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i really like this guy. i am in 8th grade and he is in 7th. i guess you could say that i love him. i have been crazy about him for about 9 months now. he has a girlfriend who is in 9th grade. he flirts with me a whole lot and i catch him looking at me during the one class that we have together. he also messes with one of my friends while i am around her but not in a flirting way. my friends say that he is just going out with this girl to make me jealous. he does stuff like lean on my arm when i am sitting down and he is standing up talking to one of his friends that i sit by. he also shows up in my classes just to talk with his friends. he is like a "dream guy" and i know that lots of girls like him but how can i get him to notice me? we talk pretty much every day but he keeps his girlfriend. i do not want to break him and his girlfriend up or anything like that because i am not going to act like that even though i love him. how can i be the one that he notices? thanks! i'll rate!
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You need to find out what sort of relationship he has with his girlfriend and see whether you are prepared to jeapordise that or steer clear until they're no longer an item.
Also, you've indicated that he's using her to make your jealous and you have to ask yourself, do you really want to go out with a guy like that? Whether it sounds good to you because it means he likes you, the fact is that if it's true, the way he's treating this girl is terrible. Plus, if he's prepared to flirt with you and goodness knows who else while he has a girlfriend, can you really trust him not to do the same with you??
If you're still sure you want to take that leap and see if it can work, you're best bet is to come out and tell him how you feel. Don't tell him you love him, as this may scare him away. Tell him you've been thinking about him and you were wondering if there was any way you could be something more than friends? But make it clear you're not wanting to split him and his girlfriend up and that if he is interested, nothing can happen until she is no longer in the picture.
See what happens and I wish you the best of luck!
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Guys at that young of an age usually are attracted, or atleast I was, to the witty social girls who act like they just want to be friends. We all no a guy could not like you one minute, but if he thinks he can't have you then all the sudden he's all over you trying to have you. This isn't always good though cause usually these relationships don't last very long...but come on your only in what 8th grade so nows the time to make mistakes and have your fun so...have-at-it.
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