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Hey whatsup My name is Jacki and yes i guess you can say i have been through alot both mentsally and physically love..Boys..Girls.The bases of -Sex-...friends..people dieing everything i am very mature for my age beleive it or not people say i look like im 17 idnno if thats good or bad ha well im very much into this on guy his name is Brian and were jsut frends i guess with benefits hes older than me but age dosn't matter atleast to -me- im very much into Softball Dancing and Soccer i have many many friends from alot of cities both guys and girls and well lets just say DONT BE AFRAID TO ASK ME NETHING!!
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ok this is a much longer story then im writing it as but i wanted to sum it up. theres this guy i liked about a month ago that i didnt know personally all that well but he was cute and real funny. so i told some of my friends about it and they knew him so they were going to talk to him for me. well i was telling my other friend "sally" about this and i was all excited and then she drops the bomb and says "ummm im madly in love with him" and i didnt know what to say so i was just like um ok well i g2g or w/e n i signed off. i told her that i was kinda over him but now he MIGHT want to go out with me and idk if sally would be ok with it or not.
what should i do? :\ (link)
WoW thats a good qustiion i normally go by chiicks before diicks but iit dusnt really come iin for thiis questiion. SoOo i say you should probably go out with him i mean common she wouldnt have second thoughts if he asked her out iim sure she wouldnnt care about your feelings cuz she iis supposly MADLY IN LOVE lol you know? aleast you care about her feeliing but i say give it ago see how u feel


ARE YOU A VIRGIN? (link)
Yep i am lol


Hey, its your advice columnist NicoleMarie. I had my first sonogram yesterday but its still 2 early to see if its a boy or girl. But now i'm excited. Can anyone give any ideas for baby names? But nothing too common. Thank you! (link)
OMG I LOVE making up diifferent names and theyre really unique to only girls though
GIRLS NAMES-Sunshine Shine Shea Rissa Lacey Ryan Nicola Merecedes Bianca Vianca Kendra Janelle Chleo Sky Chantel


My best friend and i are practically sisters and now my mom mite have to move into another state because of her job in the next 2 years. I kinda want to move because where we live- everything is boring and nothing ever happens it seems like- and our house is teenie tiny and i wish we had a new one- and we can afford one- but i really don't want to leave her. We grew up together and we are like all each other ever had!! My parents are asking me about my opinion on this and i don't know what to tell them. I know i'll have friends there but i will never find one like her. I could probly visit her a lot too. Just i dunno how i will be if we do move- i am scared. (link)
Well sometimes its good to meat new people and youguys can still keep in otuch im sure u could see her on like weekends and stuff and talk


ok. i dont smoke. But alot of people in my grade do. im only going into 8th grade and i turn 14 in january! alot of people that i know have at least tried smoking. recently i have been having these dreams that i smoked and i liked it..then i'd wake up. is this bad? should i have already tried it. i think want to. thx for any advice! (link)
well theres alot to that don't do it just because your friends do it or whatever and smoking is awful ive never tried it in my life and i hope i never do if you like it u get addicted and ur only 13-14 thats really young by the time ur older you will probably have problems with your lungs if you do itto much but try it if you want to see if u like it or not then take it from there


I was talkin to my ex boyfriend( who i still love way to much!!) and he sed he didn't really like me anymore..i would do anything to be with him again but what should i say to make him love me back..cuz i really would do anything to be with him again..please help me (link)
Well you can'y really push him to do anything because sorry to say but if he dose not like you ..its hard to get that back try to hang out with him sometimes flrit and touchy feely moves



this might be kinda stupid, but is there anyway to practice making out, or having sex, besides masturbating? (link)
Ok straight out im not BI! but when i was littler like around 12 or 11 i usta do it with my friend alll timeee wheni slept over and shit and if you want to and feel comfortable anough this dosnt mean your bi but when you kiss her when time gets right ask her is she wants to do anything more than kiss


What does a guy do when they finger you ? does it hurt? could you explain what it feels like help please
i'll rate good!!! (link)
Its when a guy sticks his fingeres most of the time two to start off in ur pussy and feels around then he stick it in you and yes it feels incredible and it might hurt after awile because he might go faster but the first miinutes of it it feels ASWOME


hey i need help, i dont know what to do. i found out that my boyfriend doesn't like something about me and i dont know if i should confront him or just pretend i never found out. (link)
First of all if he really loves you NOTHING would be wrong you should be beautiful and perfect in his eyez

hope i helped JaCkI

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Ive been doing good dealing with my break up with my boyfriend, but lately its bugging the crap out of me cause i still love him. And right now Im having a very bad moment. Im a cutter, but havent cut since january. Right now I feel like i wanna hurt myself and i dont know what to do. i feel like i could kill myself right now. SOMEBODY TELL ME WHAT TO DO!!!! :o( (link)
Sweety went through the EXACT same thing because what i basically felt like doing that was the only pain i could actaully control if that makes sense?Well what you need to do is just try to stop it like i did if you ever did it and actaully tried to reely kill yoursself just take a deep breathe and think how much more miserable your ex boyfriends lifee would be and you ovisally dont wanna hurt him right that would VERY much and thin kabout oyu parents and all your friends that would really suck you have so much to look forward in life and dont let something like that make you wanna die trust me i know this might seem pretty harmful but theyre are so many more things in life that will be 10 times worse than that if your strong you will pull through it all depends on that

