hey i need help, i dont know what to do. i found out that my boyfriend doesn't like something about me and i dont know if i should confront him or just pretend i never found out.
blake08 answered Saturday August 7 2004, 9:25 pm: Help me...
You need to ask him and if he says nothing confrint him just be honest and it will al play out....if you need more advice e-mail me at big_blake08@yahoo.com or add me on yahoo as big_blake08...
NloveWitMotoX answered Thursday August 5 2004, 9:39 pm: confront him...if he denies he has a problem...beat his ass! it works! i do it all the time! and my man knows better then to hide his feelings from me anymore! REALLY it works! just b ABUSIVE! kinda...in a flirty way. but do it! [ NloveWitMotoX's advice column | Ask NloveWitMotoX A Question ]
XoSoCcErBaBioX answered Wednesday August 4 2004, 9:03 pm: i would confront him, and try talking it out with him. ask him what he doesn't like about you and (depending on the type of chracteristic he doesn't like) tell him how you feel about that. then i think you can take it from there. Hoped i helped...*gabby* [ XoSoCcErBaBioX's advice column | Ask XoSoCcErBaBioX A Question ]
Katie answered Wednesday August 4 2004, 3:01 pm: I would first wait to see if he confronts you. if he doesn't then confront him. be honest. a relationship does not work without honesty and trust. remember that! hope i helped. good luck and God bless!
xChainMeUp13x answered Monday August 2 2004, 1:02 am: u shouldnt care wut other people think about u if he doesnt like sumthin bout u nd is gonna go be all stupid bout it then u don deserve him u should find sum one who likes u for who u r thats wut u deserve
hope i helped
.:Keryn:. [ xChainMeUp13x's advice column | Ask xChainMeUp13x A Question ]
AskLambchop answered Sunday August 1 2004, 9:26 pm: I would confront him because a relationship is built on honesty and although it sounds corny... comunication is the key... hehe... :) HOPE I HELPED!!! [ AskLambchop's advice column | Ask AskLambchop A Question ]
B-Munny501 answered Sunday August 1 2004, 4:18 pm: I would confront him about the problem if I were you. If someone loves you, they are supposed to accept every flaw. Just be prepared that he might not like the fact that you confronted him. [ B-Munny501's advice column | Ask B-Munny501 A Question ]
BlueEyedBlondie725 answered Saturday July 31 2004, 11:37 pm: Hey! I think you should just sit him down and talk to him about it and just be like "I heard someone say... that you didn't like something about me...and I just wanted to know what you didn't like about me because then I can change that so it won't bother you." Just say something like that just talk to him about it. Hope this helps!
alderworth1 answered Saturday July 31 2004, 4:31 am: well what is it that he found out cause that is the deciding factor cause if it's somethin small and it took him that long to notice it's prolly nothin and nothing to worry about and who cares if he don't like that part about
JSunshine143 answered Friday July 30 2004, 10:54 pm: First of all if he really loves you NOTHING would be wrong you should be beautiful and perfect in his eyez
*ashlee* answered Friday July 30 2004, 10:09 pm: ask him about it. it shouldnt be a big deal bc theres almost always at least one thing u dont like about sumbody but if it really bothers u than u need to ask him otherwise itll continue to bug u and cause bigger problems in ur relationship. [ *ashlee*'s advice column | Ask *ashlee* A Question ]
babiitee17 answered Friday July 30 2004, 10:05 pm: just play cool.. like nothings wrong. but, if it gets to a certain point and he starts to act weird then defiently confront him but dont be like WHAT THE HELL IS WRONG lol just be like.. hey whats going on between us.. you ok?
cheer07 answered Friday July 30 2004, 9:36 pm: you should definatly confront him about it, if you want to have a serious relationship with him, you need to be honest and feel comfortable talking to him... hope it helped! [ cheer07's advice column | Ask cheer07 A Question ]
Siren_Cytherea answered Friday July 30 2004, 8:53 pm: Tell him what's on your mind.
Or, in this case, tell him you know what's on his mind (tell him how you found out, too). If something's bothering you (or him) and is has to do with your relationship, it needs to be talked about.
At least, that's what I think.
Hope I helped!
-Siren =) [ Siren_Cytherea's advice column | Ask Siren_Cytherea A Question ]
MainMan2230 answered Friday July 30 2004, 8:50 pm: you should definitely confront him. just be all like i found out you dont like dadada about me. and If he says yea if its nothing ungodly hard to change maybe you might wanna think about it. your call. and if he says no then ya no he's a liar and you prob arnt gonna be able to have a good relationship anyways cause lieing about something like that isnt bad but its gonna turn into cheating and a bounch of other shit. hope i could help [ MainMan2230's advice column | Ask MainMan2230 A Question ]
CheerMMS24 answered Friday July 30 2004, 8:42 pm: You should definately talk to him about it! If its a rumor, you can never be sure. He is the one you should get all information from before making assumptions. Ask him about it, and maybe there are things you don't like about him, so maybe you could confront him about those things! Just talk to him. I hope I Helped!! :)
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