all men, young and old, known or unknown. Imagine when I talk to a man, my mind goes fantasizing about his penis, Is this sickness?
I am 15/F.

No not a sickness it's called hormones. Your at the age right now where your starting to want to experiment with your sexuality somewhat. You'll prob. continue to think like this until, no offense, but you mature a little bit more. You'll be fine just remember thoughts don't have to turn into actions.

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Alrighty. So my junior year of college I developed a most excellent friendship with this guy, a senior, who we'll call Joe. Joe and I got really close and I asked him to my prom, and we were both on a band trip for a month that summer, so eventually we got together. Joe went to college 2 hours from home and we managed to make the long distance thing work for a while. As much as I loved Joe, he wasn't the greatest boyfriend... he rarely called/IMed/e-mailed, and I sent letters all the time, never to receive any back. I visited him a few times and he came home once or twice.

I thought we were doing ok til I went to visit March my senior year and he was really distant, and then in the beginning of April (this would be 2005) he dumped me over the phone, kinda out of the blue. I found a few things online and assumed he cheated on me, blah blah, we had a fight, and made up, and I know now he didn't cheat on me, and we still get along, which is good because we have a tight-knit group of friends who still hang out together on breaks.

So the problem with this is, I'm still having problems getting over him. We went out for pretty much a year and a half, and I know that I deserve better treatment and more attention than what I got... but it's difficult to hang out with him without thinking back to our relationship, and I often get super jealous of other girls I suspect he's interested in. I don't want to believe he's over me, but I know that I'm fooling myself, and I feel like a really pathetic person. I know there's no easy way to solve this, but any advice on how to "get over" him as more than just a friend would be appreciated.

Sorry but if you really loved him, and only you'll no that for sure no one can tell you that you did or you didn't, then that funny way he laughs to you and the little twinkle in his eye after looking directly into yours is always going to be there. The best thing you can do is keep him as a close friend. A good friendship is always the best foundation to a good relationship. Maybe after you two try the dating game out a bit and college settles down for him you two will give the relationship you two once held so dear anouther shot at success.

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okay... so me and my boyfriend were dating for two years we had a GREAT relationship we were best friends, and loved eachother very very much!but the last month or two of our relationship he was starting to feel like "distant" from me and so of course i asked him about it and he always said nothing or i dont kno.. and i didnt want to annoy him about it so i let it go, but then he told me that he thinks he needs a break not just for him but for me too! and that last 3 days and i cried the whole time and he told me taht it was too hard and it wasnt worth it and that he loved me so much.. and so everything was better. then we go out of town for a week and i felt once again "distant" from himyet AGAIN! and the next day that we got home i talked to him about it and i didnt kno that that was going to be the end.. but he just said that alot of things are going on rite now and he wanted a break.. just a break!! and then i saw messages on the famous myspace from him and some girl and they started before we even broke up... and i got upset.. and then i just assumed that they mite like eachother...and i got over it.. whatever! but then i found out that he had been lieing to me.. he took her to the movies before and to parties and stuff..and i kno that we werent going out but we were still GREAT friends and we still told eachother that we loved eachother.. and regretfully we ahd sex, so of course this hurt me... and when i confronted him he said that he didnt kno what to say and tahts why he lied about everything... and trust me this is not the guy that i kno... he has NEVER lied to me. but then this so called break turned into a thing where he wanted to live his life.. and he still loves me but he is a senior and he has never been with another girl.. (i was his first EVERYTHING) and stuff.. and that of course jsut hurt me so bad... and now we are friends but he goes over to that girls house, and he tells me and even she told me taht they dont like eachother like that.. but they hang out by themselvs all the time! and i hate it.. and i kno that i shouldnt.. but i do. and he tells me that he loves me.. and he even cries whenever we talk about us.. bc he says taht he scared bc he mite be messing up the greatest thing that he has ever had.. and when i ask then why are you doing it.. he says he has to find out... =/ and i dont kno what to do.. we still hang out and stuff.. but it hurts me.. and i dont want to care but i do.. and i just want to be with him again... and i kno that is selfsih of me.. but i just cant help it.. we were soo happy....=( so can someone please give me some kind of advice.. i dont really kno what im asking for exactly.. just help!

Alright well this seems really familiar. Ok well me and my girlfriend went through the exact same thing. Let me help you by telling you my mistakes. Just because he starts talking to other girls don't bring other guys around just to make him jealous because it will work and thats not always a good thing or a bad thing just depends on the guy. Don't ever no matter how bad it gets say mean or hurtfull things to them or behind there back because right before you sleep at night it will always be there reminding you that you are prob. the reason your not back together, even if its not true. But the biggest thing of all is time, do your thing experiment go out on a date or two with a guy friend just remember don't rub it in. If the guy really wants to be with you, which is what it ultimately comes down to, then he'll see how much your hurting and hopefully, for the sack of your relationship together, come back like the butterfly you set free only to have it return.