I hope i helped if u wanna talk to me more my sn is OoBabieGirl1oO


my best friend is really kewl and everything but she's stubborn and she wants to have sex but she just turned 14 and she doesn't even have a boy frined but how do i talk to her about the dangers and stuff?
signed,
confused (link)
WAYYY TO YOUNGGGGGG tell her nnot to grow up so fast i mean cmonnn


okay well i have this rly rly good friends and she is like the only one who understands me and can help me w. my probs...but...my mom absolutly HATES her and wont let me hang out w. her and doesnt want me on the phone w. her that much any more becuz she thinks shes a " bad influence" or some shit like that but i didnt tell neone this to my friend cuz she is the truest friend i have and i dont wanna stop bein friends w. her....wat do i do? (link)
Well what you need to do is jsut go with it dont do the stuff she does and your mom CANNOT control who you hang out with it dosnt matter if there bad because you dont do the stuff she does so tell her to forget about it shes your friends YOU DONT CHOOSE HOO UR MOM HANGS OUT WITH soo why should she!


plz u all i'm bout 2 loose my best friend..ok look...we were supose 2 meet @ 1 of our hang outs ...n then i didnt show up..n i didnt call her and she got pissed but i have done these things b4 not meaning to hurt her i had just had a death in my family (father) and everything was hecktic..i have told her this over n over again...she doesnt get it...wat do i do???
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Im sorry for the lost but if she was a true friend she would understand that u need spend some ime away from things jsut to think things over but please just call her if u can't do nething because thats not far because you wouldnt like it if she did that to u because she could be doing somthing else than wait for you...


hey when my friend is on her period and she keeps telling me to do stuff forher and her excuses is always " I am on my perios and i dont feel good" and i cant help but do it for her cause i am just that good of a friend. Should i tell her to do it her damn self or keep on being a good friend? (link)
Take it from a person who has it she is just using u cause she is lazy tell her to get up and do it herself and its good to get around when u have it its not like a disease when u cant do anything so basically she is lazey


Ok..my friend always talks about her ex BF. Ive heard about him soo much and im tired of it. i mean shes not dating him nemore! I try to laugh it off and say..oh no ur talking about justin again but it doesnt she just keeps talking about him!..what should i do?

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Iwent through the same exact thing onlyshe was still with him and sent way to much time with him and she kept talking about him and it came to the point where she choose him over her friends wich is not good at all so basically what you should do is just tell him i would mind if u stopped talking about him and if u always do then just go back out with him try to changee the subject and tell her i dont like talking about him


hi my name is jessica and my friend thinks i called her jerk when i didnt now she started a big fight i said sry but i think shes still mad at mewhat should i do!!! PLZ HELP (link)
look she needs to get over it if she was a true friend she would and jerk isnt that bad to be called by for a name so she needs to get over it quickley and if she dosnt then she isnt a true frend!!!


hey my mom said whenever i want to become sexually active she would give be birth control pills does that mean she cares or not? (link)
Uhmm yeah deffintly she dosnt want you tob\ be pregent damn i wish my mom did that and i could actaully tell her take advantage of it be lucky that she is gunna do that for u and that she cares they cost alot of money to soo that is really good


im 12 yrs old i dont know anyone who has had sex (well people my age and a couple yars older) but when i read some of these problems on advicenators most of the people are like 13 or 14 and say that they have sex a lot its kind of creepy my sisters 14 but she hasnt had sex im wondering if these people are either lying about their age or more mature than me. i feel like when im 13 or 14 that il be soo pressured into sex and stuff. i hear these unbelievable stories of guys and girls having sex since they were 12. its so perverted and i mean is it weird im not ready or as into it as other people are? (link)
Hey sweetey well first of all i wasn't like you at all at 12 i no it mite sound slutty but i was iinto all that like i said every person is different and has there limits and some are maturer than others but thats dusnt meen they want to have sex i have never had it yet and if i will i would want to use protection and keep it on the low and it would have to be a serouse realtionship not jsut a one night thing and also dunt be pushed into it hun say no jsut because peopkle uno do it dus not meen u have to most of the time it is for the best to wait until ur a little bit older
HOpe i helped! Jacki


Hey im 13 and i think that is a good age to make out but my mopm dosnt ! what do i do! im ready she isnt!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! (link)
Hey well first of all ino this is bad but YOUR MOM DOSN'T have to know you dont have to tell her everything and well yes thirteen is a good age to get invovled with bys i guess it depends your limits and if you wanna do it then go for it deffintly but if you know somehow your mom would find out and get mad then think twice about it and who you tell! Jacki-


ok..im not extemely popular..i`d say im in the middle. Well anyway theres a guy..we went out..then broke up.
Lately ivve ben so lonely that ive been thinking of getting backk together with him...maybe just to hook up. I think he`d be fine with this idea..but I dont want it getting around. i dont want ppl to know WHAT we will do..or that i did it with him. Ive had bad experiences with this kinda stuff getting around school. Give me advice on wat to do? Thanks
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Well...ive had this done to me sooo many times because well you don't really wanna be known as well a slut not that it is or just about your personal life...so wat you do is just don;t tell anyone unless it is someone you trust or you know wont tell anyone and if you know he wont tell anyone then dont tell him not to but if you think he would jsut before you do it talk to him on hte phone say something like if we ever hooked up and did stuff togetheri dont want it to be all around the school so can u keep it between me and you
I h ope it helped! Love always Jacki




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