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Well, I'm really good with guys when we're not going out. I can think of anything really quick to make them laugh and to have a good conversation. But when we start dating I freeze up. i even try to pretend that I'm not dating him and he's just my friend so I can act like I was before. But i get so speechless! its like i dont want to say anything stupid or embarassing..
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just be yourself! if your going out he obviously likes you and the way you are when you make him laugh .. dont be afraid to say something stupid because if your nervous your more likely to say something weird anyways .. if you say something stupid just laugh at it and make a joke about it .. its not like he would brake up with you for sayin a something stupid and if he did then he isnt a good boyfriend anways! you prolly just need a little time to warm up and get comfortable .. just be yourself and im sure everything will be fine! good luck and i hope this helped .. love always - Erica
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a lot of girls are just like you..
my advice..don't worry about saying anything stupid or embarassing..be yourself..obviously they liked you for who you are, b/c they asked you out when you were "joking around and having a good convo"...so keep doing that..just be yourself ..don't worry about what you're saying and be all paranoid..if you do, that'll just make it worse..you are who you are and shouldn't change or worry about what your saying for any1...just relax & have fun
hope that helps..xO`Lexi
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Haha... just be yourself as you were. That's probably what made him like you in the first place! Whether you say something stupid or not; I'm sure he'll still like ya :P
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it happens...used to happen to me...and probably everybody else. you'll eventually get over it
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Umms...What kinda advice are you looking for sweetie.
All I can pretty much get off of this is, what should I do maybe to unfreeze myself?
WEll...you just have to be yourself. Be flirty, and don't care if you make a complete idiot out of yourself. Be fun, and just be yourself. Any guy that can see that is really you, will fall in love. Just loosen up, relax, and be yourself..that's the biggest thing that guys look for. :)
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Hey Gurlie
I gte the same way and so does my bf. You just got to think of something to talk about like ask him if he likes sports im sure yall could talk about that for hours but just think of something he is interested in and bring it up that conversation can lead on to many other conversations. Hope I helped!
Much Luv
-Missy-
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Dear Shy,
One thing that may help you with your guy problem is go with a huge group of people. Or what you can do is practice with friends, brothers or sisters, or even stuffed animals!
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