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My parents and my bro dont get along at all. My parents have disagreed with my bros choices for years. My mom and dad dont want nething to do with him really. They are tired of him expecially mom. But my bro still wants to have a relationship with me (sister and bro). Should i stick with my parents or form a relationship with him.
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hes your brother! of course you should have a relationship with him, you dont have a problem with him, your parents do, parents always have problems with thier kids, they shouldn't put you in the middle of it, he's not your kid, he's your brother.
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oooooh my gosh no. if u love ur brother and u want ur brother/sister relationship to stay then to hell with ur parents. i dunno what hes done for them not to want him around but thats not exactly good parenting. just because they dont want anything to do with him doesnt mean u have to stop bein around him and talking to him too.
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i think you should at least keep in touch with him - he's family 2! and if he doesn't get along with your parents, then you may be the only family he has!
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do what your heart tells you to. it will never steer you in the wrong direction.
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i think you should get a relationship going with him, unless you think it will make matters worse for him and his (your) parents. good luck. i think you should go for it.
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well if you connect with your brother than you should go with him. but like if you don't like what your brother does then stick with your parents. in other wordsstick with the one you think is right and don't worry too much about what the other one thinks.
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have a relationship with him.. i mean put urself in his spot.. if u dint get along with ur parents, ud atleast want ur brother ta get along with you.. so that way u have SOMEONE ta go home to and talk with .. insted uv having no family. ya no wut i mean? no, definitley dont just exclude him out of ur life just becus ur parents dont agree with his choices.
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u shouldn't take sides!! talk 2 both of them!!
GOOD LUCK!!
xoxo,
.*.BeSs.*.
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If your brother didnt really do anything to you then i think you should have a relationship , because it would be unfair to both of you if you didnt have a relationship just because of your parents not getting along with him. Hope i helped!
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its not like u have 2 chose 1 or the other, hes ur brother, STAY CLOSE 2 HIM!! its an important relationship. not being able to see ur bro, and barely knowing him is the worst feeling. trust me id know from expierence. but the 1 bro i do get 2 c alot..we have the typical sister/brother relationship n i wouldnt trade it for anything!! so stay close 2 him n still be close w. ur parents, but dont chose 1 or the other!! n if ur rents r makin it so u have 2, dont tell them tht u c ur bro alot!! gl hun
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Well I don't know the choices he makes that upset your parents, but I think if your brother really loves you still, you should give him a chance. You don't want to shut him out from all family because one day he is going to need you. If you all shut him out, then he would have no where to go. Good luck!
Love, Blonde
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You should totally still have a relationship with him, and a VERY good one too. If your parents really feel this way about him then you are all he really has left in the family so you should take that and do the best you can with it. Don't let your parents bad decisions effect your good ones. Family is family and they should stick together no matter what. You and your brother have a special bond that no one can touch even if you don't know it already. Remember that your brother needs you more than ever right now so you should try your best to be there for him in everyway possible. =)
-Klepp
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do what your heart tells you to do, if you truly want to be a part of your brothers life and have hime be apart of yours then go for it...i have a brother and theres tons of times we dont get along but if theres one person i can count on in this world its him.
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Both of them love you right? Well, then, if i were you, and they both loved me, then you shouldnt have to coose between them!! Just stay out of it!!
-mandyrose
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Family life can totally suck sometimes eh? Well, i can see where your stress is ... but the fact is, is that you don't have to choose which one to remain "faithful" to. It's your parents that are tired of him, and if they don't understand that you still want your brother in your life, then they don't matter. Keep your brother in your life, and your parents should understand. Maybe if they see your brother and you closer, they might decide to forget the disagreements and see what they have been missing.
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