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i really like this guy. i am in 8th grade and he is in 7th. i guess you could say that i love him. i have been crazy about him for about 9 months now. he has a girlfriend who is in 9th grade. he flirts with me a whole lot and i catch him looking at me during the one class that we have together. he also messes with one of my friends while i am around her but not in a flirting way. my friends say that he is just going out with this girl to make me jealous. he does stuff like lean on my arm when i am sitting down and he is standing up talking to one of his friends that i sit by. he also shows up in my classes just to talk with his friends. he is like a "dream guy" and i know that lots of girls like him but how can i get him to notice me? we talk pretty much every day but he keeps his girlfriend. i do not want to break him and his girlfriend up or anything like that because i am not going to act like that even though i love him. how can i be the one that he notices? thanks! i'll rate!

Guys at that young of an age usually are attracted, or atleast I was, to the witty social girls who act like they just want to be friends. We all no a guy could not like you one minute, but if he thinks he can't have you then all the sudden he's all over you trying to have you. This isn't always good though cause usually these relationships don't last very long...but come on your only in what 8th grade so nows the time to make mistakes and have your fun so...have-at-it.

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Is their any other type of birthcontrol bsides condoms that are easy to get confidental and no to expenisve

Um...yea the best thing to do is not have sex till your ready but honestly not many people including myself listen to that so heres an answer that prob. fits you a little better. You can go down to your local health clinic and there you can get free condoms, birth control pills the works. Also while your there they could give you some great suggestions on how to avoid sexual situations and just learn to have a good time platonicaly.

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well, me and this guy have been talking a lot lately. we're getting to know each other really well, and we're going on a date sometime in the near future (less than 2 days away). he wants ME to choose where we should go and what we should do. the problem is, i have NO idea! i'm out of ideas! what should we do? what have you and your past girlfriends done for fun dates? help ASAP! thank you! -Confused

the best dates are prob a scary movie in the theaters. this way the two of you can cuddle and it will just be that much more special. hope i could help

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My first day of high school is coming up .. what should i wear ??? i wanna look cute n trendy ! for ppl who have already survived there freshman year ... give me a hint on what to wear first day of school =D

Ok this is comin from a guy so keep that in mind. Ok if your tryin to impress the guys then the first day is the most important. I would definitely say to wear a skirt and wear a sleeveless shirt(they wont say anything your first day) that shows just a lil stomach not so much that you look like a whore though maybe like half and inch to an inch. HOpe i could help

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Since ur a guy, I gotta question 4 ya! Haha. I was just wondering, wut are some good present/gifts that u can get for or give 2 ur boyfriend 4 an anniversary or birthday type deal? My boyfriend is around ur age and we have been going out 4 about 9 and a half months. Sorry, this question may be lame or w/e, but I figured I'd give it a shot and ask since I'm clueless when it comes 2 wut a guy would want. Thanks!

well i dn what your bf is into but most likely he doesnt want you to get him anything... its a man thing dont try to understand it. but if your insistant then i would go with a braclet or maybe a friendship charm. after all you cant go wrong wit jewerly and giving him a frindship charm will just show him that your even more serious about this relationship. HOpe i could help

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okay im going out with this kid nick and weve been together since june. one of my best friends matt is nicks best friend and i go over & hang out with matt & nick alot and one day matt was like you know nick hasnt stopped liking you since the last time u went out. but the last time we went out was in like 7th grade haha but i kinda always wanted to go back out with him too so we started to go out. now i didnt know this but his parents are really strict and he cant be on the phone past 9 and he cant do anything cuz he has work so we can only hang out on the weekends now. and matt told me that his parents beat him and so i feel really bad. but theres this other kid jason that i really like alot. and he goes to my school. im not sure if he likes me back but i i heard that he does and weve been talking alot this summer but im not sure. and i think he knows that i liked him before i started going out with nick. any way heres the point. i really would rather go out with jason but im not sure if he likes me and the only way i can find out is if i dump nick. and it sounds easy but then i think about it and i kinda still like nick and i dont know if i wanna take the chance of jason not liking me but i feel bad going out with one person but wanting another person more.. it just feels like im keeping something from nick and i dont like it. and plus i never see nick and he never calls anymore so i dont know what to do. sry to make it so long but this has been bothering me for a while. dani,14,F

First off your hearts always you best guide f your brain. Then if you have these feelings for jason your relaionship with nick is never going to be the same. If you do decide to date jason you should definitely ask nick if he thinks its ok, After all they are friends and he is your bf. Also your right the only way you are gonna no if jason likes you is prob to dump nick. After all a guys not usally gonna hit on a taken girl. Hope i could help.

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Why do people ask stupid questions they can't read about on the internet? Google will do wonders!


-The Clown Prince

A couple of reasons people are lazy and well i guess its just people are lazy. HOpe i could help

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have u ever shoplifted something small and not gotten caught? jw
thanx

Um yea its kinda easy.

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Hey im going to a brand new highschool this year and i am really nervous becuase what if i don't mkae any friends who am i going to six with at lunch?????i need help plz i rate!!!

Just be yourself People are attracted to the people who arnt trying to be fake. plus its alot less work. Also try to talk to new people well there all gonna be new but you no what i mean. Hope i could help.

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this year im totally changeing.. im wearing more make up and way more PiNkK.. but does n e one think that i will be made fun of bec im changeing.. thanx i rate

You no what I dont think you will hear many straight guys say this but i think the color pink is the shit. i like it i have a pink shirt. so no I no i wouldnt make fun of you for pink. Hope i could help

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