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hi my name is jessica and my friend thinks i called her jerk when i didnt now she started a big fight i said sry but i think shes still mad at mewhat should i do!!! PLZ HELP
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Well, she might be starting a fight because there is something else bothering her. Ask her if the whole jerk thing is the only thing she's upset about. Maybe she's just blowing it out of proportion.
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I think you should sit her down..where she can't ignore you or run away or anything. You should straight up tell her that you didnt say that. It's not right for her to accuse you of something you didnt do. Obviously she doesnt trust you. Maybe you should tell her that you think she doesnt trust you. Maybe that will get you going on a good (and positive) conversation. Hope it works!!
good luck--angel
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go and call her jerk so that way it can be the truth this time
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hey jessica give ur friend some time she'll end up comin ard..did she hear it from someone??? if she did then tell her that u never ever said it..hope i helped if u need ne more advice hit me up on liLWaRrIoRBabI17
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look she needs to get over it if she was a true friend she would and jerk isnt that bad to be called by for a name so she needs to get over it quickley and if she dosnt then she isnt a true frend!!!
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i think you should leave her alone maybe not talk to her for a while so she can cool down, then i suggested you try talking about anything other than that like just make conversation even if its seems weird at first if you gave her enough time she will be over it and blow it off once you two laugh together once or twice.
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(nice name:)) well if shes gonna start a big fight with you cuz u supposedly called her a jerk, then shes not that good a friend now is she? especially since she prolly juss heard it and didnt check with you first..but i hope she sees that it wasnt u and u guys can be friends again!!!!
*jesikuh
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ah... you made little mistake there. you said sorry. if you told her you were sorry, now she REALLY thinks you called her a jerk, cause you basically admitted it by apologizing for it. just leave her alone for a little bit, let her think about it, and tell her you never said that. if that doesn't work, send her a letter, or just give her a note... i doubt your friendship will be broken just because you called her a jerk, but just let her have some time to realiz that.
~accolade~
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give her time to cool off. if she's a friend then she'll get over it soon enough. don't worry about it.
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First off, don't worry about it; it's a stupid fight she'll realize that she doesnt wanna lose a friend over it.. i mean come on a jerk? even if you did call her that what's the big deal..nothign to start a big fight over and i think if she were really yoru friend she would stop being a stuck up bitch and she would believe what you say..hope i helped.
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tell her u are searios and u did not call her a jerk and then see if see belevies u and if she dose not just say ur sorry
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you should just be like i didnt call you a jerk , but if thats what you wanna think go ahead. But i kno the truth , and the truth is i didnt say it. And just give her time to get over it. Hope i helped =)
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You guys are friends..I think your friend just needs a little space. 99% of the time fights like these are resolved. Dont bend over backwards tooo much..but maybe make her a card? Im sure things will be ok shortly. If not..send me a question in my inbox!
good luck! hope i helped
-melissa-
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Hey Jessica! Try sitting your friend down and just telling her the truth.. look her in the eyes and just be like "You're my friend, I wouldn't call you a jerk, Please just believe me, why would I call you one to begin with? I don't want a dumb rumor to start a big fight with us" Just say something like that and just make sure she knows that you didn't call her a jerk. Hope this helps and good luck! If you still need help, just post a message in my inbox.
xoxo Kourtney
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have her over and yall do some girl things together..and tell her you love her and you would never say anything to hurt her like that. if that doesn't work send her flowers with an i'm sorry note one it. It should work. I hope i helped
if you have anymore questions then just drop on in my inbox.
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jus' giv her space for now ...cuz she may need 2 get rid of some steam!! maybe call her in a couple of weeks and let her know that u are truly sorry and that u would neva say anything about her 2 ruin ur friendship ..let her know how much u mean 2 her ..and there is no otha friend like her ....but if that doesn't work out then jus let her come 2 u when she is readi ...or go off and find new friends 2 hangout with!! hope it works out!!
xoxo,
.*.BeSs.*.
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