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double Trouble
well i posted a message stating my problem with these three guys. well i talk to one of them and told them that it wasnt going to work that was this boy named bryan. Now i am faced with the big decision of picking Joseph or Donald but i dont know wich one. See i have known Donald a lot oonger than Joseph but we have all ways been friends but we never had those conversations dealing with getting to know each other like fave color and food things like that. Well he has a friend named Joseph and i like joseph and donald keeps telling me the Joseph really wants to get with me. Me and Joseph have talked a feew kissed a few. But see i really like joseph i like a lot of things about him. But see he is a big flirt and so am i so evan though one of us would be in a relationsship we would still end up fliorting with some one els. But im not really worried about that i want to know how can i pick between them which one to choose and if i should tell the one that i didnt pick that i go with his friend pleaz help signed~ worried to pick
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I would go with the one you knew longer-donald-but then again you and joe (shortning it up a bit sorry) seem to have more of a thing more then you and don (once again shortning) do so i would go with Joe.. actually. but if doesnt work out between u and joe then so be it.. then move on and give it time and go to don.
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--Hey it sounds like your in a big pickle w/ all these boys! i kno what your going thru because i had the SAME EXACT deal! there were 3 guys that liked me n' one of them tt me all the time(talker) another one tt me every once and awhile(soso) and the 3rd one only passed notes 2 me but would nvr talk to me in person(shy)! okay well "shy" has liked me the longest out of the 3 and we previously went out and it was okay...."soso" i've known since 1st grade n' we've talked but werent the best of friends and he didnt like me as long but he seemed 2 like me ALOT more or just as much as "shy" did...then there was "Talker" who called me every nite 2 talk and would wait 4 me at my locker b4 every class! it was tough bcuz apart of me liked them all n' they all seemed 2 like me about the same...i did eventually end up picking one of them "talker" n' its been goin great! i made that decision bcuz i figured that i've already gone out w/ "shy" so i didnt think about him...but there was soso and talker left...soso really seemed 2 like me but so did talker i figured i'd go w/ the one i liked just a lil more even tho i still liked the other one too...i thot i could pick the one i want then if it doesnt work out i will just forget bout it...soso was realy upset at first...but he liked me enough 2 accept my decision...its been over 5 months now and soso still likes me and me n' talker are still goin out...soso has been a GREAT friend and supporter...so my advice to you is to honestly pick the one you feel more comfortable w/ and just try it...if which ever one you DoNt pick...gets mad over it...he obviously doesnt care much about the way you feel...Thats my advice to you..hope it helps!
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The way I see it you favor Joseph and I think you and Donald are better off as friends. I think you should think about each of them and relize which is more inportant with donald, staying close friends or being closer, breaking up and not being so close anymore. I dont mean to seem like its a bad thing to go out with Donald but I dont think you should risk a good friendship and go out with Joseph. And if it doesnt work out with you and Joseph you always have Donald there for you and he could be the next boyfriend. Just do wut makes you happy and go with your heart it is usually right!
Hope I Helped!
-Missy-
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I think that you should pick Joseph because if you and Donald have been friends for a really long time then you shouldn't jepordise (sorry if i spelt it wrong) ur relationship. And it sounds like u really really really like Joseph and I think that if u 2 were 2gether u would both understand the boundaries of being in a relationship and everything would end up good. Good luck and I hope I helped.
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it seems like yOu like the jOesph...ii wOuld gO with him...gO with yOur instincts...xoxo
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Well what I think is you like Joseph alot..And you actually talk to him and you kissed him and stuff...so do what your mind is telln you and acoid listenin to your heart because your mind listens to your mistakes and your heart usually gets broken..
-Stephanie
*Best Of Luck Gurli!!
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ok...good thing u talked to bryan...n u finished things up wit him....now from wut i see i think u like joseph more...b/c thats the one u actually talkin more about...n thats the one you kissed n flirted with...I think that Donald is just a good friend n u love him as a friend...Now think bout it...n think bout who makes u happier...n who puts a smile on ur face everytime ur down...try to see wit who u see ur self more...good luck *best wishes* xoxo effy
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Alrighty. Well it sounds like you are in quite a pickle. What I would do is just stay single until you get to know Joseph a little more. Once that happens, I personally think you should choose him becuase it sounds like you two really enjoy each others company. I hope things work out! Good Luck!!
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Pick which one u feel happiest with.Try inviting them to the movies at the same time.See who treats u better and such.It all depends on wut u look 4 in a guy.Which ever one can match up those qualitys than u should go wit that 1.Good luck babe!
*BrittBritt
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