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my friends are leaving me to hang out with a mean girl.
I do gymnastics and there is this really mean and stupid girl there,I hate her.My friends at gymnastics always hang out with her, but what they dont know is that this girl always talks about them really bad behind there backs. I try to tell them but they just say I am being a *icth and that I just want them to hang out with me and with no one else.This girl is starting to get on my nerves and ruin a great friendship. Sombody pppllleeeaaaaasssseeee help me!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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You need to talk to your friends about it and tell them u r not lying. and if that doesn't work technology can help. Use a tape recorder. I hope I helped .. drop one in the inbox if you want. <3 Laura
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Ur being kind of selfish. U should let ur friends hang out with whomever they want to. Even if she is a backstabber.. tell them that.. and if they dont believe u.. let them find out the hard way.. then they will really wish they had listened to u!
Hope I was of some help!!! Drop one in the inbox if u need anything else!!
**Jeanine**
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Tell your friends that seriously she does talk about them and tell them what she says. Then they'll realize it. Tell the mean girl to stop talking about your friends, but do it privatley so your friends don't see you. The mean girl probably won't get it, but if your friends really are you friends, they get the hint. Hope I helped! <3
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i think after hanging around this girl for a while, your friends will see the kind of person she really is - so hang in there! i kno what you mean tho, i did gymnastics for manyyyyy years and a lot of your teammates become your best friends, especially since you're around them so much and need their support...just prove to them that you're a good person instead of trying to prove that this other girl is bad!
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why dont you jsut go up to the girl and see what her deal is and why shes talkign about them behind there backs.....put her on the spot and make her seem foolish
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dont stress over your firneds hanging out with this girl. if you now she is bad news and you told them and they dont wanna believe you, then hey thats on them. you already did your job and warned them. when they are up your ass complaining to you about how much of a bitch they realized she really is, you can be there to say i told you so.
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if you talk about the other girl.. your friends will think that you just want them for your selves.. soo dont talk about her and pretty soon eventually they will find out how she is.. hope ive helped and good luck!
-xxoBrianna
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Since your friends arent listening dont tell them anymore.. Sometimes the more u tell sum1 not to do sumthing theyll want to do it more. Try to hang out with them all so u dont lose ur friends. If they get hurt by the girl then theyll realize that u were telling them the truth and feel bad and that would strenthen your guys friendship. remember what hurts people only makes them stronger. so try not to get into a fight or anything about it, Try not to let her get on your nerves do your best as being a friend to your friends and be nice to her maybi ull find out shes a real nice person and see the things your other friends see in her. She may only be saying bad stuff about your friends so people dont talk bad about her . So keep your cool and everything should work out ....hope i helped and good luck!
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get A Tape recorder AND ask the girl whAT SHE THINKS about ur friends AND RECORD IT
Lane
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just tell her to fuck off. and also, get her sn and talk to her and print the convo so u can use it as blackmail to prove to your friends she's a bizotch. and tell your friends that you need help dealing with her- they'll understand. c if u can answer my question plz? thnx
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Things like this are really hard sometimes, you could get proof that she talks about them behind their backs. Get a tape recorder, buy one, or borrow one, and try to record her bad mouthing your friends. Its as easy as doing a somersault. Good luck, hope it works out.
-The Knight Owl
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