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Ok..my friend always talks about her ex BF. Ive heard about him soo much and im tired of it. i mean shes not dating him nemore! I try to laugh it off and say..oh no ur talking about justin again but it doesnt she just keeps talking about him!..what should i do?
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0o0o0 That sounds familiar!! lol!! Well just tell her that she needs to stop talkin about him.. if you can set her up with sum1 else mayb she'll finally stop talkin about him so you wont have to hear anymore of it!! When your on the phone with her and she starts talkin about it.. be like oh hold on. then bring up a whole different subject.. Or when ur with her.. and she starts talkin about him.. b like OHH U I GOTTA TELL u... lol.. she'll figure out u dont wanna hear it!! <3<3<3
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You need to talk with her and let her know that it's bothering you... Why the heck is she still talking about him, if they are not dating??
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go find her a new man so she can talk about someone else... or tell her to stop talking about her ex its corney... i don't know
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i seriously think u should tell her to maybe get over him or just simply ask why she talks about him sooo much if their not together anymore...see why...i mean hey, that stuffs not mean :)
*jesikuh
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Iwent through the same exact thing onlyshe was still with him and sent way to much time with him and she kept talking about him and it came to the point where she choose him over her friends wich is not good at all so basically what you should do is just tell him i would mind if u stopped talking about him and if u always do then just go back out with him try to changee the subject and tell her i dont like talking about him
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ask her to please stop talking about him with you. just tell her the truth, she should understand.
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obviously she still has feelings for him, alot of girls talk about their exes for that reason, she just wants to have the chance to hear that she is too good for him. but i understnad that hearing about him must be awful for u, so i suggest u pull her aside and say "look, im itired of hearing about ur ex, and im not sorry u guys arent together anymore because u are way too good for him, just know that, he really doesn't even deserve to be talked about."
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take her out for a girls night and tell her 'we're about all our old boyfriends' or something like that. also try to get her to go out with other guys. or if none of that works when she starts talking about him try to change the subject. and if you have to then just tell her how you feel.
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Well, if shes talking about him all the time, she probabaly has feelings for him again. Why don't you just ask her why she talks about him so much, in a nice way so she doesn't get offended. Then if she does like him, encourage her to ask him out, or hang out with them both at the same time. Good luck!!
<3 Megan
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just tell her.. that if she wants ta talk about him sometimes, thats kewl but when shes constantly talking about him, specially when there not even going out nemore .. it can just get out of hand and very anoyying .. thats all. and im sure she'll get ur point n reealise she has been over doing it. and if she dusnt see that, and she gets mad.. im sure shell get over it and ull end up being friends agen. if u were ment ta be.. <3
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Just sit her down and be like "I'm not trying to be mean or anything, but you and Justin aren't going out anymore, and you talk about him ALL the time, its getting kind of annoying. Do you still like him or something?" Just say something like that and be nice about it. And be serious when you talk to her, look her in the eyes and stuff. Hope this helps and Good luck!!!
xoxo Kourtney
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tell her ....in a nice way that u are tird of her tlakin about her boyfriend and tell she needs 2 cut down on talkin about him so much!!
Lemme kno how it works out!!
xoxo,
.*.BeSs.*.
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tell her its really botherin u! like in a non-joke way! tell her tht u understand she may still have feelins for him, but she doesnt need 2 tlk about him 24/7! theres a whole bunch of other ppl out there n alot of fun to have..dont let her waste her time on 1 person!! but approach her nicely, dont make her think ur just being mean!!
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You need to tell her, as much as you love her, you can't stand hearing about your ex all the time. It was okay at first, but she has gone too far. Maybe try to meet her to someone new you both like and can talk about! But you need to tell her or else she will never stop. Good luck!
Love, Blonde
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